Middle class VS Rich family

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Middle-class parents Work extremely hard to raise their babies. They are very capable of providing a good life to their family

I have not watched all navra scenes. But i just want to put a point here as i personally belong to middle class family where we literally had nothing.

I personally have seen my parents struggling for us and we even missed our precious child hood as our parents main goal is to provide good education for us.

I actually felt that is missing in navra especially akshu. But not sure if they had shown something in the past but once you become parent you will go above and beyond to earn. We already know now even lkg is asking 1 lakh donations.

Akshu's singing career should be used to earn money. She definitely did not had any trauma associated to that as she was singing in that picnic. But she ignored her career and chose a career which may not give her constant income. I have seen her donating jams as well. So which looked like her sales were not doing well.

I have personally seen my parents tensed about it they even used to send us to grannys place so that they can concentrate more on earning. I have seen them skipping their meals too and unable to have time to cook for us as well and ended up making maggie for us.

But that's real life scenario but here i don't see that enthu in these two ppl. As abhin is letting tourist ppl to ditch him and he is providing free service to them and akshu instead of having strategy to sell those jams she either make nav sell it to her tourist or she just donates left over jams. It could be either i missed it or they are not serious enough.

For me if they have really not shown this kind of struggles i will not be able to relate to them as middle class family. Ab bhi they are simply spending time in udaipur bacche ka school bhi gaya and they lost so many days which they could have spent on earning my dad even panicks if he misses a day in his work.

I know it's a bad writing or they really wanted to show something with this crap writing.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I have not watched all navra scenes. But i just want to put a point here as i personally belong to middle class family where we literally had nothing.

I personally have seen my parents struggling for us and we even missed our precious child hood as our parents main goal is to provide good education for us.

I actually felt that is missing in navra especially akshu. But not sure if they had shown something in the past but once you become parent you will go above and beyond to earn. We already know now even lkg is asking 1 lakh donations.

Akshu's singing career should be used to earn money. She definitely did not had any trauma associated to that as she was singing in that picnic. But she ignored her career and chose a career which may not give her constant income. I have seen her donating jams as well. So which looked like her sales were not doing well.

I have personally seen my parents tensed about it they even used to send us to grannys place so that they can concentrate more on earning. I have seen them skipping their meals too and unable to have time to cook for us as well and ended up making maggie for us.

But that's real life scenario but here i don't see that enthu in these two ppl. As abhin is letting tourist ppl to ditch him and he is providing free service to them and akshu instead of having strategy to sell those jams she either make nav sell it to her tourist or she just donates left over jams. It could be either i missed it or they are not serious enough.

For me if they have really not shown this kind of struggles i will not be able to relate to them as middle class family. Ab bhi they are simply spending time in udaipur bacche ka school bhi gaya and they lost so many days which they could have spent on earning my dad even panicks if he misses a day in his work.

I know it's a bad writing or they really wanted to show something with this crap writing.

I don't want to compare with real life scenario...but let's just compare in the serial itself...look at Abhir and roohi....Despite being rich roohi don't have good upbringing and look at abhir, he knows how to be optimistic and content....Akshara and Abhinav have savings for Abhir education.....They haven't did anything less for abhir and his happiness

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

I don't want to compare with real life scenario...but let's just compare in the serial itself...look at Abhir and roohi....Despite being rich roohi don't have good upbringing and look at abhir, he knows how to be optimistic and content....Akshara and Abhinav have savings for Abhir education.....They haven't did anything less for abhir and his happiness

Competition is very high and abhir will feel left out.

Now he is still a kid. But in future they require more and more. As i said that zeal to earn more is missing in navra.

I have never seen them having a convo ki paisa kam pad raha hai should we try some other way of earning. Should i resume my singing. Woh pov mujhe dikha nahi.

It could be bad writing too. But as i said parents will have that zeal to give best for their child.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I have not watched all navra scenes. But i just want to put a point here as i personally belong to middle class family where we literally had nothing.

I personally have seen my parents struggling for us and we even missed our precious child hood as our parents main goal is to provide good education for us.

I actually felt that is missing in navra especially akshu. But not sure if they had shown something in the past but once you become parent you will go above and beyond to earn. We already know now even lkg is asking 1 lakh donations.

