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Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

I can reply to each points but it will be a waste of time for both of us - you won't bother to go through each points or look from other perspective too. So not posting that

Abhimanyu had more backstory than the main fl akshara. His issues, traumas everything was shown again and again. But somehow it's not visible to people. People can write pges defending akshara ka trauma, why she runs away, why she lies steals show faltu attitude but same courtesy won't be given to abhi. So keep hating. Time will tell this villain will stay in show or not.

Lol

Abhimanyu had more trauma than Akshara it seems. The only problem in his life is his dad is an abuser and a cheater. Even the direct victim of it, Manjari doesn't act like a victim as much as Abhimnayu does. The moment he became a doctor and was standing on his own feet, he could've persuaded his mom to get a divorce and stayed away from his dad. He didn't do shit. He just let her live with Harsh till he freaking turned 35 probably.

And Akshara. She lost both her parents. Lived her entire life with a sister who was constantly undermining and harassing her. Lost her step mother too and was accused for it. Was constantly taunted for it. Did not have a solid support throughout her life, like there wasn't someone defending her and living only for her, unlike Abhimanyu who had Manjari.

And then she comes across an asshole who her sister also is in love with. Till the first Tilak episode she wasn't even sure he was in love with her and she definitely wasn't love with him. She thought it's an attraction. But of course, Aarohi and her relationship with her sister was more important to her and she took a decision rather than choosing a stranger over her sister hoping to finally mend the relationship.

But he made her life a living hell. Oh God. Even after marriage, every single time she did something for the family, he got upset and angry with her, she was treated like crap by most of his family members. Was heartbroken finding our her infertility, fought with her husband irrespective of the danger to her life to keep her kids and finally was thrown away by her so called soul wala pyaar. I also thought, for Abhimanyu, Akshara was more important than the kids, wasn't he against the pregnancy considering the complications and danger to her life? Anyway

But Abhimanyu has way more trauma. Bechara.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Lol

Abhimanyu had more trauma than Akshara it seems. The only problem in his life is his dad is an abuser and a cheater. Even the direct victim of it, Manjari doesn't act like a victim as much as Abhimnayu does. The moment he became a doctor and was standing on his own feet, he could've persuaded his mom to get a divorce and stayed away from his dad. He didn't do shit. He just let her live with Harsh till he freaking turned 35 probably.

And Akshara. She lost both her parents. Lived her entire life with a sister who was constantly undermining and harassing her. Lost her step mother too and was accused for it. Was constantly taunted for it. Did not have a solid support throughout her life, like there wasn't someone defending her and living only for her, unlike Abhimanyu who had Manjari.

And then she comes across an asshole who her sister also is in love with. Till the first Tilak episode she wasn't even sure he was in love with her and she definitely wasn't love with him. She thought it's an attraction. But of course, Aarohi and her relationship with her sister was more important to her and she took a decision rather than choosing a stranger over her sister hoping to finally mend the relationship.

But he made her life a living hell. Oh God. Even after marriage, every single time she did something for the family, he got upset and angry with her, she was treated like crap by most of his family members. Was heartbroken finding our her infertility, fought with her husband irrespective of the danger to her life to keep her kids and finally was thrown away by her so called soul wala pyaar. I also thought, for Abhimanyu, Akshara was more important than the kids, wasn't he against the pregnancy considering the complications and danger to her life? Anyway

But Abhimanyu has way more trauma. Bechara.

You clearly didn't read properly what I read. Just like your view on show, pick and choose what's convenient for you 😂 i said the serial showed abhis's trauma more properly. How he hated his parents fight, how he hated his dad, his anxiety, his guilt, him hiding under white bedsheet, every single thing. Compare this to akshara - till this day she didn't have guts to question bp why he never supported her over arohi. Or never questioned arohi why she never stop the taunt on sirat. Heck, akshara don't even seen to miss her own biological mom. It's probably a generation thing for her, just like she forgot her own mom and dad she wants her kid to do the same 😂😂

If akshara ka every thing can be compared and exegerized by some folks why it don't happen for abhi? Just cause he lives with his family? Or its that his parents didn't die? Oh I forgot, watch and rant as per convenience

Please don't bother replying to this. Not really interested to have conversations with people who namecall and unable to handle replies without their gang mates.

