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loveanime

@loveanime

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Posted: 9 years ago

#21

It is amazing how most of us on the forum were against Tara but in one episode we have all become against Naksh.

Not one person considered Tara POV they only wanted to see her beg, cry and apologize and even when she did that it was not good enough for Naksh. I am not sure why he is shocked that she run away, when everyone was begging him to go to the mandap to get married he didn't move an inch, his whole attitude was why should I marry this spoiled girl now I hate her now. Even if Tara made a mistake he had no right to abuse her in such a way.

There was full prejudice from Naksh side of the family against Tara.

Naksh still has no clue where he went wrong. He still thinks he is right. If he thinks this is how you treat the woman you love then he doesn't know love. Naksh never learned anything from his own parents on how a couple should behave especially if they have a disagreement.

I am glad Tara ran away she is free hurayyy. I hope her dadaji forgives her and let her marry when she is older when she meets the right guy who will appreciate her. Maybe they will find some other bali ka bakhra to marry this spoiled man child who Bua Dadi will like.

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loveanime

@loveanime

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Posted: 9 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Tabatha
And shame on Preeti for just standing there like a statue when all of this was going on. She was behind most of this to begin with.

Considering how Naksh acted I think she just did Tara a favour. When the going got tough Naksh threw Tara under the bus. Preeti was right in a round about way that Naksh is not the right guy for her. Maybe all of us should take PreNup tests before we get married, just to see how the guy reacts and see if he is worth marrying.

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rose2015

@rose2015

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Posted: 9 years ago

#23

Marriage is a treasure box. You get out of it only when you put into it.

You have to make deposits into the box first.

In this treasure box is trust, love, understanding, compassion, being united in good and bad times. Respecting each others families.

Marriage experiences many obstacles. It is not easy. Long lasting marriages have a lot of hiccups on the way but those whose foundation is solid can't be rocked.

Tara and Naksh's foundation was not solid. In good times and bad times you have to stick together and learn how to communicate with each other on equal footing. Boy is not better than the girl.

Boys family is not perfect and girls family is not always to be blamed. You are equals. You have to respect and love each other and stand united. This is where Naksh is lacking in this understanding.

It can't be me and my family and then the wife is separate. She is also part of that family

I know we can't change peoples mentality. What can we change? How we treat women. Give them education and make them independent. Only then they will be respected. Girls place is not only in the kitchen and raising kids. Today both husband and wife share the duties when both are working.

Edited by rose2015 - 9 years ago

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aditimathur

@aditimathur

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Posted: 9 years ago

#24

Y'days episode diappointed me & my family to the core as everyone tried to prove duggu right & dialogues of young ones & last of Akshara really disheartening as dil tuta hai humare duggu ka kya tara ka dil nahin toota..Why creatives feel girl's family to be taken granted in this modern world..Kya ladkiyon ka dil pather ka hota hai ki unhe kuch dard nahin hota.. here Singhania's play a double standard role as unhe kewal duggu ki khusiyon ka khyaal hai aur dukh ka bhi..The writer is not up to the point..not a proper ending of this tract.

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ErisedWitch45

@ErisedWitch45

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Posted: 9 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: rose2015

They have shown that when a boy makes a mistake it is overlooked but when a girl makes a mistake it is unforgivable. A boys family has no right to criticize or put down a girls family.

I think it was good she ran away. How can a girl watch her father's pain while he bows down while Naksh and his family badmouth his daughters character. They totally trashed her. (Bhua dadi) The sad part was no one defended and protected her when Bhua dadi said all those nasty things because everyone is afraid of her and in their minds they know she is wrong.

I don't like it when they show a boy saying, "don't you dare say anything about my family" but his family has the right to butcher her character and bad mouth her family. What hypocrites. That is what is wrong with our society.

Hey Rose2015,

Your posts nails everything that was wrong in this scenario. I couldn't have written it better.

I remember when Taara's Dadaji used to have wrog notions about Akshara, she would politely, diplomatically correct him and after many such incidents, his mindset changed. The CVs portray this in good light.

What BuaDadi does to Taara is horrible and the worst part is no one from the Singhania family ever tells her to stop! I didn't even like it earlier when she used to call her knickerwali or something like that. I feel Rukmani (Nandini's saas negativity) has been tranferred to Bua Dadi.

The points that you have highlighted above are so true especially in real world. At least cvs could have shown some semblance of it in the reel world.

Ps: Sorry, I edited the best parts.

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