Nayi soch!!!!!

Almost all here are disappointed with singhania family reaction and stuffs but why ? Is it that easy to accept anyone just like that watching in front of the screen and giving lecture on nayi soch is damn easy but be in the situation you will knowwhat Iit feels to be , I have personally been in place where the singhania family is and that was most stressful moment for our family for months together we had sleepless nights we didn't know what to do as we cudnt treat them as guests nor as family . And loads of other things took place in that's the reality now all this is past we are sorted and done but all I wud say watching on tv screen and say where is the "Nayi Soch" to so and so is just not acceptable . Instead of overacting wait for next thing that would take place .

I am understanding Devyaanis point of view as well her kids from what I have seen and experienced too. I understand devyaanis hardships completely so seeing all this personally upsets me more. I would rather raise a child alone then to go for second marriage because for me kids come first and I would never want anyone coming between me and my kids.

Earlier 1 in 100 topics would close nowadays its vice-versa. YR forum has become a dustbin where only waste or unwanted things ll be dumped everyday & as a result u can the CM rankings... No one wants to even dare to come & give tere views as later on it ll move to parliament assembly discussions leading to fights & then The End of thread.. 🤢

Now coming to the current track, 5 din ke ladke I mean naman ko u r comparing with naitik jiske saath hamara rishta 5 saal se hai 😲 naman ne chillaya toh he is a teenager but wahi naitik ne kiya toh immature disgusting ho gaya... mere saare collogues, frds & even my family feel naitik is no way wrong in his place & even they wld ve reacted the same way if they were in his place y only tem even I wouldn't allow anyone to stay at my place forever without my permission.. shayad bhagwan ne saari maturity kindness goodness forumwaalo me baat diya ki naitik aur hamare liye kuch bacha hi nhi... dusro ki eg's dena bahut asaan hai jab khud pe beet ti hai tab pata chalti hai... jab apne baap dusri shadi karke nayi biwi laate hai & unke saath unke jawaan bacche bhi aate hai toh pata chalega uska kya takleef hoti hai... aajkal real brother sisters ka ek saath rehna mushkil ho gaya hai & u want naitik to behave normally with his step mom's kids... yahan saghi behen shadi ke baad maayke aake order karegi toh bhai behen bolte hai yeh saari orders apne ghar pe karna yahan nhi & u ppl want Singhanias to accept naman muskaan with open arms... SS ppl especially naitik agreed to tis marriage after knowing she has no kids & he was never convinced for tis marriage wen he got to know that she already has 2 kids with her previous marriage but chup reh gaya coz of akshara... He had never expected tis situation wld arise in his life... ghar aaye hue 2 din nhi hua already naman started arguing with naitik aage jaake maar peet na kare iska kya guarantee???? Naitik choti ma nhi bulata uska prob hai toh naman muskaan rb ko chote papa nhi bulaate who koi kyun nhi kehta??? Itne saalo tak jis dad ne paala unhe chodke aane me 2 din nhi laga toh sighanias ke saath kya khaak rishta nibhayenge yeh log... 😕

& y the hell devyani is distancing herself from her kids kisine usse kahan kya baccho se baat na karne ke liye... uske dad is umar me akele rehte hai cant her kids stay with him... everyday she cld go & meet tem koi use rokta kya... Kaunsi ek hi ghar me rehke teeno chipak ke baithe hai... U ppl feel na akshara is the only sensible person in SS toh kal usne naitik ko support kar diya toh who bhi galat ho gayi ufff log naksh ko intelligent keh rahe the for supporting naman jab woh apni galat seniors ko support kar raha tha tab woh intelligent nhi laga kya??? Use sahi galat ka kya maaloom use koi khelne mil jaaye toh bas aage use kuch pata nhi & u r comparing naksh with naitik heights of intelligence... 👏

Yahan mahino se v r craving for proper naksh scenes & inturn if v dig out our sorrows v ll get a reply saying change the channel at 9.30 u ll ve no prob hereafter as if YR dekhne ki trademark sirf kuch logon ko hi mili ho...🤢 FB, twitter, IF ufff har jagah only complaints complaints & complaints abt naitik... YR na akela forum hai jahan side actors ki khoob taarif hoti hai aur leads ki bezzati karnre ka mauka koi nhi chodta... ppl ll be waiting kab naitik ya akshara ke distinguished fans pe baras padhe... V still remember hum dusre forum jaake unhe chup karvake aate the wen someone wld even utter a word abt naksh ab toh case hi ulta ho gaya... now other forum members shd interfere & stop bashing here... sry I'm taking other shoiw name, pratigya ka male lead kitna loud aur battameez tha pehle still ppl wld always support him & no one was allowed in tere forum to complaint abt him but yahan naitik ke kuch karne se pehle hi uska juloos nikal dete hai... 😭 yahan ke comments padne ke baad jise nk pasand nhi hai unko bhi uspe taras ajaata hai & which also made me to come back & comment here Finally ufff...

.

I totally agree with you we are in the same situation and it has been 19 years and we still don't call her mom we call her Aunty and we still have not accepted her kids so this is all so new to us and naman was very rude but I have full confidence in my naksh and I no they will not do anything wrong and natiks view I totally understand and his feelings too

Hi this is Ashi...some of u might know me...I've lot to write...will be right back...:)

---Edited---

I see lot of new members in the forum so a brief introduction of myself... 😆

I am an old member of this forum, my name is Asawari and friends with love call me Ashi. I'm an ardent Akshara, Naitik and Naksh fan and Hina is my favourite. I left this forum two years back cause of personal bashing and name calling. I was given name "Akshara Chamchi" 🤣 This forum was like my second home, I left with bitter memories but with wonderful lifetime friends, I call them my partners.

