Mere liye mera bachha hi sab se jaruri hai.....

So... since the confrontation or revelation has come up or say the track has begun.. its Nairas big af tag line ki “Mere liye sabse zaruri mera bachha hai”.. so i was just thinking... you know Naira is shown in the show that she is always concerned abt others.. and she is deffo going to try and give rights to Vedika as acc to her thats right but... but....BUT what if the seperation from his father takes a toll on Kairav’s health.. this kid was fatherless for 5 yrs and he was desperately looking for his dad and then he got it along with a big family where everyone loved him.. and not to forget this little chab had a heart surgery recently and that too a major one.. the surgery and recovery in itself is very traumatic for little ones and now on top of that his mother for what so ever reason is going to seperate him from his father.. Naira has time and again said that she will make Kairav understand.. and lets say this kid understands that his parents wont be happy together but after that WILL KAIRAV BE ABLE TO HANDLE IT????? What if he understands but is not able to bear it?? He is just a 4 yr old and i read somewhere that Kairav might show symptoms of depression.. it can happen to kids who are all of a sudden sick and have to spend alot of time with restriction but here kaira gave full attention to kairavs happiness and prevented that but they are now again putting kairav at risk.. so lets just forget who starts the custody battle and who will win.. in both the cases Kairav is going to loose.. so will he be able to handle it,??? What do you guys think??? Are children that strong??

Originally posted by: Raxya

So... since the confrontation or revelation has come up or say the track has begun.. its Nairas big af tag line ki “Mere liye sabse zaruri mera bachha hai”.. so i was just thinking... you know Naira is shown in the show that she is always concerned abt others.. and she is deffo going to try and give rights to Vedika as acc to her thats right but... but....BUT what if the seperation from his father takes a toll on Kairav’s health.. this kid was fatherless for 5 yrs and he was desperately looking for his dad and then he got it along with a big family where everyone loved him.. and not to forget this little chab had a heart surgery recently and that too a major one.. the surgery and recovery in itself is very traumatic for little ones and now on top of that his mother for what so ever reason is going to seperate him from his father.. Naira has time and again said that she will make Kairav understand.. and lets say this kid understands that his parents wont be happy together but after that WILL KAIRAV BE ABLE TO HANDLE IT????? What if he understands but is not able to bear it?? He is just a 4 yr old and i read somewhere that Kairav might show symptoms of depression.. it can happen to kids who are all of a sudden sick and have to spend alot of time with restriction but here kaira gave full attention to kairavs happiness and prevented that but they are now again putting kairav at risk.. so lets just forget who starts the custody battle and who will win.. in both the cases Kairav is going to loose.. so will he be able to handle it,??? What do you guys think??? Are children that strong??

They are not in my opinion. Kids should have free life till they are kids badmein toh yehi jhelna...hai.. atleast bachpan toh bachpan jaisa rehna chaiye...

Talking about naira i dont know what other option she has.

1) cant go to singhanias ...she will stay there kartik will come..vedika will follow taunts start.

2) she cant stay in gv because kartik is married to vedika ..who has made it clear that she will not tolerate nairas presence.

3) she cannot ask for custody..she knows how much guilty she already is....she wont do that for kairav.

4) she cannot leave city as she is guilt tripped and kartik wont let her.

5) she cannot come close to kartik...and stay anywhere else for obivous reasons.

6) she cant leave kaira ...she is his mother and he is the only one left for her. ( my opinion)

7) if she does anything other then this no one will support her...

What she will do ? She has done what she has done.... but now what. There is no option. Kartik wont take a stand...and vedika will keep taunting her.sigh.

That’s actually a good take on the track and would be interesting to watch.

According to conventional storylines, father’s win the case, child falls sick and then the mothers are called back to take care of the kids.

If it goes as you have suggested, it would show that even father’s are as important as mother’s. Also, would be a good reality check for Naira who thinks she has full rights on Kairav.

Interesting fact, Dr. Pallavi is returning as well. Let’s see if she’s there for Vedika or it has anything to do with Kairav’s health.

