All of a sudden Akshara Abhi felt so distanced in today's episode

Even when the whole Anisha mystery was going on, Akshara sensed that Abhimanyu was stressed about something and she asked him multiple times if something is wrong. Yesterday he was so upset and all of a sudden she is absolutely unaware of his feelings and wanting to celebrate Mahashivaratri with her family. It does seem so out of character. And then she has this monolog that he is mature so he will understand her. Is she really that clueless as to how deeply he is in love with her. I mean if someone loved me like that, I would for sure know. Itna kaise koi tubelight hota hai!

The distance between them today really hurt, even more than when she refused his proposal!

Originally posted by: svpg

Even when the whole Anisha mystery was going on, Akshara sensed that Abhimanyu was stressed about something and she asked him multiple times if something is wrong. Yesterday he was so upset and all of a sudden she is absolutely unaware of his feelings and wanting to celebrate Mahashivaratri with her family. It does seem so out of character. And then she has this monolog that he is mature so he will understand her. Is she really that clueless as to how deeply he is in love with her. I mean if someone loved me like that, I would for sure know. Itna kaise koi tubelight hota hai!

The distance between them today really hurt, even more than when she refused his proposal!

A youtube couple that I'm a huge fan of recently got married. In their latest Q&A, they discussed what changed in their relationship post-marriage and this is what they said - "when we were just dating, it was our family and our significant other. We cared about both immensely but the family was the top priority. Now, my family has changed. My partner and the life we're about to create together is our family and I have to give it more heed because it needs a strong foundation." So now when they're making decisions, they do have to factor in each other more and understand the reciprocal effects. Before marriage, their partner was included in their family, and now their partner is their family.

Akshu hasn't experienced either of those mindsets; she hasn't intertwined Abhi in her idea of a family nor do I think she's wrapped her head around what a marriage looks like. When she sees Anisha, she doesn't see her future family, she sees Kairav's girlfriend and that's her motivation. Whereas Abhi, and surprisingly the Birlas, have. The Birla's understand how important the Goenka's are and are very involved but the Goenka's aren't. Even Harsh has given up - ye [Akshu] jo hai so hai.

I don't blame her cause of the way I watched that scene, I understood what Akshara's saying and would've said the same. It took me a good minute to see Abhi's point of view. Moreover, she almost lost the last father figure she had so it was a state of heightened emotions. But this isn't the first instance where she's separated Abhi from her 'apne'.

It's kind of surprising that Akshu thinks Abhi can get normal after their conversation. She should have talked to him atleast once to make sure he is doing fine.

The destiny of ITV characters..

Kabhi duniye ke dusre kone mein baithe sense kar lete hain that their lover is missing them.. Aur kabhi ek durse ko bina notice kare saamne se nikal jaate hain 🤪