Abhimanyu is right and Akshara is absolutely wrong

Akshara’s opinion is like , aag lagi hai, aag mai fasi aurat ko tez ghutan ho rahi hai but woh aurat jab mentally ready hogi tab woh khud he aag se bahar ayegi ! Tab tak bahar baith kar sab wait karo aurat ke mentally ready hone ka! Abhimanyu is like , What if agar uss ghutan/suffocation ne aurat ki jaan le li toh ?!

Physical/mental harassment years tak bardaash karnewale itni mental capacity mai nahi hote hai ki abuser se khud he piccha chuda sake! Ofcourse they need boost from their close ones.

Harsh is constantly forcing his wife to stay with him and Manjari is extremely weak to take drastic step for her marriage. It was horrible the way yesterday harsh went to manjri’s room and ordered her to stay in marriage. Manjari was scared and Akshara witnessed those moments!

Still Akshara is rigid with her jaap that maa khud decide karegi! Yeh kya bin bajaye ja rahi hai Akshara! Agar apni mummy ko mai aisi mental condition mai dekhu toh mai bhi forcefully wohi karu jo Abhimanyu kar raha hai! Jab tak decision par na aao tab tak daily suffer karne se accha hai sabse pehle puri jaan laga kar apni maa ko aise abuser se bachao.

Maa decide karne ke mental capacity nai nai ho toh kya kare?? Months nikaal de jab tak maa mentally ready ho uske liye????? And uss waiting time mai zyada mental harassment harsh ke taraf se hota he rahega uska kya???!

Abhimanyu is extremely right! Jab mother itna zyada mentally suffer kar rahi ho tab immediate steps lene he chahiye !

Abhimanyu is wrong, though. For deciding to marry a mentally 15yo adamant child after a week of crushing on her. Dude didn't even give himself the time to realise that he's only into Akshu because she not only represents the best of Manjari, but also her worst and more. 😭 Manjari at least sticks to her husband's word for the most part & doesn't force herself into everyone's issue.

And bruhh.. Akshara, a professional therapist, thinks someone in a 40-year-long abusive relationship will ask for help if she needs it. Bhagwan bachaaye iske patients ko 😭

Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

Abhimanyu is wrong, though. For deciding to marry a mentally 15yo adamant child after a week of crushing on her. Dude didn't even give himself the time to realise that he's only into Akshu because she not only represents the best of Manjari, but also her worst and more. 😭 Manjari at least sticks to her husband's word for the most part & doesn't force herself into everyone's issue.

And bruhh.. Akshara, a professional therapist, thinks someone in a 40-year-long abusive relationship will ask for help if she needs it. Bhagwan bachaaye iske patients ko 😭

I love your sarcastic posts so please don't take offence but i don't agree here. Abhimanyu's decision to get manjari divorced without even one proper conversation with her can backfire. You need to be mentally prepared for something like that as it's not just about harsh. Manjari is attached to the Birlas too. All akshara said was let's give manjari some time.

And, abhimanyu is behaving immature because of the way he is dealing with his marriage. First he went all crazy for marrying this girl and even asked her to trust him to the extent of runaway marriage and now within 5 days is showing his true colours by saying marriages suck. Why should women trust guys like that?

And manjari doesn't interfere in others biz? Since day 1 of the series she's creating kaand in her son's life and constantly involved in abhira's marital life.

1. It's all just opinions about a daily soap. No offense taken lol. It's all fun

2. Abhimanyu is OBVIOUSLY an aggressive alpha & all of that roots from his daddy issues. His issues are all laid out and he himself too lowkey acknowledges them. Akshara, on the other hand, keeps branding her Stockholm Syndrome as her strength. 😛

3. Abhi has been this way since the beginning. Obviously the man who was torturing Akshu during his ceremonies with Aarohi & was highkey disrespecting Goenka's before their approval isn't turning out to be an ideal husband. Uss time vo sabko romantic lag raha tha 🤪 Anyway, their relationship isn't the point here.

