Kartik - Failed in front of circumstances

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Shafy_Kaira_MN

@Shafy_Kaira_MN

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Posted: 7 years ago

Hello All,

I am new to the Ye Rishta kya Kehlata Hai Forum. I am the great Fan of Miley Jab Hum Tum, when an friend of mine suggested to follow kaira in instagram and from then I have became a huge KAIRA fan.

Have seen all their episodes, I am so proud of Momo and Shivi.. they are too cute. I was already fan of Momo from Dreamgirl but Shivi... she is so cute and adorable.

Coming to the point I want to put forward. After seeing today's episode, we see how much Naira is in pain, it would have been so difficult for her to take this decision and come forward infront of Kartik to confront it all.

But we are lacking one point, Kartik's point of view. The person is so distorted right now, is torn between his mother and love of life. In previous episodes he said he can't bear the pain of loosing his mother again yet he is lost in keeping his uptight.

He is torn, shattered from inside, it seems neither can't take a breath nor can't release it. Kartik was the one who fall in love with Naira at first, he loved her unconditionally without any demands and finally confessed his love to her, making her to fall in love with him and now he himself has made her away from him. How much could it be difficult for him no one can imagine. He loved her to the most yet because of the circumstances he is shut. No one new what hurricane is flowing inside his soul. He is not saying much yet he is saying all of it from his eyes.

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AnyaRSingh

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Posted: 7 years ago

Yes todays episode lacked Kartik's pov thats why i found even though shivangi did extremely well in the episode

It fell flat to me.

Kartik barely reacted to me...Maybe monday we will see him slowly react.

I think Kartik is utterly confused. Not only about his feelings but about everything.

He loved naira more than anything in the world i wont deny that.

But his anger clouded his judgement to such an extent that he even signed on those papers.

Part of me hoped that he would say no but then part of me thinks after what happen to his mom. He is not thinking clearly and only thinking about her. Rather than himself.

Not being able to drink...

To wash away his memories and pain

I guess will be interesting to watch...

In the beginning i felt on some level he loved naira more than she loved him. But i think he fell in love with the idea of her more than the actual person.

He fell in love with the idea of having someone who would trust him with everything. And perhaps the way she mistrusted him from the get go and was away from her home made her relateble to him.

But naira's love for me is way more stronger than his infatuation...protective love.

Naira has put up with his anger, his repeated insults, his entire family for god sakes for him. She changed herself for him.

A girl who hated mehendi put it all over her hands because she loved him.

She bowed down to him multiple times in order to save their relationship. Rather than just getting angry, when she thought about things from another perspective shes always done the right thing.

Kartik can never love naira the way she loves him. Because her love was not based on looks. Or insta love. She fell in love with him slowly. She did everything for him. Accepted everything...Just to be with him...

But i have not seen him make the same effort towards her to be honest.

Edited by AnyaRSingh - 7 years ago

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Charu

@Krinya

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Posted: 7 years ago

I have a problem with 1 word here..

1)confused.

Why is he confused ? That he loves naira or not ? Love her to the extent that he can't avoid her existence but not that much ke he fights for her with his mom ? Lemme tell you that if he did have faith in naira that it was.not entirely her fault in shubham's death, then he should "not" be confused about what he should be doing . He is trying to explain himself in dreams, does he understand her ? No! "Mr. Kartik" also thinks that naira was wrong . Isn't he clear about this ?

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Shafy_Kaira_MN

@Shafy_Kaira_MN

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Posted: 7 years ago

What I think is, he is distorted with the fact that Naira hid the truth from him.. it doesn't matter she should have told to other people or not but him yes and this thing has just tored him apart. This has taken all the strength from him in understanding what is correct and what is not.

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parvs

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh
Yes todays episode lacked Kartik's pov thats why i found even though shivangi did extremely well in the episode
It fell flat to me.
Kartik barely reacted to me...Maybe monday we will see him slowly react.

I think Kartik is utterly confused. Not only about his feelings but about everything.
He loved naira more than anything in the world i wont deny that.
But his anger clouded his judgement to such an extent that he even signed on those papers.
Part of me hoped that he would say no but then part of me thinks after what happen to his mom. He is not thinking clearly and only thinking about her. Rather than himself.
Not being able to drink...
To wash away his memories and pain
I guess will be interesting to watch...

In the beginning i felt on some level he loved naira more than she loved him. But i think he fell in love with the idea of her more than the actual person.
He fell in love with the idea of having someone who would trust him with everything. And perhaps the way she mistrusted him from the get go and was away from her home made her relateble to him.

But naira's love for me is way more stronger than his infatuation...protective love.
Naira has put up with his anger, his repeated insults, his entire family for god sakes for him. She changed herself for him.
A girl who hated mehendi put it all over her hands because she loved him.
She bowed down to him multiple times in order to save their relationship. Rather than just getting angry, when she thought about things from another perspective shes always done the right thing.

Kartik can never love naira the way she loves him. Because her love was not based on looks. Or insta love. She fell in love with him slowly. She did everything for him. Accepted everything...Just to be with him...

