SELFISH LOVE AND INSECURITIES - Page 7

Originally posted by: hari15

Harsh should blame it on manjari yaar. If only she didn't call abhi in that ghat abhi won't have heard akshu singing and run behind his soul wala connection.

" Hey sab manjari ki waja se "

Now harsh is standing in the middle of the bridge not knowing which direction he should go.

Did you see manjari face she looked so cool when she asked about that condition and i almost got a vampire vibe from her. She is cool as cucumber. This condition it's like giving all of birla's specially abhi a reality check over his family life.

This is kind of exciting where I have hundreds of questions and waiting for it's answers.

Waiting for all the emotions of birla's to come out through this.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Harsh guessed something when Manish wanted to meet Abhi alone. Tomorrow deal or no deal is not leaked to all..so the poison affects Harsh first and then Manju mata calmly asks Abhi she is facing OPPOSITE side of Abhi so both will have to support others in their way. abhi will go for Manish but wants Manjari too and Mata ji will chose Harsh. Harsh manipulated Manjari in between to ask the deal and mataji might keep cooker as usual. With Manish entry and Abhi giving him arti total dynamics changed again..next is my Babloo who will run keeping meri pyari Bindu infront. E sab uss Goenkas ki wajah se, iss akshara ki wajah se, sach mein Nachaniya family hi, mere bete ko mere se cheenrahe hi manjari , e sab tumhari wajah se hi manjari and he falls down 😂😂

Meher today episode was soooooooo super. Why? Because harsh is running. Harsh eating from manjari and running after her are the best of it.

He can't even shout now in front of all for the fear of his son packing all his things and leaving immediately. Maybe he should choose his calm and manipulative route.

Originally posted by: hari15

Meher today episode was soooooooo super. Why? Because harsh is running. Harsh eating from manjari and running after her are the best of it.

He can't even shout now in front of all for the fear of his son packing all his things and leaving immediately. Maybe he should choose his calm and manipulative route.

Originally posted by: hari15

Harsh should blame it on manjari yaar. If only she didn't call abhi in that ghat abhi won't have heard akshu singing and run behind his soul wala connection.

" Hey sab manjari ki waja se "

Now harsh is standing in the middle of the bridge not knowing which direction he should go.

Did you see manjari face she looked so cool when she asked about that condition and i almost got a vampire vibe from her. She is cool as cucumber. This condition it's like giving all of birla's specially abhi a reality check over his family life.

This is kind of exciting where I have hundreds of questions and waiting for it's answers.

Waiting for all the emotions of birla's to come out through this.

Ya Hari! Birlas are actually in panic mode.. Harsh losing his son, even Anand and Mahimas anxiety i could make out, probably for the hospital but Manjeri was like soo cool and composed.. Even if she had a bit of change in emotions, I could sense it was only for Harsh and his restlessness. She literally runs that Birla home even though from the backyard..and the power she holds is not at all visible at the first glance.. We can see Harshs outbursts, Anand nd Mahimas sarcastic taunts for power and supremacy..but never from Manjeri and whatever happpens in that family, each step that is carried out is actually carried out by Manjeri. We dont realize it since she is too subtle and docile. She is the one who is holding everyone there in their respective place and play the politics from behind the curtain and her Trump card is Abhi..The whole Birla family is dependent on Dr. Abhimanyu and she has her Abhi in her finger tips and the best part is he doesnt give a damn for anybody else other than his Mom. So everybody is indirectly dependent on Manjeri..

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Ya Hari! Birlas are actually in panic mode.. Harsh losing his son, even Anand and Mahimas anxiety i could make out, probably for the hospital but Manjeri was like soo cool and composed.. Even if she had a bit of change in emotions, I could sense it was only for Harsh and his restlessness. She literally runs that Birla home even though from the backyard..and the power she holds is not at all visible at the first glance.. We can see Harshs outbursts, Anand nd Mahimas sarcastic taunts for power and supremacy..but never from Manjeri and whatever happpens in that family, each step that is carried out is actually carried out by Manjeri. We dont realize it since she is too subtle and docile. She is the one who is holding everyone there in their respective place and play the politics from behind the curtain and her Trump card is Abhi..The whole Birla family is dependent on Dr. Abhimanyu and she has her Abhi in her finger tips and the best part is he doesnt give a damn for anybody else other than his Mom. So everybody is indirectly dependent on Manjeri..

Remember our old discussions where we thought all need to acceot their mistakes where they went wrong . Ak realised she is confused for her feeling in first tilak and rejected Abhi when her lehenga was struck in car on vasant panchami. Abhi told kv that he did wrong in confusion and is paying for that till now he reminded him going to Ar alliance taking manjaris wishes. Today Manish agreed I had a different take on you but I am ok with you now. So he rectified that him saying idhar udhar is wrong and he trusted his love on Ak saying you can defend her in your house.

Next will be from manjari and Harsh.

And last if they make us happy it's Arohi .

They can finish the circles and go for marriage.

But let Ar be jealous from next day we love it.

Superb analysis as always Hari❤️❤️, it gives differnt kind of thought to the show

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Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Now the ball will be in Manjaris court and she will tell Abhi to go alone. She won't leave her hubby.

