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welcome back grace! Lovely review. I also agree. We need to look at the characters past traumas to see where they are coming from and why they are reacting the way they are to understand their actions better. Just like how akshu has made mistakes in past based on her trauma, same way it’s abhi’s turn now. 😆Originally posted by: iheartChai
So finally caught backnup with all the episodes and some of the forum discussions.
At this point I am just taking one episode at a time cause there are so many things going on but we haven't reached the end in sight and what I understand the actress who is playing Mahima is sick so looks like a shift of track again until she ia better and can get back on set.
I just 🤦♀️ at Abhi today. He just keeps digging hole after hole for himself. He is spiraling out of control. But his father is right Abhi’s first impluse when things go wrong is to break and run. It all points back to his childhood trauma of seeing his parents' relationship. He doesn't understand what a healthy relationship is and that its okay to fight and have differences but in the end work together to settle things. He is too practical and emotional at the same time. Its like if you break a rule that's it. It is done for and all hope is lost so there isn't a point so just end it now before you hurt again and feel more pain that will be a never ending cycle of suffering. Because that is what he saw and felt with what happened to his mother. The more she gave she still received pain in the end by his father. But the thing is Akshu isn't like Harshvardhan. She has made mistakes for sure and she does need to apologize for leaving him in the dark for 1 year but she never taunted him or did anything on purpose with ego to hurt him (I am speaking in the context of their normal everyday life. The way they behave when fighting is another matter)
And at the same his emotions are so intense there is no balance. He oscillates from grand gestures of love to extreme rage when upset.
Right now he is just reacting to things in his mind going out of control, out of his control. So running away and "starting over" is his way of controlling things right now.
Akshu is handling things her way and has always been the more emotional strong individual out of Abhira. She has years of dealing being alone and making the most or best of the situation. But even still we can see she is broken too. That convo with Harshvardhan in the previous episode about being blamed for things she was not involved in was heart breaking. She is letting her hurt and ego do the talking when she is in front of Abhi so she is being silly just like Abhi but she is human too and everyone has their breaking point.
So I was thinking if we go by the Gift of the Magi story. Akshu gave up her voice for Abhi's hand (hair for watch chain) don't we need Abhi to sacrifice something for Akshu? (watch for hair comb?)
So based on that I personally think divorce will happen but some of the hidden things have come out. Akshu and Abhi are in a better place but Abhi realizes his family (Mahima and Anand side) did a lot to Akshu and her family wrongly. He feels extreme guilt for some of the things he said and did. He now understands the gravity of Akshu losing her voice and identity for one year as he see/hears about people taunting Akshu and saying she is a fake and it's Maya's voice. So he sets her free as he thinks all he and his family does is cause her pain. He secretly helps her regain her identity. Then they reunite with them both having a better understanding about themselves and each other. They then have a mandir wedding like he had originally wanted no families. Just the two of them. Harshvardhan, Manjari, and Neil of course accept Akshu. At this point in time its Anand Birla vs Harshvardhan Birla families. So Abhi and Akshu live away from the main Birla villa. Maybe stay with Harshvardhan and of course Manjari and Neil shift to Harshvardhan's house too.
Just wishful thinking cause we all know makers are saddist and clown us all the time 🤡 who the heck knows what scary surprise they have in store for us next 🥴😵💫
Another plot to justify Maggie’s play- after abhi’s starts realizing his mistakes slowly, what if akshu is in an accident- Goenkas insist on taking her to any other hospital other than Birla- ak is critical- abhi wants to treat her, but Goenkas deny and other hospital rules too forbid him from having a say. He is warned that action will be taken against his medical license if he treats any patient without consent (he is not ak’s husband anymore) . But he breaks all rules, puts his medical license in jeopardy and still treats her without permission. Then he will sort of make sacrifice of his medical career as well for her life AND he will also understand the meaning/depth of akshu’s sacrifice
agree 💯.. u spoke my thoughts. thank god! I was feeling “odd one out” for thinking like this 😆
Ya now a days I feel the same that's why I stay faar away from forum. It's like reading comments make me mad and like Abhi do stupid things😂🙈
he is struck in past confession that sati phase. He is unable to see this ak who sacrificed for him .
