Does Abhi really love Akshara? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

While I agree that Abhi's behaviour is debatable, I don't think that Akshara is doing the best for Abhi. She has admitted herself that Abhi will be distraught if he ever finds out Arohi's truth and she also knows that he is in pain due to her refusal of love which by the way is a lie.

She is not thinking about Abhi's future at all and is okay with inflicting pain on him just to please her sister.

Pranali has admitted that Akshara is wrong in this so even the actor agrees that she is not completely right.

Yes because akshu knows that arohi has presented a fake image of herself in front of abhi and his family so akshu is actually wronging abhi this way as she is pushing him towards a girl that is not right for him by supporting arohi's lies and covering for the fake image arohi has portrayed. Akshu is supporting a relationship to be formed on lies, and by doing do she is being unfair to abhi.

Arohi toh is stupid and setting herself up for an unhappy and loveless marriage based on lies but akshu is just as bad as neither does she herself consider any long-term consequences as to how abhi loving akshu and arohi's fake image she created could factor into this marriage being a massive mess and ruin arohi and abhi lives, yet she's still helping arohi to marry abhi on the basis of lies and hidden truths and she is also pushing abhi towards her liar sister.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

I think Akshara does try to avoid Abhi but she cant help it which is more reason why she should tell Arohi to look for another trophy.

Her biggest problem is that she cares for a family that frankly doesn't seem to give two hoots about her. The goencas equation seems like a formality, I genuinely don't see any reall affection. Maybe its the chemistry that is lacking idk. Manish is the only one I somewhat feel cares for her truly.

That's my issue. Okay she wants to keep Arohi happy because of her trauma but dont lie to Abhi at least. He deserves better than that.

I agree.

Also I think she needs to learn to speak up and not pretend to be happy always. Parents also focus more on the child who makes noise or talks about issues. If she keeps lying, keeping quiet and pretending to be happy always, how can her family help her?

She wants to do tyaag which is absolutely unnecessary. Manish agreed for Arohi and Abhi. He would have agreed for Akshara and Abhi too, if only she had opened her mouth and spoken. After a point in childhood, children need to be vocal for parents to understand what they're feeling. Akshara's pain is self-inflicted. She is obsessed with being mahaan. 🤔

If her family asks her now, will she tell the truth? The answer is no. And her family cares about her. They were all worried when she went missing, especially mimmi and swarna, apart from Manish.

I agree that the family needs to realize her trauma and address that. For that to happen, she needs to let them know about her anxiety and panic attack issues. She pretends as though everything is great whenever her trauma strikes back. She has to want help for anyone to help her. She has to want to get better. Even god helps only those who help themselves. 🤔

Originally posted by: Miss-Behave

Yes because akshu knows that arohi has presented a fake image of herself in front of abhi and his family so akshu is actually wronging abhi this way as she is pushing him towards a girl that is not right for him by supporting arohi's lies and recovering for the fake image arohi has portrayed. Akshu is supporting is a relationship to be formed on lies, and by doing do she is being unfair to abhi.

Arohi toh is stupid and setting herself up for an unhappy and loveless marriage based on lies but akshu is just as bad as neither does she herself consider any long-term consequences as to how abhi loving akshu and arohi's fake image she created could factor into this marriage being a massive mess and ruin arohi and abhi lives, yet she's still helping arohi to marry abhi on the basis of lies and hidden truths and she is also pushing abhi towards her liar sister.

Wohi toh and Abhi isn't Edward Cullen so how can he magically know she is lying? I know they have special powers but the battery has died I think.

That's the only reason I am unable to be a cheerleader for Akshara. Because unlike Abhi, she knows everything but wants more jalebi and raita in the shaadhi banquet.

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

Wohi toh and Abhi isn't Edward Cullen so how can he magically know she is lying? I know they have special powers but the battery has died I think.

That's the only reason I am unable to be a cheerleader for Akshara. Because unlike Abhi, she knows everything but wants more jalebi and raita in the shaadhi banquet.

i don't really see how AKSHARA is responsible for clearing up wrong assumptions made by MA BETA

before the fire incident MA BETA were already checking out AAROHI how is AKSHARA responsible for this 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: apacs

i don't really see how AKSHARA is responsible for clearing up wrong assumptions made by MA BETA

before the fire incident MA BETA were already checking out AAROHI how is AKSHARA responsible for this 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Waidehi

ITs Better akshu reject this man Infront of whole family this time exactly maa was already saying arohi ke bareme soch itna ghatiya yeh maa bete ki Jodi he galti khud kare baad me aur pe dale that what he is capable he was the one assumptulion made by his mom waise creatives are even not showing akshu us wring anyway only showing abhi is wrong 🤪

this banda is an adult and needs to take responsibility for his choices and judgment of people

ABHI let himself be treated as an object by RAITA MA and SIR

he has no right to drag AKSHARA to his engagement or force her to accept him or blame her for his mistake in proposing to AAROHI

if he really thinks AAROHI saved him why is he treating AAROHI like trash - at least show some gratitude to someone that is your MA's choice and who you think saved your life

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9

I agree.

