Abhira Shaadi(wokeness overload) - Page 2

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

I'll tell you things I liked in the wedding and things I didn't like

I loved how beautiful both bride and groom looked. Harshad and Pranali were shining

I loved everyone's colorful dresses . Almost everyone's

Baarat was awesome and the energy too good.

Loved the decorations and bridal entry

Abhimanyus support to Akshara and Manish during bidaai

What I didn't like

Akshara's over crying in bidaai especially last mein. This was love marriage and just few mins before you were upset that you don't get to stay back for Rasam.

Twisting of Rasams. I don't know why people think this is fun and want to compete in everything. It's like tomorrow they will even twist men to get pregnant. Really didn't enjoy Neils sandal thing too

When Abhi brings Akshu in Mandap it was all empty. Very unrealistic

Missing of relatives Naksh, Keerthi or any others friends or Singhanias Maheshwaris.

Agree Nisha even I liked the costumes, lighting and ambience.

I loved the clothes and decor but my complaint is they didn't provide an opportunity for us to enjoy, where's the celebration the elder insecure birlas were all tight even during the wedding.

The love ❤️ heart back light, those petal props, the lighting around the mandap, someone should have talked about the aesthetics.

Girl going to mayka never seeking permission from sasuraal is a given in our house. So, I can't understand abhi's words during Bidaai. May be I should thank my family then.

Also my FIL didn't let my bidaai ki rasm(appaginthalu) because he didn't want me(his ghar ki lakshmi) to cry on a Friday.

Akshara crying during bidaai I didn't mention this before because I didnt want to sound insensitive to others who might cry.

Agree because abhimanyu is the love of her life so, They could have shown akshu joyfully going to her sasuraal surprising everyone.

Yeah, probably due to costs they must have reduced the guests. Agree mandap felt really empty😒.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Agree Nisha even I liked the costumes, lighting and ambience.

I loved the clothes and decor but my complaint is they didn't provide an opportunity for us to enjoy, where's the celebration the elder insecure birlas were all tight even during the wedding.

The love ❤️ heart back light, those petal props, the lighting around the mandap, someone should have talked about the aesthetics.

Girl going to mayka never seeking permission from sasuraal is a given in our house. So, I can't understand abhi's words during Bidaai. May be I should thank my family then.

Also my FIL didn't let my bidaai ki rasm(appaginthalu) because he didn't want me(his ghar ki lakshmi) to cry on a Friday.

Akshara crying during bidaai I didn't mention this before because I didnt want to sound insensitive to others who might cry.

Agree because abhimanyu is the love of her life so, They could have shown akshu joyfully going to her sasuraal surprising everyone.

Yeah, probably due to costs they must have reduced the guests. Agree mandap felt really empty😒.

Raji I am myself very very emotional person too. That is one reason I don't have pet because their life span is less. But when during bidaai akshara lays down on floor crying mujhse nahi hoga but little before and precap they show her so excited, director makes it very dramatic.

I agree girls don't need permission to go their maayka and boys not doing any favor by saying that. Thankfully I am lucky in that regards.

Just curious to know whatever you FIL said did you appreciate that or not. Is it not too much to ask someone not to cry because of some day.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

I'll tell you things I liked in the wedding and things I didn't like

I loved how beautiful both bride and groom looked. Harshad and Pranali were shining

I loved everyone's colorful dresses . Almost everyone's

Baarat was awesome and the energy too good.

Loved the decorations and bridal entry

Abhimanyus support to Akshara and Manish during bidaai

What I didn't like

Akshara's over crying for lehenga and in bidaai especially last mein. This was love marriage and just few mins before you were upset that you don't get to stay back for Rasam.

Twisting of Rasams. I don't know why people think this is fun and want to compete in everything. It's like tomorrow they will even twist men to get pregnant. Really didn't enjoy Neils sandal thing too

When Abhi brings Akshu in Mandap it was all empty. Very unrealistic

Missing of relatives Naksh, Keerthi or any others friends or Singhanias Maheshwaris.

