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Jaishrikrishna

@NeeruNature

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Posted: 9 years ago

#21

Ya I know girl izadat everything for her

But I think Tara some how is wrong I know Tara is not fully but her unmatured do dis even duggu n Tara immaturity ke kaaran yeh wedding cancelled hui hai dono ka equally fault hai but Tara is a girl may be family kitni bhi modern ho lekin girls ko compromise karna hi padta hai it's a harsh truth so Tara ko thoda sochna chachiya tha aur kaise mandap ae nahi Jana chahiya tha how can she can do I never think so family ki izat hoti khel SE upar ya akar it their is dowry case then if girl called off her marriage it's a good sign but their is nothing like that and I know bua dadi is wrong but she is elder n she fully believe in old rules norms akar if family aaisa koi to unhe samjne ki khoshiah karo vo to. cause bhi chali jati after marriage isme itna issue banane ki zarurat ni this but they issue so much about dis aur koi groom family mein ho aur daily vo apke sath rahe tho bhibrespect her values n kuch samhe ke forget ur dreams and unhe dhere dhere change karo

Kuch tum thoda vadlo aage bado girls koi badna padta hai compromise karke then vo bhi dhere dhere change hoge unhe vishwas karo husband ka support karo vo zaruur apki suhaghe aur nahi to shadi SE phehe ki apki baath keh to taki bhad mein dikat Na ho akar groom apko sath hai ek din aap apna dream pura zaroor karoge

Sorry for long post but say marriage is full time relationship not a contract so respect n not create a inmaurity in it if u r unmatured to handle so kuch samhe ke liye rukh jao then fulfil ur dreams then marry but think of marry or u a girl so u first comparamise too n sath hi family support apni bhat manaho n fulfill dream

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nakshkidiwani

@nakshkidiwani

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Posted: 9 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: kdiya1234
ruchinaksh--It was natik's decision 4 marriage to go on even it was difficult to come on time as Ak was not ready..you can't blame girl's family..to blame tara for breaking tara is not a wise thinking from any one of us..Any girl can take such step when so much happen around her & Last Singhania's tactics are always different for them as compare whether related to bahus & betis.Their expectations from their bahus are exceptional, , they want to change according to themselves.tara is right somewhere in her views..what more to expect from a girl

Nk went previously. .hadbad ka kam gadbad ka hota hai ..dey even didnt thunk ki nk ko aane do..tara aur uski family ko toh itni jaldi thi ki muhurat bina baitha de..kis behalf pe woh hocky ko bol rahi thi ..his dj even didnt give to permission wen she entered in serial..
Agar kisi ke ghar mai shadi fix hoti bhi hai toh atleast itna wait karega ki papa ko aane do bad mai kar Lange but after function dey was cancelled wedding ...
Aur change ek girl kisi ke ghar jati hai toh waha ladies ko dekhti hai ki kaisa mahol hai ak is free for everything ss ne usko daba ne nhi rakha sab karne diya aur kharishma ko bhi..tara itni aachi hai toh itna sa bhed samaj nhi pai ki ak nk jab easly shadi kara sakte hai toh hocky bhi kelne denge but no ...uski frd ki fault thi..ss ne woh sari bat mani nk ne bhi ak ne bhi to tara ki family ne bola ..aur contract marriage ki bat koi choti nhi hoti ek insan yeh sochne pe majbur ho jata hai that hum itne bure hai ki ab sarto pe rishte banege ..yeh koi choti bat nhi apne aap mai ek family ke liye insult hai ...yeh galti duggu ki hai woh suna nhi jab tum khud esse ho jo sunte nhi ..even she got jealous from ak before wedding..
Hass...bolne ki jarurat hi nhi hai insult both side ki hoti hai nd boys ki jayada jab ek ladki bhag jati hai..
Unrealistic drama it is...

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nakshkidiwani

@nakshkidiwani

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Posted: 9 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: kdiya1234
One more point if you ppl. story of yrkkh is crap then you can't blame only one character tara mainly..How much she hurts as story is written by creatives..Enuf

Thats m saying story is crap..dont blam to nk always or mainly ss..he also hurts. .
As story is written by cvs...enouff

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kdiya1234

@kdiya1234

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Posted: 9 years ago

#24

The person who is raising topic on compromise by girls, do you really mean it... you ppl are after tara for everything may be shayad aapko kadki ki bhavnayoin lo undenkha karna hai.. Karo, ladki chahe sahi ho ya galat maafi kewal ladki aur uske family ko hi maangni chahiye .really pinching..no need to argue when some fans including me views are different..Aap log naitik aur uski family ko khoob baddava do..carry on.