I think it’s his anger only (Atleast superficially) and the reason for that anger is deep rooted fear of her just leaving him again and again. Like he is angry that she can’t put their love above everything else. But he is not able to understand that she did put her love above everything because without him, her love would have been lost. I feel he will understand this when he is put in similar situation and will react in same way as what akshara did (ie akshara on death bed and he sacrificing them/something dear to him for her)Patience is the right word u used Reva and we’re really falling short of it. It’s really stupid how they expect us to believe Abhimanyu would so non-chalantly disregard Aksharas sacrifice and behave so rudely. I mean at least for me - it would be believable and more relatable if they had shown monologue or if he himself had said to Akshara - I respect, acknowledge and thank you for what u did for me (no one could have done that) - but what irks me is u left me a year for it and didn’t come back or inform me after getting a chance or throughout 1 year. It should have been very clearly shown that the reason he wants to be away from her is not at all hatred - not even anger - but deep deep fear that she may leave him again (could be for himself again if any such occurrence happens again). For the stupid reason of stretching they didn’t make Akshara allay this fear of his. This fear of his has never been addressed purposefully which is really stupid. They can get different issues between leads for a change and show leads solving things TOGETHER but they’re too stupid to show such maturity in leads which is really annoying 😡
As far as his rude behavior is concerned- I think he has always been this only. When things don’t go his way, he breaks easily. He is not emotionally as strong as akshu to think straight when life has turned upside down. So he does crazy things to get try to get in control. He did same pre confession. He loved her so so so much that when she was lying/ not accepting the reality of their love, he started hurting her with rude words so as to get some reaction from her. His extreme anger comes from his immense love for her. That’s what I feel atleast. 🤷♀️
Originally posted by: Mehersudha
Like wise ak she was manipulated by ar and all now she is out of those clutches. It's his turn now. When ak is dumb then abhi is stupid now.
Hence I said...He is letting everyone kick him ..because of his own choices now 😆
Dudh pita bachcha hai jo..koi apni choice us per thopega 🤪
He is making his own decisions. If he can't use his brain, it's his problem...
But His lovers will blame Ak only ghuma phirake..😛
Ak rightly said - He just knows to break things and relations..
Every step Ak is there to stop him from making blunders but he is ADIYAL..then also blame AK..then BLIND FAITH 🤡 what can we say 😳
Beta Birla has not learnt from his Mamma - how to mend relationships..On top he has forgotten all his mama's basic teachings of ABCD...too
REVISE COURSE IS ON HIS WAY WITH PROPER TEACHERS NOW - AK, PAPA BIRLA..NOT KAAND MAATA 🤣..Still he can't get it then he is MAHA MURAKH
don’t take so much tension. Forum is always like this. With each track, it will be abhi vs akshu and people will keep oscillating between them. This track it’s akshara deserves better, next track will be abhimanyu deserves better. 😆Originally posted by: Neethumaneet
Ya now a days I feel the same that's why I stay faar away from forum. It's like reading comments make me mad and like Abhi do stupid things😂🙈
Makers are not partial that way. Alternate track they dumb down either of the leads for sake of drama. 🤣 In the end, Abhira unite and make clown of all of us 😆
Abhi do value AK sacrifice, it's just that he doesn't like it. He always wanted her by his side. He told her if u stayed with me or informed me we could have found a solution. Its abt the deal, before taking the deal or after taking the deal she should have contacted him. That's what he wanted.
And he already told her becoz of his hand his life spoiled. And from inside he is regretting it also. To value her sacrifice is it mandatory for Abhi also to sacrifice. Wrt Maggie story I'm ok. Otherwise it's nor. If before the divorce all truth unfold then I want Abhi to divorce AK. It will be his sacrifice his gift for her. Becoz as of now the best thing he can do for her is to release her from all tension and focus on her career. If truth comes out tension will be gone and with divorce she can focus on her career. I'm not saying with Abhi she can't do it. My POV is to avoid the pain and to forget the loss she can divert her focus to music and career. Abhi can move to Mumbai. Manju can stay here. Later whn Abhi return they can start with reunion. Now Abhi needs to give her time and space it's not only for AK it will also help Abhi to think calmly away from this chaos and understand what all the things went wrong and what all the things he did wrong.
Also Ak can understand how it feels to be away from the loved one, when someone u love the most leave u in middle of the road unannounced, unwarned. She can also figure out where their relationship went wrong. So ya I want divorce and Abhi in Mumbai.
Originally posted by: iheartChai
Paras is doing the best he can with what he has been given. I cut him some slack 😆
Lol true. The guy went from being casted is nicer webseries to be casted opposite the worst character/ actor yrkkh has ever seen.
True 100%. But as u said - character growth and progression in both is essential. Yes they’ve grown from earlier mistakes but the pace is really slow. We understand their flaws and where they come from but now they need to show that they’ve outgrown those flaws and have some new ones. I agree character consistency is needed but they can show growth without diluting core characteristics. Like - his rash, outrageous and extreme behaviour has to tone down quite a bit now and at the same time - she has to tone down her taking decisions on her own that will impact others without consulting anyone and not confiding in Abhimanyu.
I know I’ve already made two threads but I’m bored and the episodes are equally boring. So just wanted to read some crazy, out of the box...
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