Sirf abhira ki wedding ke liye 4 time kaun afford karega new actor . Ishliye producer ne Idea cancel kar diya hoga.

3rd naksh bepannah mai harshad ka bhai bana tha. Yaha agar ata toh mamu sasur ka role kar ke dono khub haste.

Ps.Naksh n kirti summer vacation pe bhaag bgaye .

Jaipur ki garmi dekh kar.Naksh kirti yeh log kaun se country mai the 😅

Note:- actual reason ka Mujhe dur dur tak pata nahi dosto. Ishliye maine socha aise hi kuch reason hoga. 😁

Mujhe abhi tak ka sabse bekaar function sangeet laga . Ek bhi song dono pe suit nahi kar rahe the. Plus jaldi baji mai kuch bhi karwa diya.

Kuch dance sequence kafi mast choreography kiye gaye the.

1. Salaam e Ishq

2.Mahi ve

3. Mauja hi mauja.

Yeh teeno mere ab tak ke favourite hai.

Otherwise sangeet bakwas tha

Baki maine Jaipur track enjoy Kiya. But wedding pura nahi dekha buhut kheech rahe the doh episode Tak.

Aane wale episodes mast hoge aise meko lagta hai 😃.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

Raji I am myself very very emotional person too. That is one reason I don't have pet because their life span is less. But when during bidaai akshara lays down on floor crying mujhse nahi hoga but little before and precap they show her so excited, director makes it very dramatic.

I agree girls don't need permission to go their maayka and boys not doing any favor by saying that. Thankfully I am lucky in that regards.

Just curious to know whatever you FIL said did you appreciate that or not. Is it not too much to ask someone not to cry because of some day.

Nisha my FIL didn't tell me not to cry because its Friday, he told my parents that he want to avoid the rasm as it can make a girl teary eyed(I appreciate him for that).

Originally posted by: beanstalk04

@raji n Nisha naksh 3 baar already changed ho gaya hai 🤣.

Sirf abhira ki wedding ke liye 4 time kaun afford karega new actor . Ishliye producer ne Idea cancel kar diya hoga.

3rd naksh bepannah mai harshad ka bhai bana tha. Yaha agar ata toh mamu sasur ka role kar ke dono khub haste.

Ps.Naksh n kirti summer vacation pe bhaag bgaye .

Jaipur ki garmi dekh kar.Naksh kirti yeh log kaun se country mai the 😅

Note:- actual reason ka Mujhe dur dur tak pata nahi dosto. Ishliye maine socha aise hi kuch reason hoga. 😁

Mujhe abhi tak ka sabse bekaar function sangeet laga . Ek bhi song dono pe suit nahi kar rahe the. Plus jaldi baji mai kuch bhi karwa diya.

Kuch dance sequence kafi mast choreography kiye gaye the.

1. Salaam e Ishq

2.Mahi ve

3. Mauja hi mauja.

Yeh teeno mere ab tak ke favourite hai.

Otherwise sangeet bakwas tha

Baki maine Jaipur track enjoy Kiya. But wedding pura nahi dekha buhut kheech rahe the doh episode Tak.

Aane wale episodes mast hoge aise meko lagta hai 😃.

Madhuji 🤗aasha karti hu ki aap naksh mamu ka la patha hone ki ek acha story hamein dijiye🤣, lotpot hona hai mujhe. 😆🤣

I have been ff'ing all the episodes since mehendi, even I skipped entire sangeet ever since I saw akshara tripped abhi over scene precap, I'm team abhira, I root for their togetherness.

Today when abhi said abhira ke kamrein mein chale, it was awkward because raji can't say let's get into raji's room right🤣

True.. kairav and vansh carrying her would’ve been more fun to watch. you have a very good imagination, better than the cv’s😁.

Originally posted by: Susi26

True.. kairav and vansh carrying her would’ve been more fun to watch. you have a very good imagination, better than the cv’s😁.

