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Posted: 2 years ago
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Again a superinteresting episode:

Synopsis first: AK while defending AbhiN, blurts out the truth and everone is shocked. Before things could go worse, Abhir comes and asks if they are fighting. That puts the argument to an end.

Back at Birla house, mahima accuses Manjiri of having double standards. That conversation was a delight to hear...

AK, AbhiN are just processing what happened, too numb to come to terms with it. BP thanks AbhiN for whatever he did for AK and Abhir. In future, I will not be surprised if BP stand with AbhiN over AK. The hug between BP and AbhiN was so pure to see. AbhiN is no more his 'Jamaisa' but a son he would adore.

At Goenka house, US chachi, says Abhira are the couple. Instead of making 4 people unhappy, atleast make Abhira happy.

BM tells AK to put efforts to make her marriage with AbhiN work. AK kind of agrees to it. AbhiN overhears to convo, tells AK that he is never going to impose the relation on AK but he is uncomfortable as all have come to know the truth of their relationship.

Episode ends.

Precap: AK files for Abhir's custody.

Now, my thoughts(lol):

1. AK's expectations from AbhiM: even now, AK has some string attached to AbhiM. She expects that atleast AbhiM would do the right thing this time. In yesterday's episode, when Manjiri declared her guilty of wrongdoing, she had some expectation that AbhiM will take a right stand. But, he said, she is guilty and snap went another string.

2. Manjiri is right: one comment from Manjiri that I liked was, why AK made everyone live a life that is incomplete. I know that we can't find faults with the relationship between AK and AbhiN, as the terms and conditions were predecided and accepted, it did bind AbhiN into a loveless marriage. The world is not a ideal place, neither human beings. Everyone is unique with some positives and negatives. One can't have it all. Living with someone for his positive attributes for 6 long years while longing for someone who has some other positive attributes is what AK did. Hence, I liked the question by Manjiri.

3. Effect of blurting out of the truth: Yes, as Krinya had mentioned, AK told the truth to tell everyone what AbhiN has done for Abhir. But, honestly, she disrespected their relationship big time. AbhiN may become god in someone's eye, but a man who could not become a husband in 6 long years in eyes of others, a failed man. Now AbhiN will not be able defend her or his defence would not count as he is not even a husband. Then by what 'haq', he will defend AK? Their relationship is now open to manipulations by many.Some would want their relationship to work while others not. People will construe that AK has not moved on but in reality she is in the process. Her efforts to make relationship work may be felt as forced by others inclding AbhiN.

I liked how AbhiN handled the situation. One think till date that I liked about AbhiN is he rarely hides his feelings from AK. He did not get angry at AK for making such a big blunder and he did not even go on backfoot atleast today. He said he is not going to impose the relationship on AK but at the same time indicated that he is standing at the same place. He wants the relationship to work. The ball is in AK's court. I do not want AbhiN to go on sacrifice mode, but let go mode. AK should come clean about where she stands on this relationship. AK can not have a cake and eat it too. I would respect any decision of hers which has come from place of honesty. Else, I would loose the respect for the AK character.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Technically now he can no longer take a stand for Akshara or Abhir and if he does (which he might will) he’ll be shown his place by the Birlas; he’s not a father nor a husband.

Abhimanyu doesn’t consider him Abhir’s father and Akshara doesn’t consider him her husband.

Posted: 2 years ago
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Thanks for the update dear and nice post and thoughts .. Especially the last statements ❤️❤️

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Noorain13

Technically now he can no longer take a stand for Akshara or Abhir and if he does (which he might will) he’ll be shown his place by the Birlas; he’s not a father nor a husband.

Abhimanyu doesn’t consider him Abhir’s father and Akshara doesn’t consider him her husband.

Why not? He is still her husband, having physical relations is not the only haq in a husband and wife relationship. Has everything boiled down to only that? He has truly cared for her, he shouldn’t feel ashamed.



Why has he lost rights to defend akashara as a husband? They have spent happy years with each other and have weathered through a lot of ups and downs. Soul love and loyalty in ITV is sadly being equated to physical relationship. It’s not just this show, but most shows in ITV


Abhinav shouldn’t step back from speaking up cos of this thing

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: focus7

Why not? He is still her husband, having physical relations is not the only haq in a husband and wife relationship. Has everything boiled down to only that? He has truly cared for her, he shouldn’t feel ashamed.



