Originally posted by: aasmanviewer
She was wrong because right after the divorce she cried her heart out, regretted and remarried the same person. Think through your divorce and get divorce if that it is most viable option, but please don’t make mockery of divorce and remarriages. Communicate before you take extreme steps, don’t get divorce just because a third person wants it for you. Also go for it only if you are convinced that there is no coming back.
The showmakers of India’s top tv show yrkkh, should take the responsibility as to what message they are conveying to the younger generation. I am surprised to see so many people jumping guns for divorce. It is not about his fault, her fault. It is about 2 people working towards a beautiful relationship, which blossomed out of love in the first place.
I don't think that is the case here. I think Naira just assumed she was no longer married to Karthik. Their marriage at this time is just a legal formality but they are not living as a married couple. Karthik had moved on and Naira went her separate ways the last 5 1/2 years. Had Naira known she is still married to Karthik I feel she would have happily signed the divorce papers anyway seeing he had married Vedika. To me she is trying to clear the mess that has been created by her coming back. For me it is the right thing to do. If anything Vedika pointed this legal issue out was something Naira needed to be aware of as at this point they are not a couple. She is making a clean cut from Karthik legally. It was not blackmail. I don't see it that way.
A first wife never wants to interfere in her ex-husband's 2nd marriage and never wants to be blamed for their problems. Just because Kairav wants his happy family doesn't mean it is possible. He is a kid that doesn't understand adult problems. He sees his parents fighting all the time and it makes him sad. They should not be together just for the sake of the child because together they will cause him more damage. Though Naira may not be the source of Vedika and Karthik's marriage issues society would say that she as exwife went away for 5 1/2 year without telling anyone she had a child and now she has come back to claim back her rights as a wife. Society will blame her if Karthik doesn't pay attention to his current wife that the family has accepted. No one is blaming Karthik here when he is being very self-centered and not worried about anyone else. He is being immature going to the Singhania house in the middle of the night. Who does that? Manish should give Karthik a piece of his mind and tell him to act like a grown man.
If Naira tells the Singhania's about Vedika's suicide attempt they would say that Naira even if it is not your fault you will get the blame so in a way it is good if she sent divorce papers to Karthik. She is not sacrificing her happiness and Kairav needs to be told his parents can't live together so that he stops trying to pair them up. That needs to be stopped. Karthik and Naira need to live with the consequences of their actions. They can't be irresponsible and expect that things will go back to being what they once was before. That is illogical.
Naira should divorce Karthik. If after that he doesn't do justice with Vedika she should divorce him too. Let him be happy just being a father. They say men you can't live them you can't live without them. They are self-centered and a pain in the ass. Given Naira and Karthik's history I don't want them remarrying. Let Naira find a better partner that gives her happiness in her future. Let Kairav get the love of two families but set rules of behavior and tell him what he should not expect from his parents as they are not married.
Edited by rose2015 - 5 years ago
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