Unrealistic expectations by Manjari

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@verve

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Posted: 2 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: neenzz

I understand you were explaining her perspective, and this isn't how you necessarily feel, but l feel such people gotta understand that it's never healthy to get your child married when they're not willing or mentally prepared for it. That expectation from a girl that she will reform him or win him over is downright delusion. And when that doesn't happen, they push the couple to bring a child into the mix in hopes that shared responsibility will bring them closer. Sometimes this formula may work, but more often than not, it creates further resentment and now it's not just one (the guy) life ruined but at least three. What that guy needed was empathy and therapy until he could get over his past traumas/Oedipus complex.

Thank you for understanding. Yes I completely agree that no parent should make it d responsibility of a spouse to heal their ladla/ladli. It's unfair n simply cruel. But sadly that's d truth of multitude of Indian families. They'll happily lie n unremorsefully push someone else's child into misery just for sake of their child. That's y I personally feel that tho MM's dialogues are spiced up for drama yet her reaction at its core isn't completely unnatural or unjustified. Now therapy part you're absolutely right that's what Ab requires and that too right away. This is y I'm so disappointed with d way they suddenly changed d track. I mentioned this in one of my earlier posts as well. Ab's inability to move on could've been a great way of discussing d impact of bad marriages/unhealthy relations on a person, talking of how emotional baggages can ultimately lead to mental health deterioration, & importance of therapy n counseling so that d associated stigma with it could be countered. Alas! Instead in hue n cry of TRP cvs have again played d safe card and we're back to sq. 1 with stupid references & all mistakes n actions of leads being painted in colour of sachha pyaar! But why to blame them alone many viewers demand such nonsense so they supply exactly that. Fools to expect any progress in regressive ITV world. It's a circus! No good msg is ever going to come out of such shows.

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Rkhanum002

@Rkhanum002

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Posted: 2 years ago

#12

Why didnt anyone from Akshara family stand up for her? In the past they stop Kairav being rude to Manjari. So why didn't they question Manjari?

When she was shouting 'go, go away' why didn't anyone say who are you to tell our daughter to leave our house.

Who is she to tell Akshara how long she can stay in her parents home.

Why is Akshara getting questioned, but not the Abhi for calling. Like Akshara had any control on who calls her? It's reasonable to understand she doesn't want to speak to her ex. Akshara or anyone could have easily said why is he calling her.

I liked When Abhinav said, you can't hold her responsible for bad destiny or something. Atleast someone made a point thats logical.

When they patch up, they aren't going to clear these stuff. That's annoying, because once words are spoken you can't unhear it.

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Anu234

@Anu234

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Team AbhiMaan (Gen 4)

Posted: 2 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Rkhanum002
Why didnt anyone from Akshara family stand up for her? In the past they stop Kairav being rude to Manjari. So why didn't they question Manjari?

When she was shouting 'go, go away' why didn't anyone say who are you to tell our daughter to leave our house.

Who is she to tell Akshara how long she can stay in her parents home.

Why is Akshara getting questioned, but not the Abhi for calling. Like Akshara had any control on who calls her? It's reasonable to understand she doesn't want to speak to her ex. Akshara or anyone could have easily said why is he calling her.
I liked When Abhinav said, you can't hold her responsible for bad destiny or something. Atleast someone made a point thats logical.

When they patch up, they aren't going to clear these stuff. That's annoying, because once words are spoken you can't unhear it.

They won't patch up so soon . Akshu won't go to abhi also that soon.

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Kiran

@neenzz

Dazzler

Posted: 2 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Rkhanum002
Why didnt anyone from Akshara family stand up for her? In the past they stop Kairav being rude to Manjari. So why didn't they question Manjari?

When she was shouting 'go, go away' why didn't anyone say who are you to tell our daughter to leave our house.

Who is she to tell Akshara how long she can stay in her parents home.

Why is Akshara getting questioned, but not the Abhi for calling. Like Akshara had any control on who calls her? It's reasonable to understand she doesn't want to speak to her ex. Akshara or anyone could have easily said why is he calling her.
I liked When Abhinav said, you can't hold her responsible for bad destiny or something. Atleast someone made a point thats logical.

When they patch up, they aren't going to clear these stuff. That's annoying, because once words are spoken you can't unhear it.

Thanks for raising all these valid points. Also, whatever happened to that sherni Akshara we were introduced to at the beginning of this track? It's annoying when they don't follow through with something they started.

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Charu

@Krinya

Trailblazer

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Team Critics

Posted: 2 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: SejN

Abhimanyu is like fire you can’t control him! Maybe this one you can since he’s lost the way, but OG abhi you can’t touch! That is why Manju is trying her hardest to get him tied down again and throwing all the responsibilities on him!

Did Manju not say she will take care of aarohi and roohi when aarohi was broken after Neil’s death! So what happened now Manju, you want Abhimanyu to take on that role so you can go on permanent vacation?

What was original abhi? He was ready to marry aroo on his mother's insistence ..he is the same now. Somehow he chanced upon the pics of fire incident otherwise roo would be his biological child with aroo.

Abhimanyu is not fire . He is a robot who can be programmed anywhich way by his mother.