Nayi soch!!!!! - Page 5

Originally posted by: nivedha_123

@ asawari di and @ saman di...so happy to see ur posts in the forum again...im requesting u..pls come here often..forum looks empty without u guys...))Different of opinions should be accepted..but dont know why here...if we support some characters we become their die hard fans...or if we criticize them we become bashers..when will this change...))everybody should respect other's views/suggestions/opinions...))

Originally posted by: Ashi_22

Yes Sam, that was also one of the reason.
YR team is getting good feedback for devyani and her kids track on social networking site so they have extended it. Infact they are also thinking about parallel track for Naman.

Naksh track toh pehle hi mil nahi raha hai. Jo bhi abhi mil raha hai woh bhi bandh hojayega.

Originally posted by: saman.17

naman lovers ll be happy now... abhi next uski track ka bhi soch rahe hai ufffpata nhi hamesha hamara hi popat kyun hota hai... hmmm i think v shd end tis now kyunki hum jo chahte hai always uska ulta hi toh hota hai...

Originally posted by: Ashi_22

Yes Sam, that was also one of the reason.
YR team is getting good feedback for devyani and her kids track on social networking site so they have extended it. Infact they are also thinking about parallel track for Naman.

Naksh track toh pehle hi mil nahi raha hai. Jo bhi abhi mil raha hai woh bhi bandh hojayega.

Originally posted by: Ashi_22

Hi this is Ashi...some of u might know me...I've lot to write...will be right back...:)

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I see lot of new members in the forum so a brief introduction of myself... 😆

I am an old member of this forum, my name is Asawari and friends with love call me Ashi. I'm an ardent Akshara, Naitik and Naksh fan and Hina is my favourite. I left this forum two years back cause of personal bashing and name calling. I was given name "Akshara Chamchi" 🤣 This forum was like my second home, I left with bitter memories but with wonderful lifetime friends, I call them my partners.

Now you all be thinking, WTH I'm here ?The answer is due to Sam...huh... 😆 I missed an episode of YRKKH and she posted an update from here. I read the 3 pages of this forum after really long time and I got the deja vu feeling. What happened to Akshara few years back is happening with Naitiknow. And I don't want more Ashi's to leave this forum... 😭 😆
Enough of I, me n myself. Coming back to the topic.

The rules might have changed in the forum so please guide me if I go wrong.

I love to play Devil's advocate and the Devil here is Naitik...😆 So I'm here to defend my Naitik.

For past 2-3 months we are watching same track and its on roller coaster ride right now. Different situations, Different people, Different reactions and Different opinions but that does not make one right and other wrong.

I've seen lot of views. From Akshara's POV,
Devyani's POV, Naman and Muskaan's POV even some from RB's POV...😆 but none or few from Naitik's POV.

Here I go...It all started with RB's remarriage which "Akshara" thought is the only solution for him. Hmmm...lets keep aside my views and purely go by what is shown. A year after G3's death RB got married cause he felt the need for companionship. Every member of the family agreed with Akshara's conviction and went ahead with it. Naitik was hesitant since beginning, he just agreed cause of Akshara's conviction and his trust in her. Devyani, was leaving all alone with her father. When marriage proposal came to her she gave it a thought and said yes. The probable reason for her saying yes is that she is all alone, old father, no one to look forward to or be with. She had no hopes of meeting her children in near future. This proposal gave her opportunity to be with a complete family. Though not blood related but are ready to accept her the way she is. I found this as a huge step taken by Singhania's. These very people didn't allow their 20 year young daughter in law to remove her pallu, they made faces for every damn small thing. The day they took the decision I was happy. I've seen very modern, educated family hesitate to even think such thing. The conservative Singhania's took this proud step.

Devyani faced some issues in adjusting to her new house and gave it back to BM when required... 👏 She started settling in, Singhania's started accepting her, Naitik was about to give in and bammm Akshara's abortion issue rattled everything and relations. One misunderstanding lead to another. Devyani and Naitik's relation took a set back. Naitik was wrong here for assuming without knowing the truth. He came to know the truth but by that time lot of water had already ran down the bridge. His ego and probably guilt was not allowing him to apologise. He was wrong and is still wrong with his behaviour towards Devyani.Naitik got to know about devyani's kids. He remained indifferent as he had no idea what happened between devyani and her ex husband. He didn't got himself involved. Perfectly fine from his position.

