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Posted: 3 years ago
#31

Hari brought out the complete epi befr us..

Now i suppose kaand nd the sufferings have been shifted to birlas hom with the food served by Ar..

I wish BP cud talk out to abhi nd discus bade Ps apprehensions.. how he feel tat abhis family will always mak ak suffer..But i guess tis wont happn..Nd he alrdy gave the hint as harsh s d reason fr his dsagreemnts..

Abhi is hurt unintentionally by Ak.. but for the first time, she didnt bottle up her emotions nd shared her apprehensions, guilt with Abhi.. though frm his perspective, all her lines r hittg him hard nd thrusting into his heart.. As it is he is always in a competitive spree with her family nd whole world for her love.. He is more interested in ranking and comparisons which ak is unable to do.. she loves each of the family member equally and next birla family too similarly.. See today for loving ani and taking care and trying to sort out the issues between mahima and ani.. wat dd she get.. taunt of not hvg a mother!! Did abhi see tat?? No right..

Here abhi has to learn many things..several facts and lessons in life.. when d adoption coms out..In anger he might b shattered nd emotionally atleast distance himself and avoid birlas for sometime.. but then slowly abhi will understand how much birlas have done fr him..to what extent they have protected him and taken care of him with all his flaws..

Watever papa B past was or kaand he did.. that dsnt deny that d fact that harsh nd anand made him a doc.. tuk care f him.. nd everytg.. gave him a family nd home.. nd manjeri becam tat caring mother who moulded him, guided him to right path always..Abhi hav to learn and understand this in time.. then only abhi can undrstand aks love for her family.. nd her insecurity due to her loss f parents at young age.. she s indebted to all d goenkas espclly aftr sirat death and with continuous accusations from ar lifelong..

When it comes to parents we dont feel indebted to them.. thats the beauty and love of parents nd children.. but if its anybdy else other than ur parents who nurtured u.. you will always feel indebted to them...

This part abhi will learn slowly.. aftr the adoption track..

Nd ak.. will learn to prioritise both abhi nd her family..but for her she will take more time.. nd in tat process even might lose something dear to her to understand the immense love and support that abhi gives ak..

Family is just a backsupport.. they cannot b your complete life.. you need a partner who walks along with you all the time lifelong.. which your family may not be able to do after a certain point.. thats the reason father does kanyadaan.. to take care of her in future nd lifelong.. giving that responsibilty to somebody who can cherish her lifelong when he is unable to do.. cos father cannot be with the daughter after a certain point due to the age nd other factors..

Could really feel for abhi today.. He was indirectly insulted for his love..wide range of emotions one after the other portrayed by HC was commendable..his grief, pain, tears and then anger nd fire in his eyes!!! Ak separated abhi and her family. Here she didnt consider abhi too as her family..nd regreted for her love being the cause of bade p amost death scenario.. its like telling abhi tat her choosing abhi is the reason for Bade P almost death and so she doesnt want such kind of love so indirectly nd unintentionally rejecting abhi and triggering his insecurity.. and i dont think this insecurity of abhi will be sorted out anywhere soon.. and will become a serious issue later in married life.. due to her continuous rejections and hence lack of that trust on Ak..

And this whole fiasco.. ak is clueless about.. Hope after marriage ak changes a bit in this matter for better...

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Posted: 3 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Hari good review of episode. BAGGAGE OF GUILT AND INSECURITIES. This is today's highlight..

Abhi wanted Ak to join hospital along with hi. He has taken decision for both and told her. Ak chose Bade papa hurt honge. She is back to herself always. Yesterday Maaf nahi karpavungi apne aap ko. Ak is thinking of only Manish now as he is I'll and got out from death . She didn't hug Abhi or thanked him specially. It was all her one lift yesterday and It's all due to Abhi. The man is an attention seeker purely loves Akshu leaves no complaints against it. When she checked Manishs heart saying he has come back for his kids he showed his heart beat. Abhi has to be told that he is her family now along with her Own family like how Abhi accepted Goenkas as his garden his responsibility. The girl who can't share her inner emotions to anyone first time infront of Abhi but result is his hurt.

She spoke about her parents loss, baggage of sirat and Taking peaceful way to give happiness to Ar. She is not ready for another baggage for yrs of Manish on her.in the way of chosing family she is always hurting Abhi. In chosing Abhi she is hurting family. This will go on and on but for her it's always a struck situation for both. And she is unable to pacify both. If she spoke that Abhi has saved from her guilt by saving Manish he could have understood it. But her words spoken are right went in wrong way to him. She chose him against Ar, and manish publicly but his insecurities are always there as she choses her family against him.

