epi465- dard ka rishta when sarcasm substitutes LOVE - Page 2

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I agree with you they both are fighting in their own ways and both are responsible for the mess they created.

Akshara has lost a lot of things her birth mother, her parents now she don’t want to lose anyone she had including arohi. I think she herself is not realizing how much she loves him.

Abhi took decision of marrying arohi I think first he was sure geonkas will not agree so he was over confident, that is why he said manish only your decision will be final. Now when he said yes he don’t know how to come out of this mess. On top his mother is getting better and she is happy so he is like in marsh where he is trying to fight but he is going more deeper in that marsh.

Great analysis of each episode, gives completely different perspective of the characters.bang on 👍🏻👌💯

First and foremost thank you for taking time out of your day to sit down and write these thoughtful episode analysis. It really does help give another perspective to some of the things that have been happening in the episodes.

I never thought about Akshara being an escapist but everything you stated makes sense. She's been so busy hiding her feelings that this is her normal. She has just learned over the years to simply move on and push forward with that smile of hers.

And with Abhimanyu being who he is very straight forward he probably finds all of this baffling. Her behavior is down right frustrating. Hence we keep having him behave so erratically with her. One minute softly coxing her and next minute due to something sparking his anger we have him directly ordering her around and commanding her to do things. I not a fine with him forcefully touching her and making her do things. I was not a fan of the hospital cabin scene where he made her dance and looking at the today's pre-cap (ep 467) he forces her on his motorcycle. He's like a bull right now going around tussling everything.

There are so many things that are stacking up just wondering what will get revealed and in what order? And whom will help reveal these secrets? Neil, Mahima, Kairav, Arohi (will her conscience get her to confess once she is confronted?)

1. Photo proving Akshara saved Abhi in the fire

2. CCTV (I don't believe they deleted the final copy. I think there is still video evidence around)

3. Prayer at the mandir for Manjari

4. Akshara going on her own volition to defend Abhi from the molestation charge when her family was all against it

5. Arohi not telling anyone about her MD application

6. Adoption papers - this one I think will come out later (if Abhi is adopted it will show Akshara loves Abhi for who he is not where he came from, I can only think that this would be a reason for Arohi to reject Abhi)

Mini you have deep understanding about their behavior specially Abhimanyu

I really like the way you can catch those expression and thoughts they have in their brains.

You know even makers can't see the depth of these emotions what you're observing❤

After reading your Analysis I have watched few scenes again to connect.

"Their dreams are getting more personal, more specific, more intense. Their dreams are about how happy, playful and carefree they are in each others company.

Their dreams are about making the other person their own and to belong to them completely.

But each time they crash land back into reality the pain grows more intense. "

Yess they are weaving same dreams and they fall for each other more everytime they do it and reality is bitter and it intensify their pain of separation.

This track can atleast make Akshara realize that she is living in present but her actions are carrying baggage of past. When she was intoxicated she knew it was accident and she wasn't responsible but she is compensating by giving her precious thing to her sister.

She is craving for love from family and but her peace lies in Abhimanyu.

She is escapist and I agree but that's her way to deal with things. She never had someone to ask her how is she or she needs any help and we let our guards down when we can trust them and here her family was always stuck in sisters and they gave preference to younger one and let elder one suffer coz they thought she is a mature kid. She shared her pain in drunken state I wish he will recall their conversation in upcoming episodes coz I can never expect her to share it when she is sober.

Abhimanyu and Akshara have dard ka rishta and it's deep.

Hope she will realize what pain she is giving to him and take stand or atleast confess it to Abhi, he is capable of taking stand for both of them ❤.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

The first time I watched the episode I hated it because I am never looking for simply #Abhira moment. I am looking for them to reconcile. But I had to go back to the episode again and again to understand why the writer is portraying Abhimanyu in this volatile manner. Why is he being so harsh to the same girl whom he was almost worshipping the night before.