Thank you, I don't have brothers but love seeing brother sister relationship that's why

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

I might get bashed for saying this, before anybody taking the trouble to attack me, let me remind the people who wants to bash me, spare your energies and refrain yourselves from responding here.

I immensely respect different viewpoints and vibrant opinions, but I didn't enjoy abhira wedding for the lack of the happiness vibes and woke rituals also did play their part in spoiling the fun for me.

The stale TRPs also resonate there are many like me.

As anticipated abhira shaadi is a mockery of rituals and it reeked of being woke. Which I didn't like IMO it was unnecessary.

I suspected this and hence hibernated myself and ff'd the scenes where they went overboard.

Things I didn't like:

Endless Crying:Why so much of dukh Dard peeda 😡the CVs made sure both our leads cry copiously😭 as a result successfully spoiled the wedding vibe, they should have kept in mind, when the leads have thorny path planned ahead atleast audience deserve a happy tear-free wedding.

Lazy Ladkewale:I am annoyed that leaving the elders aside, even the progressive woke young Birla boys were just chilling when dulhan's bhai was breaking his back.

The Lehenga Hunt: It's quite common in a shaadi to forget things but dulhan ka lehenga gaayab hona is irresponsiblilty to the power of infinity ♾️ and dulha going on a hunt is OTT and 😴, heard that's the clichéd drama of YRKKH weddings from S2 but hated it.(CVs instead of changing the montage, please change the serial name to adventures of Abhimanyu Birla if you want to continue this🤢. )

The Unpredictable Dulhan: The dulhan was oscillating between a crybaby to grinning with all her teeth, it was boring, nauseating and was borderline lunacy. There is no normalcy.

Now please don't say that's her character and its going to tone down, she was normal until the mandir confession.

The dulhan arrival: Dulhan arriving alone to the mandap in front of many is something I can't relate to.

The dulha carrying dulhan:They should have carried the dulhan in a beautiful doli, and gave us the opportunity to enjoy the aesthetics, that would have looked pure royalty instead of abusing dulha as a gadhaa carrying dulhan and her bhari Barkham dress.

The decor:Though the decor was beautiful they didn't let us pay much attention to the aesthetics, wonder what is the purpose of such a beautiful setting.

The REVERSE Sindoor: what kind of a joke is that, ladka has no maang, but ladki fills ladka ka somewhere in Head god knows where🤪 with sindoor, it's not equality its mockery of traditions. Instead they should have altogether skipped sindoordaan rasm.

To me this is like complaining why a male cannot conceive and get pregnant.

Jhootha chupana and bhabhi pooja by Dewar: I couldn't understand the whole point of Neil stealing akshara sandals, him wearing them and then washing her feet and returning them, they could have given it a miss.

The BIKER dulhan:Why do they make life so difficult for dulhan after an exhausting wedding, can't they let her husband drive her home. Wonder who on earth rides a bike on their shaadi lehenga attire, if her dupatta or ghagra stuck in the wheel can be hazardous and can cause accidents.

Lmao I agree, just get rid of sindoor and the mangalsutra thing too. I don't see the guy having to wear a mangalsutra. They try to be different and progressive but still end up being typical, the crying bs at the dholi, the whole Akshara Abhimanyu Singh Birla wtf 😂😂.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

I might get bashed for saying this, before anybody taking the trouble to attack me, let me remind the people who wants to bash me, spare your energies and refrain yourselves from responding here.

I immensely respect different viewpoints and vibrant opinions, but I didn't enjoy abhira wedding for the lack of the happiness vibes and woke rituals also did play their part in spoiling the fun for me.

The stale TRPs also resonate there are many like me.

As anticipated abhira shaadi is a mockery of rituals and it reeked of being woke. Which I didn't like IMO it was unnecessary.

I suspected this and hence hibernated myself and ff'd the scenes where they went overboard.

Things I didn't like:

Endless Crying:Why so much of dukh Dard peeda 😡the CVs made sure both our leads cry copiously😭 as a result successfully spoiled the wedding vibe, they should have kept in mind, when the leads have thorny path planned ahead atleast audience deserve a happy tear-free wedding.