Today its HC day in acting. He gave perfect changed expressions in whole scene changing his face expressions showing his pain, hurt and insecurity. Abhi is always hurt by Ak rejections. He is scared of that and comes holds her whenever something happens so that she won't leave him. Literally he does that DHOLAREDHOLA after her so that she stays with him always along with her family. Ak trusted him and told her inner conflicts and baggage. But it gave him the knock back. He has been waiting cool with kv incident and Manishs doing his way of coming back and adjust with her not opening his inner side. Need to see much next that the piled up hurt , anger and insecurities might be resulting into TANDAV by him.

Ak has started her side of work for Birlas with Ani. So she will ba hurt next by them like how Abhi is hurt by Manish .They both are in equal ends receiving the insult from families in chosing each other.

Precap is ....Mohobbatein style In Manish going to Birlas and asking for sorry and patchup as he already told dadi, swarna that he has to see kids happiness now.

PRACHI 1967 predicted long long back that whatever the process of taking rista by Abhi going to Goenkas or Birlas going to Goenkas it's all gadbad from start and it's wrong . It should be from girls side head Manish who has to go and ask for Rista then only it goes in correct way. So it's coming out next.

Funny note....whenever Akhara goes back to Sati phase after a little Parvati phase Abhimanyus Mati is gone. 😂


Oh your comments were delayed today! I was searching for it in page one and two in this thread. 😆

Loved your decoding of Akshu's thought process. She has lived with one guilt until now and could not have been able to handle another one. I didn't think about it from that angle. So true.

What is your take on the precap?

Personally, I think Manish is there to talk to Abhi one on one. Rishta officially abhi nahi aayega. And he would talk and give his acceptance. Abhi could tell him not to say anything to Akshara as yet. Because if bade papa says OK to Akshara and Akshara comes running then Abhi's insecurities will remain as is. So this track of Akshara realizing how her words unknowingly hurt her Abhi and reassure him in her own way will go on till March 1st.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: SatyaVS


Oh your comments were delayed today! I was searching for it in page one and two in this thread. 😆

Loved your decoding of Akshu's thought process. She has lived with one guilt until now and could not have been able to handle another one. I didn't think about it from that angle. So true.

What is your take on the precap?

Personally, I think Manish is there to talk to Abhi one on one. Rishta officially abhi nahi aayega. And he would talk and give his acceptance. Abhi could tell him not to say anything to Akshara as yet. Because if bade papa says OK to Akshara and Akshara comes running then Abhi's insecurities will remain as is. So this track of Akshara realizing how her words unknowingly hurt her Abhi and reassure him in her own way will go on till March 1st.

I was lil late so Hari wrote title Guilt and insecurity at page4. Her guilt is for her total life re. They made her that way that she can't come out of that guilt properly. And she is torn between her family and Abhi always. That's issue from start till now for them. If her own mom is alive she could not chose sirats words or promise and prioritizing Ar. And Manish family who took care of her from day1 till now when parents are gone. So it's always baggage to her and insecurity to Abhi.

Precap is for week .we can't guess much as episodes have to come out next..Manish needs that assurance from their family and Abhi that they give their kid a safe secured life always. Any parent will say it but he is a grandfather so double responsibility on him. Let's wait for next .he looks like Amitabh in mohabbatein movie. He might be asking sorry for misunderstanding Abhi and he gave life to him.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Hari brought out the complete epi befr us..

Now i suppose kaand nd the sufferings have been shifted to birlas hom with the food served by Ar..

I wish BP cud talk out to abhi nd discus bade Ps apprehensions.. how he feel tat abhis family will always mak ak suffer..But i guess tis wont happn..Nd he alrdy gave the hint as harsh s d reason fr his dsagreemnts..

Abhi is hurt unintentionally by Ak.. but for the first time, she didnt bottle up her emotions nd shared her apprehensions, guilt with Abhi.. though frm his perspective, all her lines r hittg him hard nd thrusting into his heart.. As it is he is always in a competitive spree with her family nd whole world for her love.. He is more interested in ranking and comparisons which ak is unable to do.. she loves each of the family member equally and next birla family too similarly.. See today for loving ani and taking care and trying to sort out the issues between mahima and ani.. wat dd she get.. taunt of not hvg a mother!! Did abhi see tat?? No right..

Here abhi has to learn many things..several facts and lessons in life.. when d adoption coms out..In anger he might b shattered nd emotionally atleast distance himself and avoid birlas for sometime.. but then slowly abhi will understand how much birlas have done fr him..to what extent they have protected him and taken care of him with all his flaws..

Watever papa B past was or kaand he did.. that dsnt deny that d fact that harsh nd anand made him a doc.. tuk care f him.. nd everytg.. gave him a family nd home.. nd manjeri becam tat caring mother who moulded him, guided him to right path always..Abhi hav to learn and understand this in time.. then only abhi can undrstand aks love for her family.. nd her insecurity due to her loss f parents at young age.. she s indebted to all d goenkas espclly aftr sirat death and with continuous accusations from ar lifelong..

