now look at cases of nav and abhi here .
even before white day ppl considered
him toxic because he was assertive towards ak.
an ex ;;MANJIRI DIVORCE"
ak as always tried to explain yes divorce is correct descision but it should be manjiris own descision now think if abhi sccumbed to aks words then , manjir who is victim of domestic abuse for so many years even after ak clearly explaining there is no meaning in that relation she still wished to stay in that.
if abhi had not went against ak and pressured manjiri or made her realize that because of her toxic relationship his and ak life is also affected will manjiri had ever divorced harsh. ??
same is case with ak and arohi manipulation, its because of abhis assertiveness that ak was able to get that final push to get free of arohi manipulation.
otherwise goenkas too know arohi and ak eq but they only had given them moral advices which would never had worked with someonev like arohi.
now abhinav.
the relationship ak shares with abhinav is again very stable ,open no nonsense assertiveness. but looking closely its the same case with goenkas too . look at case of the bail of abhinav yes he was worried about her missing exam but then was he assertive that she was wrong to stake her future for something which she could have done very well even after exam., no he also in some form accepted it as form of acceptance.from ak .
now look at bigger problems when first truth was revealed to abhinav he himself said they should inform abhi which was right thing to do not only for them but also abhir but then too he succumbed to ak wishes because he too wishes to live in that perpetual state of peace . this is same case with goenkas where they avoid ak plights to look for peace infamily but both abhinav and ak in their fears have forgetten one thing
abhir.
imagine now if that kid is told abhimanyu is his father .
obviously he will hate him for abbondoning him. but the qs why he abondaned . wwhy seperated , why he couldnt meet rest of goenkas family, his cousins
most importantly the pure relationship he shared with abhinav as father and son will now be revealed as adopted father and son carried on with burden of indeptness towards abhinav and hatred towards abhimanyu , now tell me does that kid deserve so much burden at such a young age.
The six years of delusional peace abhir enjoyed will now turn into life time of indebptness and hatred towards abhinav and abhimanyu"
and a mothers fight should never be left to fought for her children thats the least a parents could do to give their child as legacy.
Ak could have save him this burden of hatred if she revealed to him from start that abhi was his real father and abhinav adoptive one and abhimanyu didnt abandon him but his parents are seperated and abhinav is her new partner atleast abhir woulnt have same fate as abhi i.e burden of hating his own father . because then also abhimanyu can coparent with ak b/s he had no other choice .
the biggest pain ak is causing by her delusional world is non other than abhir . which by contradiction she wants to protect .
Omg so thought out and rightfully stated. Both Akshara and Abhinav think alike, peace is the solution so avoid the truth and when that comes out it creates hell lot of mess.
Abhimanyu is grey character but Akshara also has lot of flaws and to all the situations you stated above, both were perfect for each other just that white day was way too much of a tragedy for any person to take in. Not supporting the divorce decision but yes Akshara’s stupid decisions lead to unbearable loss. She should cut some slack and have umbrella perspective Abhir koi Toy nahi hai itna complex situation bana rahe hain uske liye. 🤦🏻♀️
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