PYAAR OR SELF RESPECT - Page 4

Originally posted by: Neethumaneet

I think this Mu will go for 1 more wk.

BTS is in pink dress ( I think ) we have 1 red dress (ie kaand dress ) scene which will go like 5 to 8 days. then the cyan pooja dress. So may be take 1 wk.

Also mata won't settle down easily. Ak had unknowingly opened the trunk and from that Neil's matter is only came to lime light. Now there are more why harsh hate manju. Why repeatedly say there is something more to it and Abhi don't know anything, and adoption pic with Abhi. So she will take chun chun ke badla from AK. And Abhi helpless boy have to endure this. ( I think Abhi will only see the half side of story as usual )

Do you think Akshara has hurt her hand ( red dress )

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

We just had a teaser picture abhi baaki hi mere dost..

Thanks for the review. 🤗

I really feel bad for Akshara. What kind of love is this that the moment something happens, she is totally isolated, not even given the chance to speak? Has Abhi forgotten that this is the girl who will go to any lengths to keep a family together? for that alone, he should have given her a chance to speak. Now everyone is isolating her...hated the way Mahima spoke to her. I feel like those sisters are using this as a chance to get back to Akshu and show her place.

The way Abhi is blindly supporting his mother, well I expect any day for her to say 'marry another girl' and he will say 'when?'. He spent months being mad for Akshu and now suddenly this...sorry even the precap had my blood boiling...Akshu should not even go near him. I'm not saying she should not talk to him, she should as it is important but Sex or whatever the heck they were trying to show should not be used to resolve a situation because it then becomes a habit when communication is the key. What it looks like, from all this is, their relationship is uncannily imitating what Mataji and PB's marriage was like in the early days which is bad but that is the cycle of abuse. Sadly children pick it up and despite their best intention start imitating their abuser...Abhi hates his father but fails to see the same trait in himself....

I feel for Neil. I loved the symbolism of the net, then him breaking free and almost like in a 'new world' and then who should arrive but our favourite villain. I said this before but I think Neil will turn grey for a while and would listen to Arohi because he will feel she is the only one who understands him. I think their marriage will come out from this. I honestly can't imagine Arohi being love and dreaming of song and dance with Neil! - I could be wrong....

Can someone tell me if Mataji's explanation made sense?...I think I'm missing something because it did not make sense to me. I get it, she loves Harsh but still...why doesn't it make sense to me❓

Well said! I agree with everything you said. I don’t think either abhi or akshu were being disrespectful or rude or giving up self respect in the way they reacted. It all seemed like a normal couple behavior only when they are fighting and angry and manaofying each other.

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

Mahima take advantage of the situation to get her frustration out on ak. BP looks like he is really close to loose all his patience.

Abhi request goenkas to take Neil in. I love the respect goenkas and Abhi have for each other(minus1 or occasionally 2) I agree. Specially Manish’s and abhi’s equation- I really adore. I was actually surprised by how supportive kairav was being given his current naraazgi with Birlas and abhi.

Abhi leaves before or arrive after someone misbehaves with ak. I think it's delibrate, but will come to that tommorow or day after that. All for sake of drama and TRP 🙄

Say whatever you want about pb but the man have his priorities set straight...his image and hospital's image.

I am not wasting my words on kaand mata😡 smart decision!

Also, HC/Abhi is looking so hot in this outfit and tashan mode. Most definitely!!

The trip and fall at entrance, Hc portray so many emotions in few seconds..shock, fear, hurt, anger..

His natural instincts to protect her, without thinking his body moves in its own accord...but that he would have let her fall of he was thinking...he might be mad would never let her fall, literally or figuratively. Exactly! He may be super mad, super hurt - but he will never ever scold her in public onor will let anyone do that to her. I really love the way he respects their relationship from the start! Goals!!!

HC don't need dialogues to convey emotions, he acts with his body his expressions his eyes..hell his eyes are enough to convey emotions the actor he is. ❤️

Parth and shefali somehow manage to make everything about themselves and fight. Really it's a talent. Hahaha! This cracked me up 😆

Next scene will remain among my fav for HC's phenomenal acting and vinaj Jain was really good too. HC was phenomenal here!!! Tooooo good!!

Firstly, his fake apology looked fake, but not ott it's so subtlety done. Like if we didn't knew him we might believe him.

But ofcourse, it's the "fear" in that woman's eyes. Well, I don't trust her but jaan do. Sadly.

And the laughter that followed, my god! I was taken aback. "Sorry"...ak reaction was so apt..the girl was shocked and afraid. Not because of him but for him.

