Has Kairav taken the right decision?

Can we think from Anisha's point of view. She has cut off all relationships with her immediate family. Her only point of contact is a cousin.

Anisha is mentally weak and high on emotions.

She meets Kairav online, they talk for hours on the phone, get to know each other by conversing about various topics. The boy goes on and on about his family, sisters, grandparents. The girl has nothing say, prefers to be quiet. There is some reason for liking each other so much. Kairav proposes and Anisha accepts.They are officially a couple.

After meeting Dr Abhimanyu Birla, Kairav decides to check Anisha's profile. Oh No! she is a Birla, Dr Anant and Mahima's daughter. Without giving any concrete reason, he plays safe and breaks up with Anisha.

On the receiving end is this girl with muddled emotions. She wants to know why, no one tells her.

Anisha is still looking for answers.

Simultaneously Kairav confesses the real reason to her brother. He wants his family in one piece, his sisters have caused collateral damage and the word Birla is not in the Goenka's dictionary.

Kairav takes a easier route i.e. break up.

IMO Anisha has the right to know.

Originally posted by: Winnertakesital

Can we think from Anisha's point of view. She has cut off all relationships with her immediate family. Her only point of contact is a cousin.

Anisha is mentally weak and high on emotions.

She meets Kairav online, they talk for hours on the phone, get to know each other by conversing about various topics. The boy goes on and on about his family, sisters, grandparents. The girl has nothing say and prefers to be quiet. There is some reason for liking each other so much. Kairav proposes and Anisha accepts.They are officially a couple.

After meeting Dr Abhimanyu Birla, Kairav decides to check Anisha's profile. Oh No! she is a Birla, Dr Anant and Mahima's daughter. Without giving any concrete reason, he plays safe and breaks up with Anisha.

On the receiving end is this girl with muddled emotions. She wants to know why, no one tells her.

Anisha is still looking for answers.

Simultaneously Kairav confesses the real reason to her brother. He wants his family in one piece, his sisters have caused collateral damage tand the word Birla is not in the Goenka's dictionary.

Kairav takes a easier route i.e. break up.

IMO Anisha has the right to know.

It is absolutely the wrong decision. It doesn’t matter what has happened between your families, if you truly love someone which he claims he does then he should have a spine n stand up for his girl. N akshara if she supports Kairav in this which probably she does as she is holding abhimanyu’s collar in the precap lol then she cannot profess her love to Abhimanyu …that is being a hypocrite on another level

Originally posted by: Winnertakesital

Can we think from Anisha's point of view. She has cut off all relationships with her immediate family. Her only point of contact is a cousin.

Anisha is mentally weak and high on emotions.

She meets Kairav online, they talk for hours on the phone, get to know each other by conversing about various topics. The boy goes on and on about his family, sisters, grandparents. The girl has nothing say, prefers to be quiet. There is some reason for liking each other so much. Kairav proposes and Anisha accepts.They are officially a couple.

After meeting Dr Abhimanyu Birla, Kairav decides to check Anisha's profile. Oh No! she is a Birla, Dr Anant and Mahima's daughter. Without giving any concrete reason, he plays safe and breaks up with Anisha.

On the receiving end is this girl with muddled emotions. She wants to know why, no one tells her.

Anisha is still looking for answers.

Simultaneously Kairav confesses the real reason to her brother. He wants his family in one piece, his sisters have caused collateral damage and the word Birla is not in the Goenka's dictionary.

Kairav takes a easier route i.e. break up.

IMO Anisha has the right to know.

She found her soulmate online and he did not put any condition before dating her. We are not even sure how much close they were. When people can empathize for arohi who lost her 1 month old relation which she hardly cared for. I can not imagine how much anisha is going through. I am not some one to judge her within 1 week i really want to know how much deep their relation was before commenting on her as people don't commit sucide if the relation is 1 week old atleast in itv they will not show that is what i think.

She might gone through depression or trauma we dont know yet. We are not sure what's her back story. Why she is so attached to kairav only the backstory can tell.

Regarding kairav's decision its completely wrong. He could have told her to wait. Once abhira relation gets sorted they would have easily got a green signal. But he still chose to complicate things for no reason.

