Abhimanyu is wrong to shout at kairav

Kairav is anxious for both his sisters. Earlier when it seemed akshu was mistaken in thinking the rishta was for her, then also kairav was worried and upset for her.. In fact he also thought abhi likes akshu. And he did not want akshu to suffer. But after all that misunderstanding when abhi clearly says who he meant it is only right that kairav got angry with him. Now when it is clear that akshu is meant aarohi will suffer and of course kairav will be upset with that too. So him being angry with abhi is right. Because whatever anyone says, the blame for the misunderstanding lies at the door of abhi himself and his mother. Isme goenkas ki bhi koi galti nahi thi. Aarohi was being very stupid and imposing her own imagination on abhi but she felt justified in her imaginings because of abhi's dad telling her all that during her interview and then his mom taking her name when she spoke to suvarna and dadi. Being the self-centered person that she is she obviously missed seeing how abhi was looking at akshu and talking to her during the trip and how she was responding. Kairav noticed and made his correct conclusion. Now coming to abhi's behavior, it was wrong of him to shout back at kairav and justify himself. He comes to know then itself how the misunderstanding occured because of his mother and because he very stupidly did not mention the girl's name. Ab yeh khandan pe kyun ja raha hai? Shouting at kairav ke tumhe apne parivar ka pride hai toh main bhi kuch kam nahin hoon?kairav only objected to his not being straightforward. Ab woh uske dimag mein ek baat soch li and dusron ko pata nahin chala toh the fault is his for not communicating properly. And WTH does he mean by putting akshu on the spot like that by asking her you know I meant you na? Actually he never even directly told akshu that he loves her, it was just indirect flirting type. Bahut hi sanskaari banke badon se baat jab karne aaya tha, tab bhi akshu se directly kuch nahin kaha. Halanke it would have been more proper for him to first find out akshu's razamandi from herself, then he should have approached her parents. Aur sirf 3-4 din trip pe saath rehne ke baad how can akshu be so sure of him to speak up in front of her family that too in that tricky situation? She was hesitating not only because she doesn't want to hurt her sister but also because she doesn't want to embarrass abhi by saying you did not tell me anything like that and thereby putting him in the wrong.

Phir jitna bhi aarohi ki isme stupidity rahi hai, its still very bad for a girl to be insulted like how abhi does by asking her so rudely tumhe kyun laga ke main tumse pyar karta hoon?

Although Abhi's not bending to pressure is commendable, his behaviour overall was not gentlemanly at all. It would have been better if he had acknowledged his mistake and not expected akshu to speak up for him.

Basically the argument was heated coz kairav almost blamed him for leading both his sisters when he never did such a thing ..dono ke emotions ke saath khelna etc etc ...akshara also felt that abhimanyu loves her, whether she speaks up or no..kairav also knows this. He shouted on abhimanyu assuming that he must have told arohi something bec of which she thought that he wants to marry arohi ..its a lie isn't it ? Arohi lying or not speaking the truth (which she never will), will put abhimanyu in a bad light . Before assuming stuff everyone must realize they all r a part of it ..abhimanyu, arohi, goenkas and Birlas so why blame only abhimanyu for it ? Moorkh lognetwork nai hai awaz nai aa rahi toh call bk later .

I didn't include akshara bec she does feel for abhimanyu , although it's not undying love at thi stage , but she feels attracted to him..she likes him and he likes her n she knows. Her reaction has been understandable in this mess...she also assumed rishta was for arohi n she suppressed her feelings coz she thought abhi likes arohi n maybe she read him wrong .

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Kairav is anxious for both his sisters. Earlier when it seemed akshu was mistaken in thinking the rishta was for her, then also kairav was worried and upset for her.. In fact he also thought abhi likes akshu. And he did not want akshu to suffer. But after all that misunderstanding when abhi clearly says who he meant it is only right that kairav got angry with him. Now when it is clear that akshu is meant aarohi will suffer and of course kairav will be upset with that too. So him being angry with abhi is right. Because whatever anyone says, the blame for the misunderstanding lies at the door of abhi himself and his mother. Isme goenkas ki bhi koi galti nahi thi. Aarohi was being very stupid and imposing her own imagination on abhi but she felt justified in her imaginings because of abhi's dad telling her all that during her interview and then his mom taking her name when she spoke to suvarna and dadi. Being the self-centered person that she is she obviously missed seeing how abhi was looking at akshu and talking to her during the trip and how she was responding. Kairav noticed and made his correct conclusion. Now coming to abhi's behavior, it was wrong of him to shout back at kairav and justify himself. He comes to know then itself how the misunderstanding occured because of his mother and because he very stupidly did not mention the girl's name. Ab yeh khandan pe kyun ja raha hai? Shouting at kairav ke tumhe apne parivar ka pride hai toh main bhi kuch kam nahin hoon?kairav only objected to his not being straightforward. Ab woh uske dimag mein ek baat soch li and dusron ko pata nahin chala toh the fault is his for not communicating properly. And WTH does he mean by putting akshu on the spot like that by asking her you know I meant you na? Actually he never even directly told akshu that he loves her, it was just indirect flirting type. Bahut hi sanskaari banke badon se baat jab karne aaya tha, tab bhi akshu se directly kuch nahin kaha. Halanke it would have been more proper for him to first find out akshu's razamandi from herself, then he should have approached her parents. Aur sirf 3-4 din trip pe saath rehne ke baad how can akshu be so sure of him to speak up in front of her family that too in that tricky situation? She was hesitating not only because she doesn't want to hurt her sister but also because she doesn't want to embarrass abhi by saying you did not tell me anything like that and thereby putting him in the wrong.