"Aapki tabiyat to thik hai, hosh me to hai. Kahi do peg, koi nasha washa karke to nahi aaye" 😂

Abhimanyu Birla at his sarcastic best. Loved the whole scene!!! Just loved it! Brilliantly done by HC!

Also, I noticed that ak only intervene when Abhi is concerned. She is abhi ki akshu and Abhi is her world

The whole scene anand and pb acted like like Abhi a toddler throwing temper tantrums... So, try to calm him. So that he don't create a scene.

The irony is he might not have told the media, mata could have convinced him but PB's sorry triggered Abhi.

The whole scene him walking and opening the door. Mere Sher ka swag hi alag hai.

This man fears no one. Except angry akshu. Remember ladder/bike scene. 😆 Jk

BP and swarna scene was really good, even though BP love and adore Abhi but there ristha is because of ak. Looks like he is heading towards another Birla roasting session. I amWaiting with popcorn

I use to love BP's "nawabzade" rants.

Well atleast in angst..ak remembered to close that damn door 😂 oh yeah.. now they remember 🙄

Abhi ofcourse senses her presence. Well he must be really mad as he let go of his obsession of pulling her hair out of her face. Ak doing that herself sting.

The pain and hurt in his eyes when he look at her than..... He is more hurt than angry.

That hug on the bed, ak trying to eliminate emotional distance with that physical touch. Holding him, not letting him go. Abhi his hand stopping himself from hugging her back. The strength it must have taken him to detach himself. It take him a few moments to do that.

Also the scene was emotional but that falling strap of ak's dress gave a sexy vibe.🙈

Ak the girl on mission is not letting go. Abhi should remember that ak can be even more stubborn than him If she wants to.

I an really excited and curious to know how they end up cuddling on the couch. Most likely he falls asleep and Akshu later sleeps besides him because she is missing him

Angsty abhira are such serve

"Agar meri Jeet me tumhari Jeet hai, to tumhari haar me bhi to meri haar hui na"

This is who Abhira are their is no pride or ego between them. Yes yes yesss!! And I love this about them

Abhi never cared about his self-respect or pride, he got publicity humiliated more than once. Begged for his love because what matters is ak and sane for ak.

Their love is more important than their pride

Hamein tum se pyar kitna ye hum nahin jaante
Magar jee nahin sakte tumhaare bina

I don't know how much I love you

all I know is that I cannot live without you..

suna gham judaai ka uthaate hain log
jaane Zindagi kaise bitaate hain log
Din bhi yahaan to lage baras ke samaan
hume intezaar kitna yeh hum nahin jaante
Magar jee nahi sakte tumhaare bina

I've heard that people bear the pain of separation,

I don’t know how they live their lives (with such pain)

to me each day feels like an year

I don't how much I long for you,

But I know that I cannot live without you..

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Hari wonderful review with pics.

IN GV.

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Mahima scolded Ak for not informing them and coming here as manjari is crying for Neil. Ak told her I ran here as soon as I got the news and she misunderstood her.

Swarna made Manish stop and said mahima it's Neil's topic not Ask and told mahima to cool. Abhi enters and says please take care of Neil as he doesn't want to come home.kv says Neil is like our brother so we will take care of him. He goes away from there in hurt and mahima follows him. Ak goes with them saying bye to her family.

Manish told Swarna that KV or vansh should be with Neil. Swarna said how will he come out. Manish said neil will come out but what about our ak. And those people are always blaming Ak whether she did it or not none will understand it. All relationships are because of ak and if I get angry I want to bash them once whatever is there in my heart. They have grown up and kids marriage done they kept a secret hidden. How much ever we try to stop truth kicks out always like we got it .kV is right that he is on angry on them always. Manish Swarna feel if abhi supports ak soon in this issue ,she will get out of that issue.

GUESSING

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Harsh will soon be in hospital with the affect of his image destruction. So mataji in her blind love may Target Ak for everything throwing her away.

Manish and kV will be raised . Abhi may save her that time as he is torn between his mother's humiliation and cheating by his father to her , his brothers reality, anger and hurt against manjaris told words on ak.

Red 👆- I did not understand this part. Can you please explain?

IN BIRLA HOUSE..