4. Akshara, despite being a therapist, doesn't realise how massive this issue is. Both Manjari & Abhimanyu have decades old mental issues. Passive time isn't going to solve anything. She needed to either stay away or promote crude discussions. The 'give her time' chant obviously wasn't going to sit well for a man who has waited all his life. And an abuse victim who hasn't even stopped romanticising her abuse.. She will never ask for help, no matter how much time she gets. And don't even get me started on how stupid that 'Tukde sametne ki koshish' lecture was. 🤡

5. When I said Manjari doesn't elbow herself everywhere, I meant in other people's lives like her sister's, Parth's, Goenka's, Birla Hospital's culture, etc. I didn't mean that she doesn't do anything at all LOL. Obviously she is an active character in her two sons' lives. As opposed to Akshu who has the ITV FL syndrome of lecturing & saving every random passerby😆

Originally posted by: borntorule12

I love your sarcastic posts so please don't take offence but i don't agree here. Abhimanyu's decision to get manjari divorced without even one proper conversation with her can backfire. You need to be mentally prepared for something like that as it's not just about harsh. Manjari is attached to the Birlas too. All akshara said was let's give manjari some time.

And, abhimanyu is behaving immature because of the way he is dealing with his marriage. First he went all crazy for marrying this girl and even asked her to trust him to the extent of runaway marriage and now within 5 days is showing his true colours by saying marriages suck. Why should women trust guys like that?

And manjari doesn't interfere in others biz? Since day 1 of the series she's creating kaand in her son's life and constantly involved in abhira's marital life.

So agree with you, because actually even though it sounds wrong, there is truth in what akshu said that he is acting like his dad. Abhi does not see that he often does act like his dad when he is angry or wants things his way. And the fact that straight away within a few days of marriage he puts expectations on akshu to not interfere in his dysfunctional families matters and then goes off on her without hearing her word if someone else involves her in the family matters or something goes wrong. By such behaviour he gives the impression girls are just better off only dating guys and not marrying because they change after marriage and just burden you with expectations and demands with little respect or trust in return.

Originally posted by: Miss-Behave

So agree with you, because actually even though it sounds wrong, there is truth in what akshu said that he is acting like his dad. Abhi does not see that he often does act like his dad when he is angry or wants things his way. And the fact that straight away within a few days of marriage he puts expectations on akshu to not interfere in his dysfunctional families matters and then goes off on her without hearing her word if someone else involves her in the family matters or something goes wrong. By such behaviour he gives the impression girls are just better off only dating guys and not marrying because they change after marriage and just burden you with expectations and demands with little respect or trust in return.

Of course Akshara was wrong when she had organised surprise party on harsh Manjari anniversary! Itna toh day 1 se Akshara ko pata tha na that her husband calls his father “Sir” ! It’s a huge deal for me if my husband calls his father “Sir” and not papa/dad ! Itna toh bina kuch soche bhi samaj aa jata about how is my husband’s terms with his father and before hosting any party , as a wife yeh bhi figure out karne ki koshish karti ki why my husband calls his father “Sir” !

But Akshara didn’t try to understand her husband’s dynamics with his father and bina kuch bhi soche apne la la land mai party kar diya fir toh koi bhi Banda bolege ki behen interfere matt karo ! Kaun karta hai sasural mai 1st week mai he aisa behave!

Sulji hui ladkiya pehle naye ghar, naye logo aur unke equations ko samajne ka time leti hai . Akshara ke jaise la la land mai koi sasural nahi jata jab dating time se pata ho ki husband uske father ko sir bulata hai.

When I saw the epi by chance , I think akshu is also right in some things but abhimanyu made complete sense to me.... the argument got escalated and akshu telling abhimanyu that he acts like his dad was totally wrong .that's a diff topic.

Abhimanyu is correct that manjari will never take this decision on her own , bec it's been years he has seen her getting tortured but not reacting ..toh ab kya legi decision? She needs a push , infact she needs counseling and she needs to trust her son ..

Akshu was right thar its manjaris choice and they must not influence her..at some level it's ok..kisi ko nark mei acha lagta hai toh koi kya kar sakta hai? Who knows manjari comes bk to harsh if they forcefully try to execute divorce ?