Akshu's singing career should be used to earn money. She definitely did not had any trauma associated to that as she was singing in that picnic. But she ignored her career and chose a career which may not give her constant income. I have seen her donating jams as well. So which looked like her sales were not doing well.

I have personally seen my parents tensed about it they even used to send us to grannys place so that they can concentrate more on earning. I have seen them skipping their meals too and unable to have time to cook for us as well and ended up making maggie for us.

But that's real life scenario but here i don't see that enthu in these two ppl. As abhin is letting tourist ppl to ditch him and he is providing free service to them and akshu instead of having strategy to sell those jams she either make nav sell it to her tourist or she just donates left over jams. It could be either i missed it or they are not serious enough.

For me if they have really not shown this kind of struggles i will not be able to relate to them as middle class family. Ab bhi they are simply spending time in udaipur bacche ka school bhi gaya and they lost so many days which they could have spent on earning my dad even panicks if he misses a day in his work.

I know it's a bad writing or they really wanted to show something with this crap writing.

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

They had shown abhir being sent to school and navra caring for his education They were not rich but they did have means to give the kid education food and basic amenities even Akshara had orders from specific clients she used to do push sales but that everyone does All perishable food is donated to charity go to any food outlet they will tell you there is no point comparing real-life scenario to reel life

Who said middle class people can't raise kids yar! majority of the world population is middle class. In that case, no one raising kids!

I came from the middle class. I and my brother used to see my mom struggle as my dad cheated on her.

still, she made us successful in life. I did my PG with honors and worked as lead Engineer in the US and my brother as a TV anchor and actor.

leave all of this, how come Abhir is more successful and mature than Ru!

It makes no sense anyways. Being middle class doesn't make you a bad parent. But Ak literally isn't middle class, and she still lived like that and had her child live like that ( him not getting his own room, being worried about going on trips etc). She is herself an educated woman, there was really no reason for her to be a housewife, esp if they needed more money. And yeah singing thing was shown as trauma, and then suddenly it disappeared, and she is singing again now. Besides, now they live with the Goenkas!

It really isn't a middle-class vs rich debate. It's a who is more foolish contest.

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

They had shown abhir being sent to school and navra caring for his education They were not rich but they did have means to give the kid education food and basic amenities even Akshara had orders from specific clients she used to do push sales but that everyone does All perishable food is donated to charity go to any food outlet they will tell you there is no point comparing real life scenario to reel life

In i have seen many ppl just compare real life and reel life and judge ppl who wants to see abhira together with demeaning word should that stop too? Reel is reel. Logic kyun doondhna in both the times. If i can't speak logic here ppl can not speak logic in other instances too.

80cr people in India depend on government for food so India isn't a country where it can be said that rich people can provide better upbringing to kids. All of us are from middle class

Ruhi has been given everything, she is immature for her age but at the same time, Abhir had to grow up faster than he should have, a child should never have to hide his illness because he fears that his condition will increase his parents' worries

The kid was in pain and chose to hide it, that's not how a kid should be raised

We weren't rich and I earn enough for myself but even when I had COVID at the age of 23, I went to my parents because I know I wouldn't have to worry about anything if they are around, they'll take care of me

Originally posted by: lagjagale

It makes no sense anyways. Being middle class doesn't make you a bad parent. But Ak literally isn't middle class, and she still lived like that and had her child live like that ( him not getting his own room, being worried about going on trips etc). She is herself an educated woman, there was really no reason for her to be a housewife, esp if they needed more money. And yeah singing thing was shown as trauma, and then suddenly it disappeared, and she is singing again now. Besides, now they live with the Goenkas!

It really isn't a middle-class vs rich debate. It's a who is more foolish contest.

@bold

Middle class can raise a child. i am from middle class family who is greatful to my parents.

My only point is custody has to look into all aspects. It's future of the kid which is at stake..they will talk about everything and akshu was studying law she could have improved her situation so that no one could raise this point. I may not be explicit but that was my point.

Akshu can not expect anyone not to question her status when she had a choice to improve it by either using dance or singing when she realized jam is not working for her..