I had felt the same. I still feel the same sometimes when I see him being harsh to Akshu. But then, I realise that when you're going through such a heart break and so much pain, that too without knowing the reason, you tend to hurt the people you love the most :/

When Abhi wakes up in his bed, has a feeling of urgency. He has no idea how he reached his own bed that makes him uneasy because it means he was not in control. Then his first thought is about Akshara and her wherabout. He immediately wants to know if she is safe and fine.

This scene left me so unsettled. Because, I couldn't understand how he'd remember nothing after all this. His first instinct was to make sure Akshu is safe. That's typical Abhi. But the restlessness in his eyes, and the silence of the phone call, idk...it didn't scream nothing. I genuinely felt they'd remember bits and pieces. Something. Even if it comes back to them slowly, it should. Those episodes were so meaningful. Both of them bared their hearts to each other, esp Akshu. I don't have it in me to have those scenes be negated just like that.

So I expected that they remember something of what happened but all they apologize to each other is about drinking alcohol.

Exactly 💯

Now many here would wonder why did they not know that they drank alcohol because many a times desi/ local alcohol does not smell like commercial alcohol. Alcohol made from rice, tamarind, raw veggies and fruits are more like fruit punch. You may find the taste odd but you may also like it, and without knowing, you may end up drinking a spiked concoction usually called DESI. Such drinks also streams the blood much faster than the commercial alcohols which have controlled spirit content. With DESIDARU each batch of the drink would have varied level and that makes it even more risky. And since they did not eat anything it affects their senses faster.

😂😂 thanks for the explanation. I understood why it hit them so fast, because a) they were empty stomach and b) they're novices. They've no idea what to expect. I was just bothered about the taste :P because I'm yet to find an alcohol that feels tasty 😂

His uncle and father open champagne but Abhimanyu is influenced by his mother. And a way to showcase the character of this man.

You know, I could totally believe when Abhi said he's never had it before. I know, I know, a lot of people found it unbelievable. But it can happen. Why? Because some people just don't feel like it. And I do not judge anyone who drinks, hello, I'm one of them. But I wasn't for a long time...I started very recently, and that too occasional, due to certain changes in life. My SO doesn't drink at all, and everyone around him does. It's just about preference. And tbh, I can see it from a professional pov also. Like some surgeons prefer not to drink (again, a lot of them do. I'm just saying..) my father is one of them, he used to in college, but when he took up surgery, he gave up completely. BASICALLY, my point is... To each his own :P

We are gradually finding layers of this man. A man who loves his mother, respects woman and falls hard for one girl so suddenly has to be made of a unique metal. And so we need to watch out for the cues and signs of what makes both of them click together.

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- Instead of talking to their family members the first person they seek to talk to is each other.

- Akshara has the opportunity to talk to Kv but she refuses. Abhimanyu is stopped by his parents but he does not even wait to give them a proper reply.

I liked this part a lot. Like, so much shiZz happened, they don't remember anything, the first instinct would be to go to family. But somehow, these two know, that if they want no judgement, no questions, just solace and time to understand the situation, they have to go to each other. A very unsaid thing, but a very important moment. I loved that whole sequence.

Abhimanyu is a man who does not let go of things easily. He has a habit to fight for the right. He is a brooder, a thinker, a go getter.

Akshara is a girl who does not like to hold on to emotions and things that bother her. She has learnt to pretend all is well and smile. She is seen as a bubbly one who makes other happy and sings beautiful songs.

hence their responses are different-

- Ak thinks maybe nothing of importance happened that is why we don’t remember.

- Abhimanyu is not able to dismiss the missing time period that easily especially since he has a deep gash on his finger which as a doctor he knows is from a sharp metal.

😂😂 Again, loved this contrast in their personalities. Which is why you see how they're well suited for each other. A balance will always be maintained.

Her response to Abhimanyu is a give away-

Zyadaa zor lagaungi to dimaag phat jaayega mera.