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Anand told Harsh that Neil is safe at GV as informed by Mahima . Harsh said Neil did t do any stupid thing after truth is known. Harsh asks Anand how to save the hospital image.Abhira and mahima come from back gate as media is infront of their house. Harsh comes to manjari and says sorry to hear for what he did. Manjari is shocked and is unable to see him say sorry. She asked him don't say it. Abhi gets that Harsh is manipulating Manjari for the media. Harsh might have thought to present in a different way to media through manjari and close the issue. manjari could have pacified him in her blind love to her Piya toseeee. But Abhi shouted that a simple sorry won't take everything he did to her abusing her and not giving respect. Harsh says it's between him and his wife he does not know anything.what all we will get next from Harsh pov need to be seen. As media is shouting abhi says I will go out and close the issue. Ak asks him to think not to take decision in anger. But Abhi walks and tells media that Neil is NEIL BIRLA and shuts the door comes back .

Neil got his namkaran through Abhi and ak is indirect reason to pull out the truth and Neil now sat in GV. Ak fed Neil kachori and made him sit in GV told him tumhara namkaran karungi on tilak and Abhi is just watching them happily. Today ak is happily watching Abhi declare the news.

Lovely connect to that scene. Also, if I remember that tilak scene correctly, abhi later moves the chair from head of table to the side to be near ak. Does that mean, he will leave his rights in Birla house next to show his support to ak when Birlas will insult her?

Harsh sits on sofa as his destruction of his image is done. Ak is happy with announcement and sees manjari who is with pathetic glares. Because manjari stopped the truth for years so that Harshs image is saved by her.

Manjari is the double standards sailing in two boats. When Her hubby's name is fell into keechad in the world this female can't take that. She has no spine to stand for his ema nor that kid giving justice or rights till now but made the kid as orphan against his legal status. In a way she held her hubbys false respect and saved her son to be the legal heir forever against ema santan.soon her reality will come out and hero will get his laser operation done for his blind trust. All her plans for years and backfired perfectly. She didn't let Harsh apologize for his deeds so that she can become mahan infront of all making him idiot.

I really don’t understand how she can be okay with harsh EMA and be so upset with ak just for revealing the truth?! I mean, seriously manajri ????

ABHIRA ❤️ABHIRA (ABHI MAANJAVO)

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Ak comes to the room closes the door. Abhi is sleeping on bed senses her, gets up from bed but ak is about to fall then he holds her hand falls on bed.

This scene is symbolic ak pulls him along with her in the dung she entered unknowingly . Blame game by Birlas for ak and him taking her side will make Abhi also fall bad in the eyes of his family..

Ak looks at him and his eyes are not angry he is hurt with the issue she is involved in. She wanted to cool his anger and tell her side of story but he gave his hand to getup. Like he did before in GV giving hand before getting up from bed. Ak didn't take his hand but hugged him. It's a way to console him for the situation and she wanted to give him comfort though he is not talking to her on the issue. His heart wanted to hug her but mind is not able to accept she went against his warnings . He removed her hands and getup. She tried to hug him from back and he removed his hands so she went hugged him from front.

This scene is like comforting or manavo the loved ones partner to make them understand their pov when they are adamant not to listen. Ak wanted to tell her side of story but he is not allowing her as he is blind to that truth. When people are angry they take different ways to show their hurt. Ak kept her love above her self respect and wanted to clear their mus. Instead of dragging the mu she is trying her best to reduce the distance between them. Sometimes emotional distance caused by partners will be reduced by staying together and sorting issues instead of staying away giving space to each other. Anniversary time, Ak wanted to stay at home but Abhi didn't say to stop. He waited if she stops. Both apologised for not communicating and staying together sorting the issue. So this time ak is convincing him so that he listens to her. Being intimate with the loved ones is a part of their married life which they wanted to go ahead that way in sorting their issues. When abhi left his ego and self-respect for his love for ak before marriage ak is showing her love for him above everything. Abhi is bashed by Harsh for being joru ka Ghulam or holding aks pallu. But it's his way of understanding his love for her and wanting to be with her always. We have no right to question them as it's their way of dealing things keeping their love above everything. Love won't vanish anytime. It's always there but overpowered by anger and hurt.

Very well explained the whole scene. I don’t think abhi did anything wrong here and Akshu was right too to in trying to calm him down so that he will listen to her.

Ak in half track of manjaris accident realised the truth and came to abhi. Though truth is known later to abhi. Abhi too is kept in same shoes that half track he is unknown to truth and misguided by listened words. Once he sees Ak being humiliated and targeted by his family he will stand for her. And give her support needed for her.

HINTS

Today's Ak fall and Abhis catch scene near entrance door , without seeing her and hurt face is symbolic however he is angry he will hold her next when she falls before his family.

Today Ak in back seat of Abhis car is clear he kept her behind his family with mahima on front seat.

Please observe the body language portrayed by the artists with their eyes , lips, hands conveying the internal feelings of Abhira. Kudos to HC and PR for exciting the scenes. In anst tracks it's always important as they decipher the internal feelings without words.

