Hey! Very good and totally useful topic here's my take; DISCLAIMER:I am a very sarcastic person please take in a sarcastic humorous tone.
My first advice for anybody looking to get married STOP watching serials and never try even imagining ITV ML as life partner or don't try getting life lessons or influenced by ITV crappy serials. 😡
They are truly meaningless, in life your partner can neither be crazily in love like abhimanyu nor a brainless lattu like Karthik🥳.
Real life husband's will only be close to Naitik 🤗and arranged marriage is like an agreement with insurance policy of parents support, which has its own terms and conditions.
Marriage is a transaction where you have to give to get something back and what you get may not always be directly proportional to what you give. It's important to learn the importance of giving and not expecting much in return.
ITV husband's have 1st world problems like how to impress wife, reaching Karwa chaut on time and fasting for wife but real life husband's have second world problems, boss Ka taana, promotion chances which can increase salary, buying that dreamy car or being able to go on that vacation etc;
A husband burdened with typical real worldly problems of expenses and bills tend to forget important dates and earth will not fall upon because the husband has forgotten an important date
Surprises are best when pretense is put upon, in reality most males are mentally handicapped and are clueless about how to surprise their wives🤪
Men are designed with a single circuit in their brain hence don't be surprised if they don't know many colours🤔,because the only colorful and confusing person in their life is the WIFE🤣
Originally posted by: rphalange
The lessons that I learnt after watching the episodes (watched before Anisha death track and later just read the updates on twitter because don't have the mental capacity to watch the negativity every morning at 6:00 am)
1) Before a love marriage do a detailed inspection of your in-laws rather than going on a romantic date.
2) It is better to stay single and live aloof or even with your parents, marriage can be hell-risky.
(Based on all the 3 seasons and their marriage conditions I have written this, till now of all seasons season 1 never had divorce or ema)
3) Arranged marriage is a better option than love marriage because your marriage life can end up like Naitik-Akshara (no toxic in-laws, bit of misunderstandings, no divorce, no remarriage) . Can be beneficial for your career, mental health and personal life in the long run.
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