Is that how anyone normal would respond? She was with Abhimanyu alone at night and when she woke up she was in her own bedroom. Shouldn’t she be looking for answers from her family, from Abhimanyu or think about how much time is missing from her memory. And what may have happened in that lost duration?

Instead she retorts back to Abhimanyu, instead of thinking about last night you better focus on your marriage.

This very well shows how she doesn't wanna think about them together at all. Because she knows it'll weaken her resolve. She knows she'll have to face her heart. So, what's the best way to go? Avoid everything. Refuse to acknowledge the truth.

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Akshara is an escapist. She has suffered so long and relived the trauma so many times that its a chakravyu thats all around her and she has no idea how to find her way out.

OMG!! You've found the CORRECT description. Akshu is an escapist. She is, isn't she? Omg. Makes so much more sense nowww...

He is flesh and blood, intense and aggressive, he is forceful and temperamental, he is controlling and considerate. He is arrogant, obstinate and Akshara needs someone who refuses to back down, someone who forces her to open her eyes, and make her see the light at the end of the tunnel. Abhimanyu is the rock who will help her move away from her painful past.

Well said 👏Yes, for sure. If Akshara wants to have a happier life, a more stable one, a life where she's in the centre, then she needs someone like Abhi. An anchor. And a voice that tells her, she's more than enough.

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During the ring selection at the Birla’s Akshara and Abhimanyu choose the same ring just like they weave same dreams.

It was a happy sequence, but it made me so sad. These two desperately wanna be with each other, can create a beautiful life together, but circumstances. And their stubbornness.

They need an outside interference, because Akshara needs that jolt.

Yes. Their family is being useless. I have hopes from Neil and Mahima though. But you're right, someone needs to come and shake Akshara. Show her the truth. How this is destroying everyone's life and happiness. We need someone.

A beautiful analysis ❤️ I just wrote what I also felt while watching the episode.

Waiting for the next one❤️ there's so much to discuss and so much to hope for

Originally posted by: Prachi1967

Lovely analysis... waiting for the next one

Thank you.

Ya, thinking cap on and writing so not able to reply to each comment.

Am in wonderful company here. ❤️

I love your review, I eagerly wait for it every single day, you express everything beautifully, please keep writing, I have become a fan of your review ,it feels more personal and their emotions can't be described so precisely without your write up, Thank you for investing your precious time and making our day. All my love to you ❤❤❤❤

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Hi am new here,, was a silent reader....I always read ur analysis which makes more sense than the actual epi (for me ) to understand characters...

Beautifully written 👏 Ur anyalsis in Abhi and Akshu are on point...

Cant wait to read more...

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Lavs....

Excellent Analysis

We all know both love each other.........during Tilak...it was more of confusion and then families were not happy ..so she just thought to keep quiet.........thinking that family is everything and she will move on.........she herself was not sure about her emotions for Abhi.............Yes she liked or enjoyed his company though.

But for Abhi.............he just felt that his connect was not wrong and kept trying to reach Akshara and we all know the story..................Akshara realized that she cant live without Abhi (in fire incident) but ..in all this..........Arohi wanted to be no 1 and she got the idea to have Abhi for herself and story changed...........for Akshara..............Arohi is her baby..............and the way mother can give anything and everything for their baby...so is Akshara..........

The way you have explained..........both are right and both are wrong in their own ways..........Akshara cannot think of Abhi has some trophy to give away to Arohi and similarly, Abhi cannot treat her like this before knowing story..........but this story is what is puzzle in both of their life......

I am really surprised that Manjri & Manish...........they cant see pain of their kids...

Mahima & Kairav have the authority (Neil might not have as he is very young) but still they know everything but are not doing any thing that can help these two to take right decision.

If parents were their, they would have definitely spoken about how all 3 lives will be spoiled..........Here Manish/Suvarna have failed as Parents and most failure person is Kairav.

All are blind and no one has understood Akshu till now....

Even Abhi loves Akshu but still he has not understood her.....