Precap...Manjari wants to do havan and ak arranged for it at home. Ak tells abhi sometimes what is before is not seen as anger is more than love in eyes.

As preparations are done by Ak it's good result for Neil's new life.

Originally posted by: amlavs

dont kill me.. hope it's not dream... am always terrified of abhira dream sequences...

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Originally posted by: hari15

Dear forumwasis

Today post I am posting it for you all specially. The first time I started writing review in forum it was just for fun my own pass time. Later when I realised there are many people who are reading this page I started to give reviews based on what's given in show more than my personal frustation Or taking in my personal dissatisfaction because I know their are lot who will take even a stupid thing I say here as a serious one.

Though this is not a detailed full review of today episode there are some things I am putting here based on today heated discussions that is going on in forum.

1. Did ak tried to kiss abhi?

The moment I saw this question I thought i missed something and watched it again and again only to realise according to my pov their was no such kissing scene.

2. Did AK tried to seduce abhi?

This is the very same girl who didn't realise her husband type of date was hotel suite and played doctor-patient and ghar-ghar with him.

The very same ak who abhi teases every now and then saying does she know what romance really is.

The very same ak who thinks hugs and kisses are all is enough in their love and taken a lot of time to go from Kissing him in cheek to asking him for a night out.

This is the very same ak who gave that innocent kiss to her fiance in tilak time as his fees.

3. Is self - respect that much needed in between couples?

When your mom scolds you and may even throw you out of house do you say I have my self respect and will never show my face to her. The moment she calls won't we run like a baby to her.

When a kid in anger throws some object at you won't you laugh and say look at him being big guy and angry.

When mom and kids anger are taken like that why is an husband anger taken in a wrong way and people think it is good to be away with self respect. Today 1 day distance with self respect won't it one day become a forever distance. ( well the anger has extremes and I am not talking about that )

4. Did abhi push ak ?

Ak fell pulling abhi down when he saw her face he turned his and according to my observation abhi only came to give hand maybe it looks different when he did it turning his face away. Later ak pushed it slightly and hugged him at that moment we could see the unshed tears and hurt in both of their eyes.

Abhi's worst ever trait is his anger. Yesterday abhi imagined putting blame on ak saying truth came out because of her. People in anger and the words they spill are the most dangerous once. Ak is trying to calm abhi through all the possible way in one side and the other side abhi is running from ak he isn't even throwing her away. If it was anyone else abhi could have easily put the blame on them its his father's blood running in every single veins of his. Do mistake put blame on your unwanted wife here abhi love's ak with every once of his blood that he is trying to cool himself from doing something that the both will regret. Abhi does that with ar even if she is right or wrong in his eyes she is wrong and he will easily blame her for anything.

Since yesterday episode abhi ones didn't look at ak eye to eye. But ak had always held her head and looked abhi in his eyes. Ak has the right truth and she knows she wasn't at fault but abhi is holding to a false information and avoiding ak eyes.

It's either look at ak eyes and ask her kyun kyun kyun??? Or forget everything and hug her which he can't do.

If he questioned his wife it's like blaming her if he hugged her he is doing in justice with his brother.

Abhira hand, legs, foot, hugs and kisses I don't know what story they said but their eyes spoke all they wanted to speak.

If you guys didn't trust me look at yesterday episode abhira in GV house. If I don't know it was Dr. Abhimanyu Birla their I would have thought some chor entered their house the way he was looking at everything and anything except for his wife. 🤣🤣

Precap abhira eyes though tells a hell a lot of different story. Is that happiness in abhi eyes. Abhi said he need to do havan to spend a night with his wife and here is the havan. Mata wanted to do for neil doesn't know what's God's planning. 🥰🥰🥰

Don't kick me for this in that way manju too chose pyaar over her self respect but only time and episodes need to tell is that choice worth it. If it was any other place her choosing would have been acceptable but here she chose her piya tose over kids who needed their parents and Mata gets double kick from all of us their. One sorry that too fake wala and Mata is a gone case. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🧹🧹🧹

Originally posted by: IAMHope

Do you think Akshara has hurt her hand ( red dress )

Originally posted by: Reva_IF

lovely review Meher as always!!! My comments in blue above 👆

Abhi signed all the best to Neil when he joined in the office. he will leave his Everything and goes out with ak..that's to prove his selfless love for his brother or when ak is thrown away by family. If neil.asks questions what blue net is done on him today , then abhi will prove his love for neil leaving Everything. Neil will come out on his own from trap..