Originally posted by: Sanju_9

I think you've not read my other replies. I only like & dislike reel ckts to varied degree, my hate is saved for people in real life. I've written several times how Abhimanyu has been scarred by his parent's marriage & that his family is indeed toxic. His motivations are v.much visible to us, but that doesn't mean his actions can be applauded or liked. I'm going off-topic but many of the criminals are from a neglected section of the society, who never had any circumstance in their favour, which is often the reason they end up doing crimes. But does that backstory make their crime okay? No na bcos even tho anger, pettiness, jealousy, ego, selfishness are all human traits, they aren't still considered as good to possess. ....Akshara is a flawed person too & is criticized not just by people who like Abhimanyu but also by people who don't. Also, many who like Abhinav's ckt have themselves criticized him for not drawing boundaries & being overemphatic. Even tho Manjhari has a backstory of being mistreated by her husband whom she loved, looked down upon by her family for being a housewife, getting cheated on & loosing her son.. still she gets bashed daily by all d forum janta. Every ckt. gets it here.. why's it taken so personally for Abhimanyu when he's in d wrong is not understandable. His actions are human, are multifaceted, are bcos of his traumas, but that still don't make them right....And ofc he'll stay in the show.. where else is his ckt going? Harshad's bringing awards for dkp so the PH wouldn't be planning on letting him go.

Are you in this forum since gen3 starting? If not let me give you rundown in short - the dude was introduced and every single thing about him was picked. His looks, his voice modulation, apparently the way he fell for her was creepy, the whole jijaji bs where akshara also kept her mouth shut but surprisingly it's never visible to people, then the leap 1 where he was again at fault, then leap 2. none deny he behaves worst during the white day. But abhi is also one single charactef who's disected mercilessly for small things. My personal issue with the double standards here. Just look at last 5 page in forum - abhi this abhi that. You talking about manajri and akshara, lol none caes about them. It's just abhi and how's the reason for every single thing. The same courtesy is never applied for akshara. When this is a story of these two people

Regarding hc - well Jay have brought record viewers it seems and people want akshara to move on from abusive relationship. So he can be lead who knows.

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

why you guys keep tagging other folks? Single person can't reply or what

You clearly didn't read properly what I read. Just like your view on show, pick and choose what's convenient for you 😂 i said the serial showed abhis's trauma more properly. How he hated his parents fight, how he hated his dad, his anxiety, his guilt, him hiding under white bedsheet, every single thing. Compare this to akshara - till this day she didn't have guts to question bp why he never supported her over arohi. Or never questioned arohi why she never stop the taunt on sirat. Heck, akshara don't even seen to miss her own biological mom. It's probably a generation thing for her, just like she forgot her own mom and dad she wants her kid to do the same 😂😂

If akshara ka every thing can be compared and exegerized by some folks why it don't happen for abhi? Just cause he lives with his family? Or its that his parents didn't die? Oh I forgot, watch and rant as per convenience

Please don't bother replying to this. Not really interested to have conversations with people who namecall and unable to handle replies without their gang mates.

This is a topic made by me. You cannot come here say random stuff and expect me to not reply. I focused on one thing you clearly said. Abhimanyu had more backstory than Akshara.

Akshara used to get panic attacks all the time. There were enough times she missed bith Naira and Sirat. Sirat fans who got upset that she misses Naira more than Sirat will tell you that. And the show clearly showed how Aarohi treats Akshara badly all the time and how Akshara suffers because of that. But she is a different person, she just tries to keep herself away from creating conflicts and instead want to feel like everything is okay. She doesn't like hurting other people just because she is hurt. But I do agree she should open up and question people more.

May he you missed Akshara's backstory because you were, way too obsessed with Abhimanyu to even bother.

Also, I tag whoever I want for whatever reasons in a topic I made and in a post I replied. What is it to you?

Both Abhira get bashed, honestly. I feel bad for both of them.

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Originally posted by: lagjagale

Both Abhira get bashed, honestly. I feel bad for both of them.

Only Abhira gets bashed.. What about Abhinav or other characters.. Comments get passed that he should get beaten as well and what not. So there are others also who feel bad but I guess that's acceptable .

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Looks like you don't know what it means either. BDSM between two people happen with clearly laid down rules. If your understanding of BDSM comes from trashy romance novels, then I have nothing more to say. 😆

I am outta here. Please do not tag me further.

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