Originally posted by: Fireiswithinus

They are not in my opinion. Kids should have free life till they are kids badmein toh yehi jhelna...hai.. atleast bachpan toh bachpan jaisa rehna chaiye...

Talking about naira i dont know what other option she has.

1) cant go to singhanias ...she will stay there kartik will come..vedika will follow taunts start.

2) she cant stay in gv because kartik is married to vedika ..who has made it clear that she will not tolerate nairas presence.

3) she cannot ask for custody..she knows how much guilty she already is....she wont do that for kairav.

4) she cannot leave city as she is guilt tripped and kartik wont let her.

5) she cannot come close to kartik...and stay anywhere else for obivous reasons.

6) she cant leave kaira ...she is his mother and he is the only one left for her. ( my opinion)

7) if she does anything other then this no one will support her...

What she will do ? She has done what she has done.... but now what. There is no option. Kartik wont take a stand...and vedika will keep taunting her.sigh.

There is definitely option . She should give preference to her child , she should say NO to vedika for divorce , she and kartik should give either one more chance to their marriage or for once and all closure to their marriage. Either one more chance or closure is what their marriage deserves.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

There is definitely option . She should give preference to her child , she should say NO to vedika for divorce , she and kartik should give either one more chance to their marriage or for once and all closure to their marriage. Either one more chance or closure is what their marriage deserves.

Well there is not a single person who is going to tell naira in what condition kartik.married vedika...bevause acc to her when she went to stop marriage usne toh yehi dekha na ki kartik khud chahta hai aage bdhna...phir everyone including uske mayke wale ye dikha rhe hai ki vedika hi imp. Hai or usne uski jagh le li hai...and lastly vedika is emotionally blackmailing her... she told her that kartik had no pressure and wanted to start a life.

Ab from nairas pov ...if she does what you said she is breaking a love marriage. Kartik totally made it clear to her face that he doesnt want her. So should she force herself to be in kartiks life ...as vedika is doing ? Because acc to her vedika and kartik like each other and are married...even if it is illegal...usse toh idea nahi hai ki ye shadi kis dabav mein hui hai. Toh wo as a good person kisi ka ghar kyu todegi ?

Now jha tak bat kairav ko door rkhne ki hai toh vedika literally threatened her with his illness...toh ye option nahi hai.

As you said ' she and kartik should give either one more chance to their marriage or for once and all closure to their marriage. ' but wo akele toh ye nahi kr skti. Kartik made it clear he doesnt want naira...( which we all know is a lie but still ) and he made it clear she is his exwife.. toh ab koi bhi ldki kyu kisi ka basa basaya ( acc to naira) ghr todegi.

Originally posted by: Fireiswithinus

Well there is not a single person who is going to tell naira in what condition kartik.married vedika...bevause acc to her when she went to stop marriage usne toh yehi dekha na ki kartik khud chahta hai aage bdhna...phir everyone including uske mayke wale ye dikha rhe hai ki vedika hi imp. Hai or usne uski jagh le li hai...and lastly vedika is emotionally blackmailing her... she told her that kartik had no pressure and wanted to start a life.

Ab from nairas pov ...if she does what you said she is breaking a love marriage. Kartik totally made it clear to her face that he doesnt want her. So should she force herself to be in kartiks life ...as vedika is doing ? Because acc to her vedika and kartik like each other and are married...even if it is illegal...usse toh idea nahi hai ki ye shadi kis dabav mein hui hai. Toh wo as a good person kisi ka ghar kyu todegi ?

Now jha tak bat kairav ko door rkhne ki hai toh vedika literally threatened her with his illness...toh ye option nahi hai.

As you said ' she and kartik should give either one more chance to their marriage or for once and all closure to their marriage. ' but wo akele toh ye nahi kr skti. Kartik made it clear he doesnt want naira...( which we all know is a lie but still ) and he made it clear she is his exwife.. toh ab koi bhi ldki kyu kisi ka basa basaya ( acc to naira) ghr todegi.

Jaise strong ban kar sirf kairav ke liye gayab ho jane ka decision akele he le liya tha waise he aj phir se strong ban kar sirf kairav ke liye kartik ko divorce na dene ka decision akele he le lena chahiye.

