Abhimanyus selfishness - Page 3

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Exactly! And then his sympathy game will start again.

Arey usme hi toh Doctory ki hai Sir ji ne

Savage DocManyu ke naare lag chuke hai. 😳😆

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Exactly! And then his sympathy game will start again.

Then , shamelessly

Abhimanyu to Abhinav : Sharmaji, Please return my Akshu and Abhir to me. Why are you coming in between our soulmate wala pyaar ?

Remember he told Abhinav to give up on his wife in hospital bed and proposed Ak at the temple who is someone else's wife and mother. ( Truth about Abhir was hidden then 😒)

Now he knows that Abhir is his son so aur bhi shiddat se poochega na ?

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Agreed.

You know i just commented on about this attitude of Abhimanyu.

Also, i was kinda justifying his anger with Aksh as they had a history. She was supposed to share this with him, he was entitled to know she is carrying his child.

His anger with Akshara is somewhat like woh hota hai na humara apna, tum toh mujhe mere gusse ko jaanti thi, main toh hun hi aesa tum kyun aesi ho gyi types all fine.

But this attitude towards Abhinav.

I so wish Akshara or Nav will tell him that Abhinav ne btane ka theka nahi liya tha. Nav was there with akshara in every step of ger pregnancy. Uske is bache k pass actually koi nahi hota agar nav na hota when she passed out for two days. This is how he repays Abhinav. Kisi ne sahi hi kha hai logo ko rishte nibhana nahi aata haq jatana aata hai. No wonder Akshu was right by not telling him the truth.

If he is ML i wish aage ek episode to regret ka dedo otherwise kya hi kehna

I understand his anger towards Nav too. Nav started the Bhaiji thing, he made a relation with Manyu even after knowing Manyu was Ak's ex. (Manifesting Anuj to give Nav a lecture on drawing boundaries). It's okay for Manyu to get angry with Nav, IMO. Manyu has to process a big truth that Abhir is his bio son and he will not realise now that Abhir's truth wasn't Nav's to share. Infact, Ak didn't disclose Abhir's truth to Nav, Nav figured it out. In that way, it is only Ak's truth to share and her choice.

The problem is with the way Manyu expresses his anger - steamrolling, demeaning. That car window thing was nasty, bringing the USA doc to India without asking / informing AkshNav was out of limits.

Practically, Akshara has the upper hand when it comes to Abhir. Abhimanyu will have to prove that he is mature enough to co parent but Manyu is taking decisions single handedly. He is being forceful rather than persuasive about the whole thing. Typical.

The way I see is for Abhimanyu-

Anger > everything. Then things get too far and he regrets and apologies. IMO, he may apologise to Nav unless there is a custody battle track next.

Right, the way Manyu is behaving, he is proving Ak right about not wanting to tell him the truth.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

I mean how low can this guy go. Look at the attitude he was giving to Abhinav. Instead of being thankful to him for saving Abhirs life during birth all he was thinking is only about himself. Not even one thank you.

Didn't he learn the truth also only because Abhinav was feeling bad as he was taking Abhir away from his father.

With this attitude yes he might get Abhir but eventually he is going to hate his Docman too.

Well he thinks abhir us his son

Baki sab jaye bhad mein

Apni kasnd mata se attitude liya aur kya karenge dono maa bete mil kar

Doosron pad ilzaam lagana and pretend karna hum ne khush nahi kiya

All Abhimanyu is coming across ryt now is SELFISH. All he cares abt is himself.

I dnt knw if the dialogue writer is shitty or are they purposedly giving Abhimanyu such shitty lines.

Even he expressed his love for Abeer.....he was like....why didnt he have reason to love d kid. Who says dt ?? Love needs no reason.

For Akshara ....toh he has no compassion . He doesnt even empthasize wid her or her pain or her troubles..

Guilt or remorse toh.....he has none. All should be forgotten bcz he had a poor relationship wid his father !! So what ??? Abhinav doesnt even have parents and yet he doesnt blame all his faults or mistakes on that. For once in his life Abhimanyu should grow up and own up to his mistakes instead of projecting it on his father .