Edited by kdiya1234 - 9 years ago

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anju45

@anju45

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Posted: 9 years ago

#25

If the story is crap & un- realistic then why tara only facing thunderstorms from all corners..Tara is also doing what has been asked by creatives, she is an actor who is performing according to her role..According to me the matter should be solved between duggu & tara but bua dadi taunts were so powerful that it can hurt any one..No one tried to stop her Why.. Kya girls famiies ki respect nahin honi chayiye..A big ques for Boys family too...Nk didn't like Sangram taunt on Naira & his son & bua dadi keep on insulting girl's family & tara..Raise ques on Parvarish..Kya koi ladki chup baddth sakti hai apne dadaji aur family ki insult hote dekh ker..think on this point too.

Edited by anju45 - 9 years ago

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munna111

@munna111

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Posted: 9 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: ruchinaksh

Jab tak sp inko bejat karke na nikal feke tab tak..dey will show crap...

Sp ne Jo SPA mein kiya wo kya kam tha...Phirbe CVS sudharenge nahi

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khushi

@khushi_shankar

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Posted: 9 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: kdiya1234
The person who is raising topic on compromise by girls, do you really mean it... you ppl are after tara for everything may be shayad aapko kadki ki bhavnayoin lo undenkha karna hai.. Karo, ladki chahe sahi ho ya galat maafi kewal ladki aur uske family ko hi maangni chahiye .really pinching..no need to argue when some fans including me views are different..Aap log naitik aur uski family ko khoob baddava do..carry on.

I am not the person who wrote the comment, but I fully agree with the person who wrote it. I am a 23-year old girl liIndian girl living abroad. I also have a little brother, so I feel that I can understand both perspective.

I will also say upfront that I do not like Tara, and nevr have. She tends to get very carried away with her feelings without understanding the situation. She thinks of herself, her own feelings, and expects the world to understand her without making the effort to understand the point of view of others.

I fully comprehend that she is scared and worried, but she needs to talk that out with Akshra (because Tara has no mother). She has always not really liked Akshra who has always tried to suport her.

If a person is going to get married in an orthodox joint family then she needs to try to fit in. She needs to make the effort to be a part of them. She does know that they are set in thier way, and if that is not possible then she can choose not to get married to Naksh. She has not been married yet, so I do not understand why she is feeling so trapped. Naksh and his family come as a package.

We can't expect the elders of our family to change so quickly. They are quite set in thier ways and only our love can gradually change thier ways. (Be assured that I have tried bheaving like Tara in my family, and the only thiing it has caused is a lot of conflict. My mother then explained to me that love gets you further than demanding.)

Singhaniyas, as orthodox as they are, are nice people and have allowed Akshara to work and Karishma to continue iwth ther business. I have met family that are much worse then the SS family.

P.S. I hope I have not rambled too much. I am not trying to hurt anyone and rambled on for too long.

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kdiya1234

@kdiya1234

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Posted: 9 years ago

#28

Khushishakar--Whatever you have written it's your opinion but my opinion is different from you & others for Singhania's, Nk, & on tara issue..i want no argument here so stop writing my view here..no one can change the way anyone can think..difficult to mold anyone with my prespective..Agree with u on some points but definitely not fully..loved Ak's concern, love & care 4 tara..At lleast one person who has realized that they too have to stop bua ji & not taking tara on wrong side..she is different from singhania's & will always be for me..

Edited by kdiya1234 - 9 years ago

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piyushi

@piyushi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#29

In my opinion, both parties were responsible for whatever happedned at wedding. The way Bua dadi used to taunt Tara was too bad. I understand that she is elder of Singhania family and they respect her a lot but that doesn't mean you will let her do anything. Same goes for Tara. Yeah, for me she was single handedly representing her family in this fiasco. You can't take your life's decision based on someone else's opinion. Don't know why but she was always shown a little immature for her age and self centered . Even when Akshara was hspitalized and has lost her eyesight, her main concern was Naksh doesn't spare time for her.

And today also, if she can go to cafe because her family wants to cheer her up, why can't Naksh. How can you even think that just because he was there enjoying with his family, he has forgotten everything. I was expecting at least one of her brothers to put across this point when she was blaming Naksh but no luck. And I don't understand from where CVs find such stupid friends for her. Be it Preeti or the girl today, each one is hell bent on giving her wrong advice and she is eager to follow all of them. the CVs have totally ruined the show.

Edited by piyushi - 9 years ago