Yeah! She screams Psycho Birla who people should stay away from with a barge pole! Kairav made the right decision otherwise it's just gonna be a series of psychotic breakdowns and suicide behaviours every now and again. Love is love but logic is needed in love!

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Thanks for saying that. I had a similar point anisha left her home two years back so kairav might have atleast met her 1 or 1.5 year back?

She found her soulmate online and he did not put any condition before dating her. We are not even sure how much close they were. When people can empathize for arohi who lost her 1 month old relation which she hardly cared for. I can not imagine how much anisha is going through. I am not some one to judge her within 1 week i really want to know how much deep their relation was before commenting on her as people don't commit sucide if the relation is 1 week old atleast in itv they will not show that is what i think.

She might gone through depression or trauma we dont know yet. We are not sure what's her back story. Why she is so attached to kairav only the backstory can tell.

Regarding kairav's decision its completely wrong. He could have told her to wait. Once abhira relation gets sorted they would have easily got a green signal. But he still chose

complicate things for no reason.

I ditto your observations.

I wish to add the following points

Suppose the relationship isn't exactly platonic?

Can we assume that he met or has gone on dates. Were they physically intimate. Anisha is too much in love.

She needs her questions to be answered.

Family can come later.

Anisha had the right to know his reasons.. his true reasons. Because they were in a relationship and that's the least she deserves..

Also you can't really say Kairav is wrong in making that decision. If you see that there is a major possibility that your family would say no because of xyz reason then its upto you to decide if you have it you to fight or convince your family for the relationship.. atleast in real world it's difficult to stand against your family.. takes crazy toll on you..

Anisha had the right to convince him otherwise.. like convince him to fight or something. But she was wrong in straight away going to his family.

Originally posted by: Winnertakesital

I ditto your observations.

I wish to add the following points

Suppose the relationship isn't exactly platonic?

Can we assume that he met or has gone on dates. Were they physically intimate. Anisha is too much in love.

She needs her questions to be answered.

Family can come later.

Yes by looking at kairav i seriously dont feel they had intimate relation but still😆 yes what if it was not just platonic.

Even if platonic what if what kind of hopes he has given her. Sometimes people who are depressed needs a just little hope from some one to survive. For anisha it might be that. When he broke up she decided to end her life. As its hard to control depressed people when they starts thinking about no body cares for them.

I agree with you on that part! I don't think it's the wrong decision to break up with Anisha and decided to move on but she deserves to know the truth about why he broke up with her. Unfortunately, this is a ITV and there's no moving on from lady love.

Originally posted by: Pr1yanka

It is absolutely the wrong decision. It doesn’t matter what has happened between your families, if you truly love someone which he claims he does then he should have a spine n stand up for his girl. N akshara if she supports Kairav in this which probably she does as she is holding abhimanyu’s collar in the precap lol then she cannot profess her love to Abhimanyu …that is being a hypocrite on another level

🙂 The precap is misleading. I won't blame Akshara. Abhimanyu has the capacity to smash Kairav's face.

Doctors are also hot tempered. Agreed. I anticipated Abhimanyu to pounce on Kairav near the lake. He was well behaved minus Akshara.

There can be various reasons for his outburst in Birla house.

He knows that Kairav does love his sister.The one sided confession is playing on his mind.

Or

Mr. Manish Goenka insulted him.

Coming to Kairav's decision. I find it weird.

He is in love but cannot continue.

I mean Kairav is not thinking about Anisha's state of mind.

yes agreed, Ani needs to now the reason for a breakup....just like it was a mutual decision to be together..she has suffered a lot and when she found mutebhaiya,,,she had a ray of hope for someone to handle her with love and care...in which last two years she didn't have...now we dont know how long they had been together of how many times they had met up,,,but in her mind kairu was all she had, when/while her own family didn't support her (except abhi). not a big fan or ani but as a person I feel bad for her that first her family who she expects to support from and now the person she loves are not standing besides her ..I just cant think of any good reason except may be a murder ,for a family to behave like that to a daughter...itna kya galat kiya hoga ani ne , ke mahima behaves like this...did she run away from a wedding or a rishta,,,drugs, abortion?? but they still dont seem like good enough reason for their treatment...in my dictionary..