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See, koi kisi ko itna pyar kabhi nahi karta ki he/she accepts them without any condition/expectation or with their shortcomings . Basically we all negotiate when it comes to our life partners..We have some shortcomings so do others. We are humans, they are also humans ...This laila majnu pyar may exist before marriage only when the reality/marriage doesn't test your love . The place where both think so strongly that they are correct and the other is wrong , aisi shadi divorce tak hi jaati hai ..Because they fail to see where "they "went wrong and try to justify themselves ...IMO both kartik and naira are wrong , thoda nai too much. It's never our thinking or judgement about others but the "extreme" views which clouds our intelligence and emotions . Aaj ki ladai mein who was right and who was wrong ? In the pub who was right and who was wrong ? Bewakoofi mein naira kisi se kam nai hai. Specially in making a mountain of a molehill when she is of the opinion "I am right, so everybody must understand me , support me and trust me " ..So what if the outcome turns disastrous for her or someone else ? Kartik just hits her where it hurts the most. Because this is the only point he has against her . Aur in what way can he tell her that she can also be wrong ? Ye ho raha hai dono ke beech.Arre kisi ko samajh nai aata kartik ka. From day 1 , he only wanted to hear naira admitting her mistake, Instead she went ballistic with "how CAN you think like this ? How can I do this? You think I can do this ? I hate you" multiply by infinity . This has been their dialogue always . And she was bloody wrong to hide about the drug addiction . I don't want nairas redemption ..But I agree with kartik here . I don't know what will pacify them ..🤢What were they showing by fighting like this in front of their families . Khachar🤢
See, koi kisi ko itna pyar kabhi nahi karta ki he/she accepts them without any condition/expectation or with their shortcomings . Basically we all negotiate when it comes to our life partners..We have some shortcomings so do others. We are humans, they are also humans ...This laila majnu pyar may exist before marriage only when the reality/marriage doesn't test your love . The place where both think so strongly that they are correct and the other is wrong , aisi shadi divorce tak hi jaati hai ..Because they fail to see where "they "went wrong and try to justify themselves ...IMO both kartik and naira are wrong , thoda nai too much. It's never our thinking or judgement about others but the "extreme" views which clouds our intelligence and emotions . Aaj ki ladai mein who was right and who was wrong ? In the pub who was right and who was wrong ? Bewakoofi mein naira kisi se kam nai hai. Specially in making a mountain of a molehill when she is of the opinion "I am right, so everybody must understand me , support me and trust me " ..So what if the outcome turns disastrous for her or someone else ? Kartik just hits her where it hurts the most. Because this is the only point he has against her . Aur in what way can he tell her that she can also be wrong ? Ye ho raha hai dono ke beech.Arre kisi ko samajh nai aata kartik ka. From day 1 , he only wanted to hear naira admitting her mistake, Instead she went ballistic with "how CAN you think like this ? How can I do this? You think I can do this ? I hate you" multiply by infinity . This has been their dialogue always . And she was bloody wrong to hide about the drug addiction . I don't want nairas redemption ..But I agree with kartik here . I don't know what will pacify them ..🤢What were they showing by fighting like this in front of their families . Khachar🤢
I agree with you that Naira is also at fault. I understand that the first day when she was accused of Shubham's death, she couldn't say anything cause everyone were emotional. But when she came back from hospital with broken leg she should have said that she found out about drugs only two days before his birthday. And Shubham wanted to tell everyone after the birthday celebration and if he wouldn't have done it than she was going to tell everyone herself. Honestly, in this technological world she could have communicated these two sentences by mail, email, text, phone call or through someone else. But instead she got even more upset with kartik's accusations. If someone is screaming at you, accusing you and ignoring you and if you do the same how do you expect the other person to listen. She should have remained calm and should have gotten her point across and than afterwards she could have accused Kartik for not trusting her.
Of course Kartik is no saint here, instead of drinking for two years he could have confronted Naira and asked for explanation about shubham's Addiction and her whereabouts on funeral day when his mom was not around. Not only that but at least Kirti, Naksh, Dadi, Manish anyone could have asked Naira and relayed the information to Kartik.
But obviously if they did that than CVs wouldn't be able to torture us for past 3 months.
But what I find stupid is that there are already so many characters in the story and they can still confront Naira and ask all those questions and solve the misunderstanding. Infact Naira herself can volunteer the informationwhile signing the divorce papers and leave big impact on Kartik.
But for both Kartik and Naira they want their spouse to understand and trust them without saying anything but they themselves don't trust or understand their spouse. Their relationship and behavior is immature and if you think about it, this is not the first incident, similar incidences have occur in past. Where both misunderstood each other and said sorry but this time it's worse than before.
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