Phir jitna bhi aarohi ki isme stupidity rahi hai, its still very bad for a girl to be insulted like how abhi does by asking her so rudely tumhe kyun laga ke main tumse pyar karta hoon?

Although Abhi's not bending to pressure is commendable, his behaviour overall was not gentlemanly at all. It would have been better if he had acknowledged his mistake and not expected akshu to speak up for him.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Basically the argument was heated coz kairav almost blamed him for leading both his sisters when he never did such a thing ..dono ke emotions ke saath khelna etc etc ...akshara also felt that abhimanyu loves her, whether she speaks up or no..kairav also knows this. He shouted on abhimanyu assuming that he must have told arohi something bec of which she thought that he wants to marry arohi ..its a lie isn't it ? Arohi lying or not speaking the truth (which she never will), will put abhimanyu in a bad light . Before assuming stuff everyone must realize they all r a part of it ..abhimanyu, arohi, goenkas and Birlas so why blame only abhimanyu for it ? Moorkh lognetwork nai hai awaz nai aa rahi toh call bk later .

I didn't include akshara bec she does feel for abhimanyu , although it's not undying love at thi stage , but she feels attracted to him..she likes him and he likes her n she knows. Her reaction has been understandable in this mess...she also assumed rishta was for arohi n she suppressed her feelings coz she thought abhi likes arohi n maybe she read him wrong .

Sorry but goenkas are also 50% at fault. Swarna herself admitted she never really took akshu name clearly when speaking to manjiri about rishta. The confusion first started because of this mistake by swarna, because if swarna had been clear which granddaughter she was speaking about in first place with manjiri it would have not given room to manjiri to have any misunderstanding going forward about the name of the goenka granddaughter. Then there was despo arohi who already had abhimanyu on her mind even before he had met her and her trying to read too much into his every word or action just so that she could make herself believe he's interested in her then dadi stopping abhi from taking the name of the person he has come to give rishta for. This is where the goenkas are at fault and it can be said that swarna's mistake is how it started.

Originally posted by: Ghumhai1234

Still abhinanyu was one of the root cause of misunderstanding let alone accepting his mistake,he started talking to kairav in a very rude tone and expecting akshara to speak up for him when he didnt even convey his feeling was also very stupid and egoistical in my opinion

How do you expect a person to react when being accused of leading two girls on? He was defending himself. Also how is abhi the root cause of the misunderstanding? No credit for starting this mess is being given to the match makers swarna and manjiri who were discussing the rishta of their children without their children's knowledge and without even clearly stating names of the girl whose proposal for abhi is being arranged. This duo are the root cause. In fact the order of blame for all this goes like this:

1. Swarna: Lack of clarity

2. Manjiri: Making assumptions

3. Arohi: Khyaali pulau master chef

4. Dadi: Abhi ke baat ke beech mein usse rokna

5. Abhi: dil mein akshu, zubaan pe doctor

Even akshu is at fault when abhi was saying mujhe kuch kehna se she was saying kuch mat kehna and run away 🤣

I strongly disagree with this.

Whatever Abhi said was justified considering kairav character assisinated him. Abhi has been clear from day one that he loves Akshara only and this is proven by that fact that even Akshara felt the same way. Abhis only mistake was to not take Akshara's name but even then, he has tried many times to clairfy but situations were such that he was never able to. For example, he went to their house and it was Mimi who stopped him so fault kiska Hua? He has also sent Akshara a gift with her message, it isnt his fault that the name got wiped off. He has also been flirting with Akshara for the past week days and not arohi so even I dont understand why arohi was so sure he liked her. Even Akshara is at fault here because had she mentioned that Abhi has been calling her too then this would have helped them but she toh will sacrifice anything for her sister 👎🏼

I blame Manjri and Arohi the most for this misunderstanding and then Swarna/Abhi/dadi.

Yes Abhi was wrong to expect Akshara from speaking up but that's his only mistake imo. But gotta say, I dont blame Akshara for being silent however I did not like how she has kept mum even when kairav was trying to shame Abhi. If Abhi's sister or bhabhi had sl*t shamed Akshara and he had quiet then wouldnt we be upset? She should have at least said bhaiya or something when Kairab was saying this. Kairav didnt need to go that far, i didnt like it. Also if Akshara is going to put her sister above Abhi then he needs to find a new girl.

Originally posted by: Miss-Behave

How do you expect a person to react when being accused of leading two girls on? He was defending himself. Also how is abhi the root cause of the misunderstanding? No credit for starting this mess is being given to the match makers swarna and manjiri who were discussing the rishta of their children without their children's knowledge and without even clearly stating names of the girl whose proposal for abhi is being arranged. This duo are the root cause. In fact the order of blame for all this goes like this:

1. Swarna: Lack of clarity

2. Manjiri: Making assumptions

3. Arohi: Khyaali pulau master chef

4. Dadi: Abhi ke baat ke beech mein usse rokna

5. Abhi: dil mein akshu, zubaan pe doctor

Originally posted by: Ghumhai1234

Yup,all are at fault but I have never seen a person not telling his family/parents the name of girl he wants to marry🤣 unless it’s an arranged marraige,that’s why I was calling him the root cause. As far as the fight with Kairav was concerned,I just said That his behavior was not very gentlemanly, He could have kept forward his point calmly instead of lashing out at Kairav,And questioning Aarohi so rudely.

Let's give the boy a bit of benefit of doubt, given the massive jhatka he got. And this not taking name thing was a stupid thing done by every person involved here 🤪 Rajan and his writers did this just to justify this siyapa else we know shit like this isn't possible in real life 😆