When it comes to parents we dont feel indebted to them.. thats the beauty and love of parents nd children.. but if its anybdy else other than ur parents who nurtured u.. you will always feel indebted to them...

This part abhi will learn slowly.. aftr the adoption track..

Nd ak.. will learn to prioritise both abhi nd her family..but for her she will take more time.. nd in tat process even might lose something dear to her to understand the immense love and support that abhi gives ak..

Family is just a backsupport.. they cannot b your complete life.. you need a partner who walks along with you all the time lifelong.. which your family may not be able to do after a certain point.. thats the reason father does kanyadaan.. to take care of her in future nd lifelong.. giving that responsibilty to somebody who can cherish her lifelong when he is unable to do.. cos father cannot be with the daughter after a certain point due to the age nd other factors..

Could really feel for abhi today.. He was indirectly insulted for his love..wide range of emotions one after the other portrayed by HC was commendable..his grief, pain, tears and then anger nd fire in his eyes!!! Ak separated abhi and her family. Here she didnt consider abhi too as her family..nd regreted for her love being the cause of bade p amost death scenario.. its like telling abhi tat her choosing abhi is the reason for Bade P almost death and so she doesnt want such kind of love so indirectly nd unintentionally rejecting abhi and triggering his insecurity.. and i dont think this insecurity of abhi will be sorted out anywhere soon.. and will become a serious issue later in married life.. due to her continuous rejections and hence lack of that trust on Ak..

And this whole fiasco.. ak is clueless about.. Hope after marriage ak changes a bit in this matter for better...

Nice review Deepti. If original Ak parents were alive she could have happily chosen her own choice and heart as she has no baggage or guilt. She could have been a free spirited girl going for what she wants along with acceptance of family. Her own mom could have understood her well and guided her from start of Naira was alive. Sirat made her slyly chained with her promises and Ar welfare through Ak that Ak has to see her first and then her happiness. Slowly she came out with his love to prioritise what she wants. But she is not like him to chose him easily against her family. The burden of their parents on their head for kv and Akshu is always a major part in Abhiras life..

Liked your part on father doing kanyadan..

This is a process of improving their relationship prioritising each other along with their familes and grow stronger..in this process they will be hurt knowing or unknowingly by each other but they stay together and solve the issues..

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Posted: 3 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: SatyaVS


Oh your comments were delayed today! I was searching for it in page one and two in this thread. 😆

Loved your decoding of Akshu's thought process. She has lived with one guilt until now and could not have been able to handle another one. I didn't think about it from that angle. So true.

What is your take on the precap?

Personally, I think Manish is there to talk to Abhi one on one. Rishta officially abhi nahi aayega. And he would talk and give his acceptance. Abhi could tell him not to say anything to Akshara as yet. Because if bade papa says OK to Akshara and Akshara comes running then Abhi's insecurities will remain as is. So this track of Akshara realizing how her words unknowingly hurt her Abhi and reassure him in her own way will go on till March 1st.

But this scene is from shiv rathri right.. there is celebration nd pooja going on in the background and abhi is with a pooja thaali.. so i suppose thandav is already over.. when abhi ignores ak for quite sometime will be probably when ak realises something is wrong and goes to meet abhi..

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Deep_deep

But this scene is from shiv rathri right.. there is celebration nd pooja going on in the background and abhi is with a pooja thaali.. so i suppose thandav is already over.. when abhi ignores ak for quite sometime will be probably when ak realises something is wrong and goes to meet abhi..

Tandav pehle hoga aur uske baad Manish ghar jayega usi din . They are doing Puja. Let's wait for episides as his anger has to pileup more more for his tandav.
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Posted: 3 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

But this scene is from shiv rathri right.. there is celebration nd pooja going on in the background and abhi is with a pooja thaali.. so i suppose thandav is already over.. when abhi ignores ak for quite sometime will be probably when ak realises something is wrong and goes to meet abhi..


Yes taandav over. And maybe during this time Abhi stays away from Akshu and Akshu is worried but covers it up - not wanting to worry / stress out her bade papa. He senses all this and goes to meet him?

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Posted: 3 years ago
#38

Guys hamara trp decreased drastically do you think this track will fetch the makers ratings, kaisha track literally brought nothing to the table

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Padm1

Guys hamara trp decreased drastically do you think this track will fetch the makers ratings, kaisha track literally brought nothing to the table

When they go in circles in story people go away bored. So they change next.. patience is tested for audience always in slow burn
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mehersudha

When they go in circles in story people go away bored. So they change next.. patience is tested for audience always in slow burn

i hope it increases next week atleast slightly isse acha abhrohi marriage track angst ke saath saath ratings bhi aagaya

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