Remember our old discussions where we thought all need to acceot their mistakes where they went wrong . Ak realised she is confused for her feeling in first tilak and rejected Abhi when her lehenga was struck in car on vasant panchami. Abhi told kv that he did wrong in confusion and is paying for that till now he reminded him going to Ar alliance taking manjaris wishes. Today Manish agreed I had a different take on you but I am ok with you now. So he rectified that him saying idhar udhar is wrong and he trusted his love on Ak saying you can defend her in your house.

Next will be from manjari and Harsh.

And last if they make us happy it's Arohi .

They can finish the circles and go for marry.

But let Ar be jealous from next day we live it.

Originally posted by: Iforum435

Very nicely summarized. Everyone who did wrong till now have to accept their mistake first only then Abhira will get green signal for marriage 👏

Originally posted by: Iforum435

I haven’t watched season 2 but thank you meher for showing me the connect.

So to sum up everyone’s POV:

Manish’s POV: put forth condition— this will secure ak future happiness but it is unfair to abhi.
Unless this is all his grand plan/scheme to test abhi and get Birlas to accept ak. If this is the case, then I will so “shaahtang namaskar” to him and will fall to his feet for his brilliance at playing this game of chess. 😂😂

Abhi’s POV: All he wants is ak. He declared in front of Mahadev that ak is his only goal from now on. But now he will realize it’s not as easy. Cause he wouldn’t want to cause pain to his loved ones (Manjari) for achieving his goal. May be he will understand ak dilemma.
Actually, I was reading a lot of other posts where people are saying that this condition puts abhi in ak shoes (sorry I don’t remember who all wrote it but a lot of members did). Contrary to those opinions, I feel that ak asked to choose between family and abhi is not the same as Abhi asked to choose between ak and Manjari. Let me explain… abhi loves Manjari and Neil. But for Manjari it’s not just love, I feel abhi thinks he needs to protect Manjari from harsh. That if he leaves Manjari by herself she will be all alone with no one by her side (remember in the drunken convo he was saying to ak, “Mein Bilkul Akela hu, ek maa hai par woh bhi akeli, bus hum ek doosre ka Sahara hai”. Abhi is madly in love with ak but at the same time he is very responsible and protective. So he feels he can’t leave Manjari but he can leave Neil though he loves him dearly since Neil can fend for himself. Now coming to ak, when she is asked to choose between abhi and family, her choice is simply her choice and no one is affected or left alone unprotected (except maybe abhi but he is a big boy, so it’s ok 🤷‍♀️)

Ak POV: for her, family is as important as love. And since she has accepted abhi as hers, his family is also her family. So she will not want to cause any pain to either family. She rather keep pain (ie delay in getting marriage approval) for herself (and indirectly abhi) rather than give pain to family.

When/if abhi agrees to Manish condition then may be ak will see the depth of abhi’s love for her and realize how she reacted in same situation earlier (when she rejected abhi for ar) and how much it would have hurt abhi and will understand his insecurities.

Harsh POV: Poor guy is put in a very bad position by Manish’s condition. He is doing everything to hold on to his son but the game is slipping from his hand. He has to realize that abhi and ak are one package (ek ke saath ek free) so he will need to accept ak if he wants abhi.

Just for fun, I have two suggestions for papa Birla to get back at Manish:

1) Harsh can come up with a condition of his own that requires kairav to leave Goenkas if he wants to marry Anisha. But this might not work and back fire because kairav is no “abhimanyu birla” and he will be like “ta ta bye bye anisha. It was nice knowing you” 😂😂😂

2) He can butter Ak and bond really really well with her so that Manish gets jealous of harsh-ak bond just like harsh is jealous of manish-abhi bond.. all the more fun for us- win win situation 😁😁😁

Ok now getting serious again;

The first race (abhi vs arohi for ak) when it started was obvious (abhi was literally running as if in a race) and it was easy to see as viewers. Abhi wins=ak as reward and if arohi wins = abhi as reward

This race (abhi vs harsh for Manish) is more subtle and needs a lot of thought to recognize what makers are trying to do. I understand that since abhi held Manish first, he accepted condition and as reward gets ak. But I still am not seeing what would have happened if harsh would have reached Manish first. Because for him, his reward should be “no ak” . so how would harsh reaching Manish first gotten him “no ak”???

Am i misunderstanding the whole race ??? 😢

Harsh though understands his son well but failed to play the game well. So now he is suffering.. He thought he could manipulate Abhi and tie him up with Arohi which was an easier option according to him with the threat of his mom Manjeris health.. He miserably failed and as return gift got public humiliation, abhis resignation for the Birla hospital and the threat of leaving home as well..

If he has learnt his lesson well, need to change his tactics and brush up his manipulating and negotiating skills but this time not on Abhi but on Akshara and Manish..He needs to beg, plead, cry whatever to convince these two so that his wish can be granted and change the scenario. Bade Papa sure would change his decision if that word is given by Harsh that he as an elder Birla can guarantee his grand daughters dignity, welfare and happiness in the Birla home.