Kairav ke liye gayab ho jane ka decision akele le sakti hai to kairav ke liye divorce na dene ka decision akele kyun nai leh sakti?

kartik made it clear he doesn't want naira lekin kya fark padta hai uske kuch bhi bolne se????? Divorce nai degi to kartik and family zyada se zyada kya kar lege ????????????????????????????????

Naira ke liye uski shaddi tooti nai hai yeh reality hai or woh aj bhi kartik ki legal wife hai so kairav ka future secure kar sakti hai iss baat se zyada important illegal wife/illegal wedding kabhi nai hona chahiye.

Naira jab gayab hui tab sirf maa ban kar socha tha as per her words , aj bhi divorce dene se pehle sirf maa ban kar sochna chahiye.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

There is definitely option . She should give preference to her child , she should say NO to vedika for divorce , she and kartik should give either one more chance to their marriage or for once and all closure to their marriage. Either one more chance or closure is what their marriage deserves.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

naira can’t ask karthik for a second chance as he has told her that vedika is his wife, ..in her eyes he has moved on and married vedika. Vedika has given her the impression that karthik married her willingly and has made promises to her. And naira can see that karthik and the Goenkas have accepted vedika as karthiks wife. So how can she insist karthik gives their marriage a second chance .even if it’s for kairav,..Now it really would seem like she is purposely destroying vedikas happiness and home for kairav and herself...so I can understand nairas actions,, naira is not a selfish person,.and she’s a good person,..so she won’t hurt vedika. Vedika will have to be the one who will step away.. in ITV the heroines are always selfless and mahaan women who sacrifice their happiness for others..

Agree with your each and every word.

Lekin ek baar galat action lene ke baad zyada bada galat action lena bewkufi hogi. Pehle he gayab ho kar wrong action le liya tha lekin ab illegal wedding/wife ke liye divorce/custody case se zyada galat nai karegi ??

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Agree with your each and every word.

Lekin ek baar galat action lene ke baad zyada bada galat action lena bewkufi hogi. Pehle he gayab ho kar wrong action le liya tha lekin ab illegal wedding/wife ke liye divorce/custody case se zyada galat nai karegi ??

Originally posted by: Fireiswithinus

They are not in my opinion. Kids should have free life till they are kids badmein toh yehi jhelna...hai.. atleast bachpan toh bachpan jaisa rehna chaiye...

Talking about naira i dont know what other option she has.

1) cant go to singhanias ...she will stay there kartik will come..vedika will follow taunts start.

2) she cant stay in gv because kartik is married to vedika ..who has made it clear that she will not tolerate nairas presence.

3) she cannot ask for custody..she knows how much guilty she already is....she wont do that for kairav.

4) she cannot leave city as she is guilt tripped and kartik wont let her.

5) she cannot come close to kartik...and stay anywhere else for obivous reasons.

6) she cant leave kaira ...she is his mother and he is the only one left for her. ( my opinion)

7) if she does anything other then this no one will support her...

What she will do ? She has done what she has done.... but now what. There is no option. Kartik wont take a stand...and vedika will keep taunting her.sigh.

This is all correct from Naira's point of view. But her flaw is thinking that she needs to solve this problem all by herself. A normal woman in her situation would realize she needs to involve the child's father in any decision making. Kartik's being a jerk but we've been shown that he and Naira can have a civilized discussion when it comes to problem solving (Liza/Chachu) and even that he is very sympathetic to her distress (hugging her by the car). So let Naira arrange to meet him somewhere quiet, calmly explain her dilemma and ask his help in solving it. Instead she made that big dramatic announcement in front of the whole family where there was no scope for discussion, only hostile reactions.

I don't understand this current storytelling process. First we are shown scenes which could provide context for reasonable resolution of insane storylines -like Kartik possibly figuring out on his own that Naira is alive by putting all the coincidences they have shown together. But no, instead he almost gets there and then says nah, she's dead let me just get on and marry Vedika. Same way, they are showing that some lines of support and trust still exist between Kartik and Naira but they are not being used where they are most important, figuring out how Naira and Kairav can find a harmonious place in Kartik's life. This show is getting really really hard to watch.