Abhi's conditioning theory on akshu - Page 3

Originally posted by: aaf311

Yup, same applies to her as well. She's always done whatever she wants, always said whatever she wants. Taunted, bullied, disrespected, accused Akshara for years, and no one has told her anything. So over the years, she's also started believing that she's always right.

They are all at fault, I agree. I don't think anyone is saying that Akshara and Abhimanyu are not to blame.

Completely agreed. All three of them are at fault...

Originally posted by: Alia.q

She did try to speak twice as far as I can remember but each time Arohi emotionally blackmailed her into submission.
Arohi manipulates everything to get things her way otherwise she throws tantrums and threatens of going away, breaking rishtas and etc.

This is where I have problem. Akshu can't give into her sister's demands always. She need to learn to take a stand for herself.

Aaj ke epi mein Manish was the only one who said that all three are wrong... The only reason that he didn't tick Abhi off as much as Arohi and Akshu was because he isn't family... I liked how he ticked off Harsh saying meri bacchiyan galat hai isiliye mai unhe daant rha hu, aap bhi apne bete ko daantein...

Originally posted by: daffodil153

Exactly!

Akshu doesn’t tell anything to her family is because she doesn’t trust them!

She doesn’t trust them enough to believe they will do right by her!

I have observed this in twitter and forum discussions that people are annoyed at Akshu for keeping quite and in constant guilt for no reason!

But I disagree! Her guilt stems from her family’s reaction! She knows she didn’t do anything that caused sirat to die! She knows it’s an accident! But everytime Arohi treats her like a culprit and murderer, her family stays quiet! This only made her believe some where it’s definitely her fault it happened!

If they stop Arohi in middle in her stupid monolgue of blaming Akshu and reprimand her ki tum galat ho and to make her understand it’s an accident!

Keeping quiet during these situations made Akshara believe that Arohi is always right and she is always wrong!

If you observe in the starting before Abhi’s love took an important place in her life she constantly believed to be inferior to Arohi!

Even when the misunderstanding happened during the first tilak she is like “Mujhe hi galat fehmi hui hogi! Aaru is more intelligent! Woh kyu galat samjhengi? Meine hi koi galti ki hogi! Abhi shayad Aaru se hi pyaar karta hai! Meine hi galat samjha!”

This is how Akshu was brought up!

Like how Manjari takes all of Birla family’s bullshit! Akshu takes Goenka family’s bullshit!

The only difference between them is Akshu now has a supportive backbone in the form of a to be life partner!

Agreed! All the points you made 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Asha_Tacker

Sooner or later I'll stop taking the shit thrown at me... Sorry but not sorry... That's how reality works.

Sorry but not sorry... that's not how it works for abuse victims

Akshara has had no one to support her her entire life. She has been told to adjust, accommodate for one person. Why should she expect for anything different to happen again? How does she know she won't be told the same thing again?

Originally posted by: apra

yes who can blackmail her more is going to be the contest

Jo bhi ho , Akshu toh family ko chunega 😆.😆

Papa Birla will team up with Aaru now

Aur Manjiri wala extra "family value" classes bhi milega

Akshu toh chakravyuuh mein bhas gaya

Originally posted by: daffodil153

This is how Akshu was brought up!

Like how Manjari takes all of Birla family’s bullshit! Akshu takes Goenka family’s bullshit!

The only difference between them is Akshu now has a supportive backbone in the form of a to be life partner!

Akshu took whole blame and shit from Goenka's , now she will take it from Birla's too... kuch bhi nahi badlega

Originally posted by: adithyan

Akshu took whole blame and shit from Goenka's , now she will take it from Birla's too... kuch bhi nahi badlega

Ye toh hona hi hai

Har daily soap mein bahu ko torture kar ke hi story aage badhti hai

No expectations in that aspect xD