Why has he lost rights to defend akashara as a husband? They have spent happy years with each other and have weathered through a lot of ups and downs. Soul love and loyalty in ITV is sadly being equated to physical relationship. It’s not just this show, but most shows in ITV


Abhinav shouldn’t step back from speaking up cos of this thing

He will. He can't see AK in pain or get disrespected. But, the value his defence had will no longer be there. Manjiri, during Kalash insult, said you hv all the right to defend your wife. Now, she will say, with what 'haq' you are defending AK? The woman who herself does not consider you her husband. That is what I meant. Legally, yes, he can but socially, he has lost it.. ( my POV)

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Haven't watched the episode but from the precap itself I was feeling really bad for AbhiN. I could never see it as her defending AbhiN more like defending herself and it must have caused so much embarrassment to AbhiN. Now everyone around is going to comment and judge the relationship. I myself could never fathom why they made AkshNav relationship like that. How could Akshara not move on amd have a normal relationship with Abhinav? I guess they just wanted ti show whatever said and done she couldn't move on from her one and only love

They seem to be moving towards Abhira reunion now, story seems more focused on them. When they went back to Kasauli I had felt they will eventually head for AkshNav.. looks like its not so. I only feel bad for AbhiN and Abhir in this. More for AbhiN. He got stuck in this mess unnecessarily and in the end he will have no family and 6 wasted years. If they wanted Abhira reunion only then why create a beautiful character like AbhiN, make people love him and then discard him? Why show AkshNav and Abhir living happily only to break apart the sharma family? They could have just shown Akshara raising the kid alone...


Sorry for the rant😆

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: focus7

Why not? He is still her husband, having physical relations is not the only haq in a husband and wife relationship. Has everything boiled down to only that? He has truly cared for her, he shouldn’t feel ashamed.



Why has he lost rights to defend akashara as a husband? They have spent happy years with each other and have weathered through a lot of ups and downs. Soul love and loyalty in ITV is sadly being equated to physical relationship. It’s not just this show, but most shows in ITV


Abhinav shouldn’t step back from speaking up cos of this thing


The last thing I remember is Akshara saying they’re not husband and wife but only parents to Abhir in todays episode. That’s why I even made of the fact that akshara said something stupid like this. Is that what they’re actually promoting that husband and wife can only be in a complete relationship if they have sex especially if it’s coming from the female lead herself?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Noorain13


The last thing I remember is Akshara saying they’re not husband and wife but only parents to Abhir in todays episode. That’s why I even made of the fact that akshara said something stupid like this. Is that what they’re actually promoting that husband and wife can only be in a complete relationship if they have sex especially if it’s coming from the female lead herself?

It looks like that based on the discussion Surekha and fam were having annd BM had with akshara.


because Akshara was happy in Kasauli as far as what they showed to us. What else is missing in their relationship as husband and wife ?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: focus7

It looks like that based on the discussion Surekha and fam were having annd BM had with akshara.


because Akshara was happy in Kasauli as far as what they showed to us. What else is missing in their relationship as husband and wife ?

Rather I feel, Ak's statement made people feel that she has not moved on but in reality she is shown moving on. After, AbhiM's visit to kasauli, she told AbhiN that they are the family but one could sense that there was no genuineness in her saying that. She was hiding her feelings. Even when she said, 'Ajase sirf Akshara..', even that was half hearted. But after shiv mandir episode, her hug looked genuine, when AbhiN was arrested, she said, ' AbhiN ko mere sath hi rehana hai..'..that looked genuine, AkshNav moments after that looked genuine.

Even today, when Abhir came during the fight, their non- verbal communication was there to see. I get husband- wife vibes from them post AbiN's release from jail. She happily went on date with him. Did puja with him. She knows how sincere and sensitive AbhiN is. If she flips after this, she would be in the same category as AbhiM. Abhira will be a villian pair union then. Even if AbhiN is shown dead, and she marries AbhiM, that would be forced Abhira union too. For me if they show Abhira union, it would have not meaning to it.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: focus7

It looks like that based on the discussion Surekha and fam were having annd BM had with akshara.


because Akshara was happy in Kasauli as far as what they showed to us. What else is missing in their relationship as husband and wife ?


I am referring to when she blurt out the truth saying pati patni wala to koi rishta hai hi nahi sirf Abhir ke maa baap hain something along the lines.

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