But i have not seen him make the same effort towards her to be honest.

you literally put my thoughts into words... i always found kartik to be in love with the idea of naira but not naira the person... he just found her to be so similar to him and that he could connect with what she was going through from the beginning... living separate from their families because they both had trust issues with them... naira even said during the jkg time when she donates the food to people... that she is the same as she was and he knew how she is and fell in love with her and married her so why is he misunderstanding her now...

and i agree about naira making so many sacrifices for him and completely changing herself but i never really saw him give up anything... i mean he hated his family and she reconnected him with them and then whenever something went wrong with them he was so quick to turn it around and blame naira for it... i too always found nairas love to be deeper for him... i mean when she forgave the whole family for hiding the mansi thing she sat and thought about kartik wanting to tell her but maybe she didnt understand him properly at the time... and she forgave him just like that... but we never ever see kartik reflecting on himself and wonder maybe he to went wrong somewhere...this time i want his light bulb turning on and to think properly about everything... dont want naira to somehow again end up apologizing for something he did

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Shafy_Kaira_MN

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Posted: 7 years ago

Kartik did trusted Naira

In the case of Raghav if Kartik wouldn't be there than Naira might not be alive..

Love is there, it is just that with so many people involving between them they are not getting to get along with each other.

After anniversary party, Kartik was eager to take her out to doctor, it is just because his mother the things are happening and moreover right now he couldn't able to handle them.

Neither he could handle his heart.

This is mis communication, mis-understanding is the biggest problem

Edited by shafy_MN - 7 years ago

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vellainsaan

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Posted: 7 years ago

I sometimes don't understand what CVs want to do with Kartik. Like, sometimes he would behave so unrealistically, raghav track? Any normal guy would take some time trusting the girl.. but he trusted her blindly..

Then came joru ka gulam track.. Naira stopped talking to him because she was manipulated by dadi.. I understood why she did what she did.. but Kartik.. why did he stop talking to her?? They never showed that.. never showed him acknowledging that he was wrong too in not confronting her face to face on that issue.

It feels like CVs only want to show him as husband goals.. but if there comes a time when logically the guy should apologize, they will somehow drop that track like hot potato OR make Naira apologize in the end... somehow .. it's always her apologizing.. galti kisi ki bhi ho.

Nowadays their favourite trick is to make him cry and then everyone starts blaming her 😆

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parvs

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: shafy_MN
Kartik did trusted Naira
In the case of Raghav if Kartik wouldn't be there than Naira might not be alive..

Love is there, it is just that with so many people involving between them they are not getting to get along with each other.

After anniversary party, Kartik was eager to take her out to doctor, it is just because his mother the things are happening and moreover right now he couldn't able to handle them.

Neither he could handle his heart.

This is mis communication, mis-understanding is the biggest problem

the frustrating part is that they know they have communication issues... but they get like amnesia and forget about it... after almost every separation they talk about how they going to be mature and how mature people talk their problems/issues out... but when a problem/issue arises they forget about their promises and act like little kids playing the blame game... you think after so many separations they would learn to communicate but its all just talk no walk... and thats the frustrating part how they tend to have amnesia all of a sudden.. and the repetition of you dont trust me

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CaptiveFreedom

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh
Yes todays episode lacked Kartik's pov thats why i found even though shivangi did extremely well in the episode
It fell flat to me.
Kartik barely reacted to me...Maybe monday we will see him slowly react.

I think Kartik is utterly confused. Not only about his feelings but about everything.
He loved naira more than anything in the world i wont deny that.
But his anger clouded his judgement to such an extent that he even signed on those papers.
Part of me hoped that he would say no but then part of me thinks after what happen to his mom. He is not thinking clearly and only thinking about her. Rather than himself.
Not being able to drink...
To wash away his memories and pain
I guess will be interesting to watch...

In the beginning i felt on some level he loved naira more than she loved him. But i think he fell in love with the idea of her more than the actual person.
He fell in love with the idea of having someone who would trust him with everything. And perhaps the way she mistrusted him from the get go and was away from her home made her relateble to him.

But naira's love for me is way more stronger than his infatuation...protective love.
Naira has put up with his anger, his repeated insults, his entire family for god sakes for him. She changed herself for him.
A girl who hated mehendi put it all over her hands because she loved him.
She bowed down to him multiple times in order to save their relationship. Rather than just getting angry, when she thought about things from another perspective shes always done the right thing.

Kartik can never love naira the way she loves him. Because her love was not based on looks. Or insta love. She fell in love with him slowly. She did everything for him. Accepted everything...Just to be with him...

But i have not seen him make the same effort towards her to be honest.

couldn't agree more...most of all his love for Naira is conditional...according to him...if she trust him blindly or never concealed anything from him...if she never gave up on him...regardless of him not trusting her and him giving up on her...only than she loved him or valued their relationship...I love one of her dialogues the most "If there was any machine to measure love u would have lost it long back mendak"...

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Shafy_Kaira_MN

@Shafy_Kaira_MN

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: vellainsaan
I sometimes don't understand what CVs want to do with Kartik. Like, sometimes he would behave so unrealistically, raghav track? Any normal guy would take some time trusting the girl.. but he trusted her blindly..
Then came joru ka gulam track.. Naira stopped talking to him because she was manipulated by dadi.. I understood why she did what she did.. but Kartik.. why did he stop talking to her?? They never showed that.. never showed him acknowledging that he was wrong too in not confronting her face to face on that issue.

It feels like CVs only want to show him as husband goals.. but if there comes a time when logically the guy should apologize, they will somehow drop that track like hot potato OR make Naira apologize in the end... somehow .. it's always her apologizing.. galti kisi ki bhi ho.

Nowadays their favourite trick is to make him cry and then everyone starts blaming her 😆

Somewhere I agree with your point. CVs should show a point where both are apologizing for the moments they have lost being separated, for the trust they didn't do on each other.

But on the contrary you see how much effective momo and shivi are performing. The thing is I am afraid of somewhere people are getting sympathetic to Naira and hatred towards Kartik, where frankly I love Kartik a lot 😳

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