Next he has no gratitude for Abhinav.....who saved his wife , their kid , gave them a life , protected them and even told him the truth. Instead all Abhi did was throw some atitude his way. Nicely done !!

Lastly. .....in all of this.....Abhi has conveniently forgotten abt Roohi. Isnt this the same kid who was his life some months back. It feels like Abhi only loved Roohi as a surrogate for his lost child. He has no real love fr dt kid. Jaise hi apna bacha mil gya....now he cant care less about her. Woah !!!!!

Abhi is a piss poor example of a husband and a father. Abeer and Roohi deserve better !!

Originally posted by: Snowfally

I understand his anger towards Nav too. Nav started the Bhaiji thing, he made a relation with Manyu even after knowing Manyu was Ak's ex. (Manifesting Anuj to give Nav a lecture on drawing boundaries). It's okay for Manyu to get angry with Nav, IMO. Manyu has to process a big truth that Abhir is his bio son and he will not realise now that Abhir's truth wasn't Nav's to share. Infact, Ak didn't disclose Abhir's truth to Nav, Nav figured it out. In that way, it is only Ak's truth to share and her choice.

The problem is with the way Manyu expresses his anger - steamrolling, demeaning. That car window thing was nasty, bringing the USA doc to India without asking / informing AkshNav was out of limits.

Practically, Akshara has the upper hand when it comes to Abhir. Abhimanyu will have to prove that he is mature enough to co parent but Manyu is taking decisions single handedly. He is being forceful rather than persuasive about the whole thing. Typical.

The way I see is for Abhimanyu-

Anger > everything. Then things get too far and he regrets and apologies. IMO, he may apologise to Nav unless there is a custody battle track next.

Right, the way Manyu is behaving, he is proving Ak right about not wanting to tell him the truth.

You know what the way they represent Abhimanyu is negative and i don't think they realise that.

I get your point and that's coz you explained it nicely same way if they can also represent his pov would have been better considering he is the lead.

Their will be a court room battle for sure. Akshu ki lawyer giri aur kahan kaam aayegi

Hey, i really liked everyone's pov also I'm sure everyone must be annoyed with this inconsistency like it's getting on my nerves now .

At one point there was abhinav ss all the time his pov and now he is one among statues of gorillas . Abhi tak abhir and nav ka bond itna tha suddenly sab gayab.

Honestly I never felt that bond bw abhi and ruhi it was always like abhi koi nahi hai toh yehi sahi. This reminds me like why abhi behaves jaisa uska koi nahi Bhai dono families tumhare saath hai but hamesha aise muh latkake ghumta tha jaise kisi bacche ki zid poori nahi hoi.

I really want abhir to choose nav so that abhi works hard for his son's love otherwise yeh khoon ke rishte ke basis par agar asaani se mil gaya then he'll never value this relation as well.

Phele abhi was kind of uncomfortable with akshu but after knowing saare difficulties that she has faced he's showing some other level of attitude.

Looking at the current writing I feel jaise suddenly abhi abhir ka bond dikhaya vaise hi one day they will show akshu abhi love Jo pata nahi kaha se aayega but aa jaayega

Abhimanyu's attitude is only going to help others. Remember the arrogance he showed to Abhinav after his accident. At the end of it, Akshara rejected him and asked him to go to hell with his love. AkshNav's relationship was stuck in a limbo till then, But after that Akshu got a closure and decided to finally move on completely. Now he's showing the same attitude thinking Abhir will choose him once the truth comes out. AkshNav's fear is also regarding Abhir finding out the truth and his reaction. But even though Abhir has Abhimanyu's blood, he has Akshara and Abhinav's upbringing. That child will choose his parents over Docman and that will finally put an end to this.

Abhinav ne khud bhi toh batane kj koshish ki thi phone pe.. tab toh mahan Doctor ne aha tha Akshara aur bacche se koi lena dena nahj hai.. ghatiya hai bilkul ghatiya