Lazy Ladkewale:I am annoyed that leaving the elders aside, even the progressive woke young Birla boys were just chilling when dulhan's bhai was breaking his back.

The Lehenga Hunt: It's quite common in a shaadi to forget things but dulhan ka lehenga gaayab hona is irresponsiblilty to the power of infinity ♾️ and dulha going on a hunt is OTT and 😴, heard that's the clichéd drama of YRKKH weddings from S2 but hated it.(CVs instead of changing the montage, please change the serial name to adventures of Abhimanyu Birla if you want to continue this🤢. )

The Unpredictable Dulhan: The dulhan was oscillating between a crybaby to grinning with all her teeth, it was boring, nauseating and was borderline lunacy. There is no normalcy.

Now please don't say that's her character and its going to tone down, she was normal until the mandir confession.

The dulhan arrival: Dulhan arriving alone to the mandap in front of many is something I can't relate to.

The dulha carrying dulhan:They should have carried the dulhan in a beautiful doli, and gave us the opportunity to enjoy the aesthetics, that would have looked pure royalty instead of abusing dulha as a gadhaa carrying dulhan and her bhari Barkham dress.

The decor:Though the decor was beautiful they didn't let us pay much attention to the aesthetics, wonder what is the purpose of such a beautiful setting.

The REVERSE Sindoor: what kind of a joke is that, ladka has no maang, but ladki fills ladka ka somewhere in Head god knows where🤪 with sindoor, it's not equality its mockery of traditions. Instead they should have altogether skipped sindoordaan rasm.

To me this is like complaining why a male cannot conceive and get pregnant.

Jhootha chupana and bhabhi pooja by Dewar: I couldn't understand the whole point of Neil stealing akshara sandals, him wearing them and then washing her feet and returning them, they could have given it a miss.

The BIKER dulhan:Why do they make life so difficult for dulhan after an exhausting wedding, can't they let her husband drive her home. Wonder who on earth rides a bike on their shaadi lehenga attire, if her dupatta or ghagra stuck in the wheel can be hazardous and can cause accidents.

Was wondering why u went on hibernation mode for such long time.... Abh samaj aaya 🤣

I agree with most of your points mentioned here....

That lehenga search was the most boring part..... I FFd the entire episode ..... And Abhi ko hi jaana tha doondne..... I seriously did not understand the significance of this plot other than to just add teo three extra episodes .....

Though Abhira going back home on bike seemed cute.... But definetly in that jhoda riding bike from jaipur to udaipur is totally crazy.....

I loved Akshus grand entry but was really scared she might trip and fall bring girija as per abhi.... Girthi phirthi hey..... Yess doli would have def been very sweet.....

The entire wedding sequence from they getting ready to bidhai i enjoyed minus

The bidhai , that reverse sindhoor.... If as per abhi he needs to wear the sindoor as its not only akshus wedding but its Abhiras .... Then mangalsutra also he should wear na..... Woh kyun nehi kiya ? He will look funny wearing it and going to hospital.... Jamba lakadi pamba vibes.... 🤣

I enjoyed the bharaat the most and that fake akshu scene was my most fav 🤣

And that pandit ji 😡

From whatever I watched, I liked my wedding thread better so I skipped and just see pictures.

I have lost connect to the whole story. I love AbhiRa but what's the point of them being AbhiRa if being that requires compromise on morals and ethics and hiding your own damn insecurities? For me love have a simple meaning, showing and walking the right path and if you cant do that, then thats not love for me and accident track made me nauseating especially with AK character and later I felt so so disappointed with Abhi and angry with Manjiri that I stopped myself from watching. I know whats going on in the show thank to twitter.

Coming to shaadi rituals, they gave me no vibes with an insensitive AK, deep down hurted and unhappy Abhi and a criminal Arohi present there.

Coming to the execution, my wedding thread one was far better. I know it sound arrogant and haughty but I felt it is :)