Abhi is not completely wrong.. - Page 3

Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

Definitely but those things you described - the indecisiveness, shakiness fearfulness at any lil thing - 3are signs of extensive trauma. If I knew more about her background and relationship with Harsh, I could say, with more confidence, if she's experiencing symptoms of PTSD (I'm a psychology major, this is what I study for a living).

Look I'm not Manjari's fan but sometimes, she makes valid points IMO.

Of course anyone's nature/behaviour/reaction is trigger of past incidences or some reason behind it.

But why make others also the same and stop not to respond to the situation.

Oppositely, she should learn from her situation in life and try to prevent it to happen to others. Look at HArsh, he didn't get equal partner so now he is fighting with his son for choosing a girl who is not from the same medical background

Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

Definitely but those things you described - the indecisiveness, shakiness fearfulness at any lil thing - 3are signs of extensive trauma. If I knew more about her background and relationship with Harsh, I could say, with more confidence, if she's experiencing symptoms of PTSD (I'm a psychology major, this is what I study for a living).

Look I'm not Manjari's fan but sometimes, she makes valid points IMO.

YEs, I like when she tried to make Abhi understand that he is inviting more trouble for Akshu to set foot in Birla House

But she should also try to talk to Harsh for Abhira that Your son's happiness lies with her.

Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

But Manjari-Harsh are not Abhira. Abhi should know, by now with her multiple declarations of 'I am choti sherni', that she is different from his mother. Even Mahima knows it.

To be fair, she (kind of) has in the past. On the day of the wedding when Harsh wanted her to bring Abhi back she clearly said no. She’s like jo mera beta chahta hai, wohi hoga.

Then at the wedding, she also scolded her son a lil but that’s still more than I expect from her, so I took it as a win

And Mahima thinks Abhi loves Ak because He sees his mom in her🤣. What a backhanded compliment that was, how sweetly she slipped that insult in. I do hope Abhi picked up on that.

Harsh uses her when he wants - he just manipulates her and she loves getting manipulated for her Harshji.
MG thinks Ak will have a solid supporting figure in Manjari - he is wrong - Manjaru kudh ki help nhi kar sakti what will she help Abhira.

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

This is what Harsh complains about her. Raita mata can't do things properly when comes to rishta. She is only good in kitchen, not in speaking to rishte dar, outside world.

She gives lambe bhasan to all birla kids and shows them her bichari state and make the elders look villains. She always discuss with Abhi, Parth, Neil about how things happen this way not so good..but her brain never works in the direction to get the solution of the situation or even tries to do so. She withdraws and says "Hey Kanha ji sambhal lena"

Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

Other times she jumps to conclusions and makes a mess (Oh, my son fted me and a girl randomly walked into the frame, he must love her).

that was so immature of her to make assumption for such major and big decision for her son's life

If you see...most of the time, she cooks raita inside her by unnecessarily fearing of things by assumption and then serve the same raita to Birla kids. Elders don't take her serving

Originally posted by: IAMHope

And Mahima thinks Abhi loves Ak because He sees his mom in her🤣. What a backhanded compliment that was, how sweetly she slipped that insult in. I do hope Abhi picked up on that.

Harsh uses her when he wants - he just manipulates her and she loves getting manipulated for her Harshji.
MG thinks Ak will have a solid supporting figure in Manjari - he is wrong - Manjaru kudh ki help nhi kar sakti what will she help Abhira.

Abhi will help Akshu for her career..I will not be surprised to see him setting music studio and gifting her

Originally posted by: pbv3434

right now ak was not present ..in his absence he ws defending her thts what a person does when some speaks bad abt thier loved ones..i can say this because I will react the same way like abhi..I would not tolerate a single bad word abt my loved ones.😊I personally think abhi was not wrong bt I also respect ur pov.😊

I also think that at times Abhi fails to understand his mom too. If he did, he would’ve never asked her to leave the house with him, like Akshu said, and make her choose between her family (Mahima the kids and harsh) and her son. I understand his wanting to leave and honestly, I would’ve left in his situation (trust me I’ve tried in real life).

And yeah, Akshu wasn’t there but what about their soul connection? Does it only work for when the other person is injured or nearby? Isn’t the real soul connection understanding each other? For example, the day of the pooja, so many people were upset that Akshu didn’t understand Abhi or didn’t call him. Rightfully so cause in that moment, he needed reassurance of her love and she didn’t give it to him

Bold :

Absolutely. She made his son look like an idiot. He loves Abhi to the moon and back. Abhi forgave her but she needs to do something big to compensate for the insult his boy bore during the Tilak.

Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

I don't think so actually. He was never a fan of Akshu but his hatred began with her silence at the Tilak. Like Abhimanyu said that day, uske pyaar ne hi usko sab ke samne galat thera diya. Harsh offered Akshara a second chance to speak up but there again, she made a spectacle out of his son. He also saw Manjari's parchai in her and as the fandom contested during the first two months of the show, manjari is a raita mata.

I'm not justifying Harsh's behaviour, he has no respect for others, especially not women. It's why I found his dialogue, mujhe sabse zyaada lago betiyon se hai, comical. He's abusive - physically, verbally, mentally - egotistical, and insecure. He's the second Vanraj Shah (not surprising since Anupamaa is also a Rajan show).

If Abhi didn't defend Akshu, I would've kicked his ass, that is unforgivable. But like Manjari said, this baap-beta duo don't know how to respond well to situations.

Originally posted by: Baarish_Sim

To be fair, she (kind of) has in the past. On the day of the wedding when Harsh wanted her to bring Abhi back she clearly said no. She’s like jo mera beta chahta hai, wohi hoga.

Then at the wedding, she also scolded her son a lil but that’s still more than I expect from her, so I took it as a win

After Abhi ran away, she had no choice. Raita was spread by her. Her son wasn't going to return for marriage for sure. She should have stopped them for taking barat to Goenkas. She could have opened her mouth telling Abhi ran away for marriage, no need to tell he is with AK. She doesn't uses her brain or she doesn't know how to handle the situation with less damage.

She was all ready to sacrifice her son's happiness for her husband's wish..she wasn't blind to know her son was suffocating with Aarohi. she remained intentionally oblivious.

Let see why she is so submissive to Harsh...