Originally posted by: FleetingWishes.
Personally, I think even if we HAD the entire six year picture it'll still be impossible to compare Kartik and Abhimanyu because of how different Naira and Akshara are. Naira never needed any defending. She didn't need soft handling. In fact the first 300-400 episodes of Kaira Naira was the one with the anger and impulse issues. Kartik was the cool-head in their relationship and Naira misunderstood him and went against him quite a few times during that entire period. He was still very soft. Right up to their first separation, even the joru ka ghulam track Kartik was extremely sorted and most tracks had both characters having a valid point of view.
Then there's the fact that Kartik was also like 23-24 when he entered the show whereas Abhimanyu started the show as a mature, senior 29? year old surgeon. So there's the age part. But Abhimanyu does gaslight Akshu a lot and downplays her ability to judge things in front of the entire family which can be patronizing and suffocating all on its own.
Again I fully accept the fact that I have a strong bias for Kartik and that colors my opinion 😆 but I prefer him over Abhimanyu because of how consistently written and well played he was by Mohsin. And I have to agree. I didn't even watch yeh rishta for a long time because I didn't care for the leads but the moment I did Kaira sucked me in. Mohsin improved leaps and bounds. His performance in the last 2-3 years of Kaira was >>> He really honed his craft. Shivangi was phenomenal as Naira from the get go. And Naira was such a rare well-written character for an ITV show. She could be mahaan one second and a total idiot the next. I kind of loved that about her.😆
I've loved HC from kis desh days and the only reason I returned to yrkkh was to watch him and what khichdi they've made of abhira's story.
I love your point of view and how you discussed it! Totally agree that the prominent differences between male leads (the ones I mentioned) are reflective of the different dynamics Kaira and Abhira shared.
Abhimanyu’s emotional manipulation of Akshu (the way he coerced her into confessing her love) and his over-protective nature is the reason why he isn’t my favourite Harshad character.
Now that’s not to say Kartik was perfect cause he often rushed to judgements and invalidated Naira’s feelings (e.g., Naira’s pregnancy).
I love Mohsin’s growth as an actor over the show. When I saw his debut show, I couldn’t see him performing anger and angst as well as he did in the separation track and Naira’s death track. Part of that, as you said, is the age difference. We grew with Kartik whereas Abhimanyu is older and so, those shades (and Harshad’s acting) are more set into stone - we know what to expect given his age and prior (phenomenal) performances.
Harshad is the reason why I gave season 3 a strong shot - I knew he’d chose a character that’s multilayered after his gap. The initial promos had people comparing Abhimanyu and Aditya but I knew that couldn’t be such a strong similarity otherwise Harshad wouldn’t play him. So I was really interested to see what new shades we would see of Harshad’s in this character!
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