It's disturbing - Page 2

It's weird that before the leap she was shown a strong woman. It was the other way, she used to taunt her husband. It's weird to see her so weak now. Sometimes the writers I don't know what they smoke.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

I am not sure if it's only me but I found yesterday's episode really disturbing. Showing wife beating all the time that too from educated loser man at prime time on ITV is pathetic. Why did Shefali remain silent? One can bear that 1 time 2 times for sake of kid and I know that because I am mother too but she really wants to do that through out her life. Are you not encouraging that loser to do it again. Common your working journalist and your kid stays in hostel. They can show her moving out, going to her parents place or living on her own.

Why do ITV shows women so weak? Are they going to show Shefali forgiving Parth also for same reason her kid needs them or will she send him to jail? How Mahima a top surgeon supports this? Is this crime patrol we are watching or a family serial. It's not even entertainment.

These issues are not even handled properly that people who are facing domestic violence in real life take some lesson from it but instead they misuse it and portray it so negatively. I hope someone just file complaint against this so producers don't start using their audience for granted.

Mahima is shame as a women and a mother .

For God sake ..she is a mother of 2 daughters. Thatoo she lost one of her daughter in mental health issue and sucide . What if shefali gets traumatized and commit sucide ???

And shefali herself is a journalist .. she must be having contacts in industry . She has a capability to rip down entire birla clan .

They are showing her becoming weak after having a child. But motherhood to aurat ko aur jyada strong banata h !!

Originally posted by: Indira1211

it’s terrible,, you know what they showed in season 2…they showed suhasinis brother sexually abusing her grand daughter and it only came out years later when naira exposed him..I don’t even know if he went to jail or was just banned from,the family..and they showed karthiks sister also get beaten by her first husband and suhasini asking her to stay In the marriage.. yrkkh is a very regressive show in many aspects.. that’s why it will never beat ghum where we have a strong heroine who exposes all terrible behaviour and the hero who arrests them for her..he only won’t arrest his dear reel and real wife as she is his pyaari cheez 😂

In season 2, I hated Suhasini from bottom of my heart. 😆

Maine last week se epi hi nahi dekhe😆 Ithna boring hai mera din nahi katega isse dekh ke 😆 i need some comedy dose khud ko active rakhne ke liye 😳

Originally posted by: Sakshi-deewan

Mahima is shame as a women and a mother .

For God sake ..she is a mother of 2 daughters. Thatoo she lost one of her daughter in mental health issue and sucide . What if shefali gets traumatized and commit sucide ???

And shefali herself is a journalist .. she must be having contacts in industry . She has a capability to rip down entire birla clan .

They are showing her becoming weak after having a child. But motherhood to aurat ko aur jyada strong banata h !!

Exactly 💯. This Mahima gets on my nerves as well. Being mother of two daughters how she can do that. But main thing is writers just wanted to show Abhimanyus redumption by picking this sensitive topic and executing it so badly. There are 1000 other ways to do that.

I just don't like how they use women as tools and promote domestic violence. I don't watch Anupama but I heard their also sensitive topics are handled in miserable way to show female lead mahaan.

Atleast these legacy/top serials can start taking a step to show some good things so people mindsets change instead of becoming more corrupted.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

it’s terrible,, you know what they showed in season 2…they showed suhasinis brother sexually abusing her grand daughter and it only came out years later when naira exposed him..I don’t even know if he went to jail or was just banned from,the family..and they showed karthiks sister also get beaten by her first husband and suhasini asking her to stay In the marriage.. yrkkh is a very regressive show in many aspects.. that’s why it will never beat ghum where we have a strong heroine who exposes all terrible behaviour and the hero who arrests them for her..he only won’t arrest his dear reel and real wife as she is his pyaari cheez 😂

Oh my God That was more worst then ...Suhasini is Mimi right.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Hi Nisha dear 

Parth, nishta, are characters I never found purposeful. Most useless and nikamma of them is parth bhaiyya. Initially they portrayed as if Shefali is career oriented and careless about their marriage and now they show parth bhaiyya is a wife beater. The problem with DV is sadly a unrecognizable at work we are trained to identify victims of abuse, sadly we cant interfere in other lives, but even today it exists and is no less than modern slavery. And hence no human should tolerate DV. It can also create trauma in the little members of the household and can be emotionally unsettling. Sadly my British colleagues simply assume all Indian women in arranged marriages are victims of domestic abuse, which isn't true and I despise this serials for creating such spineless image about us(traditional Indian women)

Odd assumptions by your colleagues given in my family none of the men in the arranged marriages have hit their wives, and in the only love marriage my family has seen, within two years of marriage the wife came to her parents and told that her husband had slapped her.

I hated though that she was told there's nothing we can do and that she herself needs to decide what to do given it was her choice.

Basically in my family if you marry by your parent's/ family's choice you are more supported and protected as a girl if things go wrong, but family will take no responsibility or involvement in a love marriage if things go wrong. Not a fan of such a logic my family have. 🤢

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

Nisha -

In this era of time...ITV is still 20 years behind....

It's shame that they are promoting DV...

But the fact is - In India ..this is in every street...especially low social economic status families..it's very common

Our home care taker..i saw him beating his wife..slap..i warned him...but they do it behind the doors...ultimately because of his anger..i told them to leave. Low social economic status women tolerate this and they think it's Ok

But seeing here...doctor educated family...it's very disturbing...

What to say...all men in Birlas are like that...Maatas who were victim..themselves are abusers of their daughter in laws...

Biggest shameless women - today -

Mahi herself was abused at work by her husband

Maata ...she was victim, Akshara freed her but she kicked her during miscarriage...

She is claiming to support Shefali..🤢 Shefali knows..maata will just utter some balance words and let her get abused day and night...Such dirt house to stay and breathe...

Shefali should openly fight..if she looses her son..then Parth will also loose his reputation...How come Shivu will not support her mother who is beaten by his father

I just saw the episode where Akshara was getting the cramp pain. Pre leap episode. Mahima to Abhimanyu was like humare ghar mein kitna pyaar hai bhai beheno mein and blah blah. Itna delusional family hai guys inki

Agree but what to do, I blame the typecasting to these serials and bollywood. Chutki bhar sindoor has become a mock worthy joke and women valuing traditions are portrayed as doormats. Infact in my family I complain about my husband to my SILs and FIL instead of my family because they know my DH well and can understand my plight. It's irritating when ppl ask me if I get tortured by my DH because mine is an arranged marriage, also it becomes very difficult to fight prejudices like getting married through arranged at 21 seems child marriage without my wish or consent.

Originally posted by: Miss-Behave

Odd assumptions by your colleagues given in my family none of the men in the arranged marriages have hit their wives, and in the only love marriage my family has seen, within two years of marriage the wife came to her parents and told that her husband had slapped her.

I hated though that she was told there's nothing we can do and that she herself needs to decide what to do given it was her choice.

Basically in my family if you marry by your parent's/ family's choice you are more supported and protected as a girl if things go wrong, but family will take no responsibility or involvement in a love marriage if things go wrong. Not a fan of such a logic my family have.