Hari brought out the complete epi befr us..
Now i suppose kaand nd the sufferings have been shifted to birlas hom with the food served by Ar..
I wish BP cud talk out to abhi nd discus bade Ps apprehensions.. how he feel tat abhis family will always mak ak suffer..But i guess tis wont happn..Nd he alrdy gave the hint as harsh s d reason fr his dsagreemnts..
Abhi is hurt unintentionally by Ak.. but for the first time, she didnt bottle up her emotions nd shared her apprehensions, guilt with Abhi.. though frm his perspective, all her lines r hittg him hard nd thrusting into his heart.. As it is he is always in a competitive spree with her family nd whole world for her love.. He is more interested in ranking and comparisons which ak is unable to do.. she loves each of the family member equally and next birla family too similarly.. See today for loving ani and taking care and trying to sort out the issues between mahima and ani.. wat dd she get.. taunt of not hvg a mother!! Did abhi see tat?? No right..
Here abhi has to learn many things..several facts and lessons in life.. when d adoption coms out..In anger he might b shattered nd emotionally atleast distance himself and avoid birlas for sometime.. but then slowly abhi will understand how much birlas have done fr him..to what extent they have protected him and taken care of him with all his flaws..
Watever papa B past was or kaand he did.. that dsnt deny that d fact that harsh nd anand made him a doc.. tuk care f him.. nd everytg.. gave him a family nd home.. nd manjeri becam tat caring mother who moulded him, guided him to right path always..Abhi hav to learn and understand this in time.. then only abhi can undrstand aks love for her family.. nd her insecurity due to her loss f parents at young age.. she s indebted to all d goenkas espclly aftr sirat death and with continuous accusations from ar lifelong..
When it comes to parents we dont feel indebted to them.. thats the beauty and love of parents nd children.. but if its anybdy else other than ur parents who nurtured u.. you will always feel indebted to them...
This part abhi will learn slowly.. aftr the adoption track..
Nd ak.. will learn to prioritise both abhi nd her family..but for her she will take more time.. nd in tat process even might lose something dear to her to understand the immense love and support that abhi gives ak..
Family is just a backsupport.. they cannot b your complete life.. you need a partner who walks along with you all the time lifelong.. which your family may not be able to do after a certain point.. thats the reason father does kanyadaan.. to take care of her in future nd lifelong.. giving that responsibilty to somebody who can cherish her lifelong when he is unable to do.. cos father cannot be with the daughter after a certain point due to the age nd other factors..
Could really feel for abhi today.. He was indirectly insulted for his love..wide range of emotions one after the other portrayed by HC was commendable..his grief, pain, tears and then anger nd fire in his eyes!!! Ak separated abhi and her family. Here she didnt consider abhi too as her family..nd regreted for her love being the cause of bade p amost death scenario.. its like telling abhi tat her choosing abhi is the reason for Bade P almost death and so she doesnt want such kind of love so indirectly nd unintentionally rejecting abhi and triggering his insecurity.. and i dont think this insecurity of abhi will be sorted out anywhere soon.. and will become a serious issue later in married life.. due to her continuous rejections and hence lack of that trust on Ak..
And this whole fiasco.. ak is clueless about.. Hope after marriage ak changes a bit in this matter for better...
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