The hongkong trip drawn the family closer. Naitik's jail incident brought them closer as a family. Naitik was softening towards Devyani. And bammm Muskaan and naman came announced with all their boria bistar along... 😆 Whenever things started settling between Devyani, Singhania's and Naitik there comes a storm.

Naman and Muskaan coming to stay with their mother is not wrong but staying there without consideration of other family members is wrong. Had they informed the situation and their decision before coming to Singhania house then things and situation would have been different. There impulsive decision made things worse and true to singhania's style the panic button was pushed way too early. I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this but everyone in their position and situation is right. Yes, it is Devyani's house too but it is not only Devyani's house that her kids can walk in and out as per their whims and fancies. There are 5 more members who stay in that house and their life would also get affected cause of Naman and Muskaan so their decisions and opinions also matter. Everybody has faced bad consequences of lieing in this show. Whether it's Naitik or Akshara or anyone else. So why Naman and Muskaan be spared. Small lie big lie whatever it is a lie is a lie and nothing else.Tomorrow if they beat Naitik to stay with Devyani so will it be justified just because they are poor kids who stayed away from their mother ?

Singhania's have right to say no to Naman and Muskaan staying at Singhania house Permanently. They are neither singhania's nor were they part of their mother's marriage. If they were then singhania's or Naitik would have never objected.

Put yourself in Naitik's shoes and think. Would you allow someone whom you don't even know to stay in your house, in your life permanently all of a sudden without your concern? Would you start behaving normal with them when nothing is normal?

It's very easy as a third person to say accept Naman and Muskaan but it is equally difficult for the people involved. If we are giving leniency to naman for his ill manners coz of the situation then naitik and rashmi too deserve that leniency. Such situations and relations require ample time but Naman didn't gave them that.
I have all my empathy, sympathy with Devyani, Naman and Muskaan but sometimes think from Naitik's POV as well things would look different, perceptions would change.

Regarding Vish yesterday's dialogue for that I remember there is a saying in marathi " Shivaji janmala aayla pahije pan toh dusrya chya ghari" The meaning is shivaji should be born but at neighbours house. The actual meaning is things looks very easy when its happening to others but its difficult when you go through it yourself.

I'm not here to jugde anyone's opinion but I found this forum very one sided. So Me and Sam came to balance it out.

You can ignore my post. I'm not here to stay...lol

Cheers Ashi 😊

Originally posted by: Ashi_22

@ Mahi - U mean humlog Akshara ki tarah satak gaye hai...😆



Coming to topic, look if devyani is thinking 5 times before even speaking to her children when no one has stopped her for doing that. There is so much hesitancy in her with her own biological children. Infact asking them to leave gives that she has chosen her new family over her estranged children then why anything is expected from Singhania's? These two came as a shocker for them, they never expected them here leave aside permanently staying in their house. So what do u expect from them? Dance in glory that there are two more variable family members who walks in and out as per their whims and fancies???



Sam is right, these two didn't take a day to leave their father who single handedly brought them up. What kind of bond they will have with Singhania's? Tomorrow if they find something about Devyani they will again do the same...



Naman and Muskaan were not accepting their own mother, they took so long to come to terms with it, then, why expect Naitik and Singhania's to immediately welcome them with open arms. They came unannounced and it was clear that Singhania's don't want them to be staying there permanently and they knew about it. Devyani too made it clear.



Today Naman lied to stay in Singhania house, the way he was shouting on Naitik tomorrow he will hit him in anger, is that justified just because they are younger to Naitik and had difficult childhood?



Akshara has till day before yesterday's episode has always thought from Naman, Muskaan and Devyani's POV. She stood by them knowing that Naitik is not in support of it. What she saw that day? A boy who was stranger to them few days back, whom she supported, whom she sympathies with, lied to them and on top of that was shouting on her husband standing in his house. How she should have reacted? Caressed them? shout on naitik and take him inside room?



It was Naman who was instigating Naitik throughout. What right Naman has to question Naitk? What respect Naman was giving to his mom? What Naman knows about Naitik and his relation with Gayatri, to pass snide remarks on it? What Naman knows about Naitik and his family ??



Naitik had never questioned Naman's relationship with his mom, not then and not even now...he helped him during his accident...called his mom...this is what I call maturity. Yes, he is not willing to accept Naman and Muskaan staying at their home but he has never questioned Devyani meeting her children. He has right to have an opinion where he and his family would be affected.


I hold Naitik guilty only for ill treating Devyani. He is at fault thete. No matter what is the situation. She is his father's wife and he has to give her that respect. Period.