Also I think she needs to learn to speak up and not pretend to be happy always. Parents also focus more on the child who makes noise or talks about issues. If she keeps lying, keeping quiet and pretending to be happy always, how can her family help her?

She wants to do tyaag which is absolutely unnecessary. Manish agreed for Arohi and Abhi. He would have agreed for Akshara and Abhi too, if only she had opened her mouth and spoken. After a point in childhood, children need to be vocal for parents to understand what they're feeling. Akshara's pain is self-inflicted. She is obsessed with being mahaan. 🤔

If her family asks her now, will she tell the truth? The answer is no. And her family cares about her. They were all worried when she went missing, especially mimmi and swarna, apart from Manish.

I agree that the family needs to realize her trauma and address that. For that to happen, she needs to let them know about her anxiety and panic attack issues. She pretends as though everything is great whenever her trauma strikes back. She has to want help for anyone to help her. She has to want to get better. Even god helps only those who help themselves. 🤔

The thing is right, she is someone who has been unintentionally suppressed by her family so she doesn't have the confidence to share her feelings because a) she doesn't think anyone will understand her and b) she doesn't want to be a burden and give her family stress because Arohi has led her to believe that she has done enough harm.

Also, the family should at least concentrate and give attention to their kids. If they had tried and Akshara had hidden her feelings then okay thats fine but I havent seen them try at all. Even Manjri asked Akshara twice but goencas did not and I do not like praising Manjri.

They were worried for her but did anyone go out of their way? Dude Kairav came back for the lamest of reasons. I couldnt believe that. Your sister is God knows where at night and alone and you are calmly walking home because your tired 😑😑😑 I do think its poor acting/direction actually. There is very little chemistry between the goencas and Akshara. I am picturing the old actors like Akshara's mum and bhabhi ma who used to make you feel worried with them whenever something like this happened.

God has sent Abhi for Akshara but she is refusing him. But I give credit to him for trying to understand her at least.

Originally posted by: apacs

this banda is an adult and needs to take responsibility for his choices and judgment of people

ABHI let himself be treated as an object by RAITA MA and SIR

he has no right to drag AKSHARA to his engagement or force her to accept him or blame her for his mistake in proposing to AAROHI

if he really thinks AAROHI saved him why is he treating AAROHI like trash - at least show some gratitude to someone that is your MA's choice and who you think saved your life

Originally posted by: apacs

i don't really see how AKSHARA is responsible for clearing up wrong assumptions made by MA BETA

before the fire incident MA BETA were already checking out AAROHI how is AKSHARA responsible for this 🤣🤣🤣

Manjri tried her best to manipulate Abhi into thinking about Arohi but the plan flopped. Abhi toh even went to propose to Akshara with a rose but it was Akshara who lied that she does not love him just because Arohi told her to. Even after being told Akshara left him to die, he rang her and tried to talk to her but she led him to believe that Arohi saved him. The assumptions were not made, they were endorsed by our very own Akshu.

But I guess it's okay to play with Abhis feelings because being mahaan is more ideal.

Being selfless in love is ok as long as it is in the best Interest of the loved one. Is arohi good for abhimanyu? Akshara knows everything yet , lying again and again is not sacrifice/selflessness. It's maha idiotic thing to do. Go ruin your life and your sisters life , apni zindagi ka kachra karo, kisi aur ki nahi . She actively made a way for arohi so that arohi can get "her" most pyari "cheez" (in aksharas words) .

The reason why abhimanyu is inflicting pain on her is that he knows well that she is pretending ..if she doesn't love him as she told him, she shouldn't be suffering . She should celebrate arohis wedding and karo dance bole chudiya par. Na na kyun kar rahi thi

And yes.. abhimanyu is not antaryami to guess everything on his own. There is a web of lies to investigate which he doesn't even know is a lie. Whatever akshu did for abhimanyu was credited to arohi by akshu herself ,which paved way for birlas liking arohi. She was disturbed in the hospital with th3 accident case and abhimanyu kept asking her why, she again lied..how can he damn know the problem unless she tells him. Lying by omission, lying for greater good , lying for purpose , lying for selfless reasons , lying for sister, lying for family, is still a lie.