Abhi really needed a reality check and this deal serves that purpose. He had till now put Akshara in the same shoes and made her to choose between her family member and him.. And she did choose him with the consequence of public humiliation for the family, her sisters marriage being broken at the last moment, causing pain and heartbreak to her and the trauma of facing the public and their sarcastic comments. He had thandav and one whole episode went for that depicting his anger and his insecurities and thereby taking the pledge to go any length to achieve Akshara in his life.. its easier said than done.. Thats life..

Abhi was the one who wanted to elope and get married which portrays his selfish motive of wanting only Akshara in his life. Akshara was not convinced, as she wanted both the families acceptance and their blessings, so that plan was a flop.. Now Bade papa is agreeing for the marriage, though with a condition. Why is he hesitating to accept it??? Cos of the fear of leaving his mom and protecting her right.. So he wanted Akshara to prioritise his love over everybody and in her shoes what is he doing?? Is he prioritising Aksharas love above everybody?? No right.. WE cant do that.. Everybody has a place in our life, our parents, siblings, girlfriend/boyfriend or wife/husband, all of them are equally important.. None can be replaced by the other. Abhi needed to understand this.

Manish is a grandfather has his own apprehensions and insecurities.. How can he give away his beloved granddaughter to a family who never respects her nor honours her dignity or profession. He trusts Abhi and knows that he will fight for her.. But we cant live a normal peaceful life having tiffs and arguments everyday and on top Abhi being a busy surgeon wont be at home most of the time to defend and protect his wife Akshara..

This deal when out will make each Birla member including Abhi to think hard over their priorities and their hold over each other and their happiness.. If Harsh needs his son with him, he needs to sacrifice his ego and come in terms with Manish on a mutual ground and convince him. Harsh and the Birla family need to go to Goenka house asking for Aksharas hand with all due respect and guarantee her happiness as well.

Abhi has left Harsh with no option regarding Akshara.. So the only way of getting his son his manaofying bade papa..

By Wednesday, we all will be back to square 1 i suppose when Akshara kicks out this deal.. And it will then give laser treatment to Harsh, all the Birlas and Abhi as well of Aksharas selfless love for everyone including goenka family, birla family and Abhi as well..

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Harsh though understands his son well but failed to play the game well. So now he is suffering.. He thought he could manipulate Abhi and tie him up with Arohi which was an easier option according to him with the threat of his mom Manjeris health.. He miserably failed and as return gift got public humiliation, abhis resignation for the Birla hospital and the threat of leaving home as well..

If he has learnt his lesson well, need to change his tactics and brush up his manipulating and negotiating skills but this time not on Abhi but on Akshara and Manish..He needs to beg, plead, cry whatever to convince these two so that his wish can be granted and change the scenario. Bade Papa sure would change his decision if that word is given by Harsh that he as an elder Birla can guarantee his grand daughters dignity, welfare and happiness in the Birla home.

Abhi really needed a reality check and this deal serves that purpose. He had till now put Akshara in the same shoes and made her to choose between her family member and him.. And she did choose him with the consequence of public humiliation for the family, her sisters marriage being broken at the last moment, causing pain and heartbreak to her and the trauma of facing the public and their sarcastic comments. He had thandav and one whole episode went for that depicting his anger and his insecurities and thereby taking the pledge to go any length to achieve Akshara in his life.. its easier said than done.. Thats life..

Abhi was the one who wanted to elope and get married which portrays his selfish motive of wanting only Akshara in his life. Akshara was not convinced, as she wanted both the families acceptance and their blessings, so that plan was a flop.. Now Bade papa is agreeing for the marriage, though with a condition. Why is he hesitating to accept it??? Cos of the fear of leaving his mom and protecting her right.. So he wanted Akshara to prioritise his love over everybody and in her shoes what is he doing?? Is he prioritising Aksharas love above everybody?? No right.. WE cant do that.. Everybody has a place in our life, our parents, siblings, girlfriend/boyfriend or wife/husband, all of them are equally important.. None can be replaced by the other. Abhi needed to understand this.

Manish is a grandfather has his own apprehensions and insecurities.. How can he give away his beloved granddaughter to a family who never respects her nor honours her dignity or profession. He trusts Abhi and knows that he will fight for her.. But we cant live a normal peaceful life having tiffs and arguments everyday and on top Abhi being a busy surgeon wont be at home most of the time to defend and protect his wife Akshara..

This deal when out will make each Birla member including Abhi to think hard over their priorities and their hold over each other and their happiness.. If Harsh needs his son with him, he needs to sacrifice his ego and come in terms with Manish on a mutual ground and convince him. Harsh and the Birla family need to go to Goenka house asking for Aksharas hand with all due respect and guarantee her happiness as well.

Abhi has left Harsh with no option regarding Akshara.. So the only way of getting his son his manaofying bade papa..

By Wednesday, we all will be back to square 1 i suppose when Akshara kicks out this deal.. And it will then give laser treatment to Harsh, all the Birlas and Abhi as well of Aksharas selfless love for everyone including goenka family, birla family and Abhi as well..