Where akshu was horribly wrong was the family jaap yet again 😲 If rishte are like this we must try to mend them. Now that's where my blood boils..this is not any mu where she tries to make amends..its years of physical and mental abuse which acc to akshu , manjari can continue to endure bec it's coming from her husband😲.

Where abhimanyu was abs right ✅ is that he tells her in clear words that she , like manjari , revels in getting tortured and manipulated.

Abhimanyu was abs right in telling her that she judges everything by her right and wrong meter. Just what she did in this argument also. At least try to look at it from his perspective ...her argument failed when he said rishte ko sudharte hain khatam nahi karte..shit !

2 more things .

Tum meri baar sun hi nahi rahe toh tum.apne papa jaise behave kar rahe ho. It's total bakwas. Just bec he gets angry he isn't acting like harsh. There is zameen aasman ka difference ..harsh abuses in anger and abhimanyu tried to protect his loved ones in anger . Kisi ko kuen mei girne se bachana is not suffocating them.

Abhimanyu is also completely right in expecting that akshu must not interfere in family matters. But ...it's not practical unless they move out . Firstly akshus nature is such that she will only do this family jaap no matter what. Secondly it's not possible to be like an alien living in the same family..

Abhimanyu hits a sixer again with " tum aur meri ma are similar . That's why I chose you..no wonder " lol I am repeating this since abhira got hooked .

I read it in the precap that she is angry with abhi ..why???? Isn't he a part of her dear family? Make amends and keep trying to keep him happy till your golden jubilee.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Of course Akshara was wrong when she had organised surprise party on harsh Manjari anniversary! Itna toh day 1 se Akshara ko pata tha na that her husband calls his father “Sir” ! It’s a huge deal for me if my husband calls his father “Sir” and not papa/dad ! Itna toh bina kuch soche bhi samaj aa jata about how is my husband’s terms with his father and before hosting any party , as a wife yeh bhi figure out karne ki koshish karti ki why my husband calls his father “Sir” !

But Akshara didn’t try to understand her husband’s dynamics with his father and bina kuch bhi soche apne la la land mai party kar diya fir toh koi bhi Banda bolege ki behen interfere matt karo ! Kaun karta hai sasural mai 1st week mai he aisa behave!

Sulji hui ladkiya pehle naye ghar, naye logo aur unke equations ko samajne ka time leti hai . Akshara ke jaise la la land mai koi sasural nahi jata jab dating time se pata ho ki husband uske father ko sir bulata hai.

Well that much I agree with. Don't know where she got the guts or energy to set up her in-laws anniversary party within just a week of marriage lol. 😆

Originally posted by: Miss-Behave

Well that much I agree with. Don't know where she got the guts or energy to set up her in-laws anniversary party within just a week of marriage lol. 😆

Dating se shaddi tak kayi siyyappe ho chuke the and itne siyyappe ke baad toh koi bhi samaj jayega ki bhai sasural wali family dysfunctional hai ! Honewala pati uske father ko sir bulata hai !Baap-Bete ki bilkul nahi jamti hai! Uske father in law ko bete ki pasand bilkul pasand nahi hai ! Sasuma ka zyada dimag hai nahi so raita failati rehti hai !

Itna basic idea toh kisi bhi ladki ko dating se shaddi ke bich ke time mai aa he jata hai ! Ab akshara ka apna dimag chalta he nahi hai yeh sab sochne ke liye so uske husband ko bolna pada ki behen tu inn sab jamelo se durr reh.

Khair Abhi kya he bolu ! Akshara ka baal vivah hua ho aisa lagta hai . Aise dimag se choti bacchi ke shaddi ka yeh correct time nahi tha! Isko pehle thoda duniadari sikhana chahiye tha goenkas ko ! Ek toh khud mai zyada akkal nahi hai and uper se dysfunction family ki bahu bann gayi yeh choti bacchi! Raita he raita failega ab toh !

Originally posted by: Miss-Behave

Well that much I agree with. Don't know where she got the guts or energy to set up her in-laws anniversary party within just a week of marriage lol. 😆