Now you all be thinking, WTH I'm here ?The answer is due to Sam...huh... 😆 I missed an episode of YRKKH and she posted an update from here. I read the 3 pages of this forum after really long time and I got the deja vu feeling. What happened to Akshara few years back is happening with Naitiknow. And I don't want more Ashi's to leave this forum... 😭 😆
Enough of I, me n myself. Coming back to the topic.

The rules might have changed in the forum so please guide me if I go wrong.

I love to play Devil's advocate and the Devil here is Naitik...😆 So I'm here to defend my Naitik.

For past 2-3 months we are watching same track and its on roller coaster ride right now. Different situations, Different people, Different reactions and Different opinions but that does not make one right and other wrong.

I've seen lot of views. From Akshara's POV,
Devyani's POV, Naman and Muskaan's POV even some from RB's POV...😆 but none or few from Naitik's POV.

Here I go...It all started with RB's remarriage which "Akshara" thought is the only solution for him. Hmmm...lets keep aside my views and purely go by what is shown. A year after G3's death RB got married cause he felt the need for companionship. Every member of the family agreed with Akshara's conviction and went ahead with it. Naitik was hesitant since beginning, he just agreed cause of Akshara's conviction and his trust in her. Devyani, was leaving all alone with her father. When marriage proposal came to her she gave it a thought and said yes. The probable reason for her saying yes is that she is all alone, old father, no one to look forward to or be with. She had no hopes of meeting her children in near future. This proposal gave her opportunity to be with a complete family. Though not blood related but are ready to accept her the way she is. I found this as a huge step taken by Singhania's. These very people didn't allow their 20 year young daughter in law to remove her pallu, they made faces for every damn small thing. The day they took the decision I was happy. I've seen very modern, educated family hesitate to even think such thing. The conservative Singhania's took this proud step.

Devyani faced some issues in adjusting to her new house and gave it back to BM when required... 👏 She started settling in, Singhania's started accepting her, Naitik was about to give in and bammm Akshara's abortion issue rattled everything and relations. One misunderstanding lead to another. Devyani and Naitik's relation took a set back. Naitik was wrong here for assuming without knowing the truth. He came to know the truth but by that time lot of water had already ran down the bridge. His ego and probably guilt was not allowing him to apologise. He was wrong and is still wrong with his behaviour towards Devyani.Naitik got to know about devyani's kids. He remained indifferent as he had no idea what happened between devyani and her ex husband. He didn't got himself involved. Perfectly fine from his position.

The hongkong trip drawn the family closer. Naitik's jail incident brought them closer as a family. Naitik was softening towards Devyani. And bammm Muskaan and naman came announced with all their boria bistar along... 😆 Whenever things started settling between Devyani, Singhania's and Naitik there comes a storm.

Naman and Muskaan coming to stay with their mother is not wrong but staying there without consideration of other family members is wrong. Had they informed the situation and their decision before coming to Singhania house then things and situation would have been different. There impulsive decision made things worse and true to singhania's style the panic button was pushed way too early. I'm not saying anyone is wrong in this but everyone in their position and situation is right. Yes, it is Devyani's house too but it is not only Devyani's house that her kids can walk in and out as per their whims and fancies. There are 5 more members who stay in that house and their life would also get affected cause of Naman and Muskaan so their decisions and opinions also matter. Everybody has faced bad consequences of lieing in this show. Whether it's Naitik or Akshara or anyone else. So why Naman and Muskaan be spared. Small lie big lie whatever it is a lie is a lie and nothing else.Tomorrow if they beat Naitik to stay with Devyani so will it be justified just because they are poor kids who stayed away from their mother ?

Singhania's have right to say no to Naman and Muskaan staying at Singhania house Permanently. They are neither singhania's nor were they part of their mother's marriage. If they were then singhania's or Naitik would have never objected.

Put yourself in Naitik's shoes and think. Would you allow someone whom you don't even know to stay in your house, in your life permanently all of a sudden without your concern? Would you start behaving normal with them when nothing is normal?

It's very easy as a third person to say accept Naman and Muskaan but it is equally difficult for the people involved. If we are giving leniency to naman for his ill manners coz of the situation then naitik and rashmi too deserve that leniency. Such situations and relations require ample time but Naman didn't gave them that.
I have all my empathy, sympathy with Devyani, Naman and Muskaan but sometimes think from Naitik's POV as well things would look different, perceptions would change.

Regarding Vish yesterday's dialogue for that I remember there is a saying in marathi " Shivaji janmala aayla pahije pan toh dusrya chya ghari" The meaning is shivaji should be born but at neighbours house. The actual meaning is things looks very easy when its happening to others but its difficult when you go through it yourself.

I'm not here to jugde anyone's opinion but I found this forum very one sided. So Me and Sam came to balance it out.

You can ignore my post. I'm not here to stay...lol

Cheers Ashi 😊

Originally posted by: Ashi_22

Hi this is Ashi...some of u might know me...I've lot to write...will be right back...:)

ashi u had to open new acc just to comment abt the ongoing situations tujhse bhi nhi raha gaya na... 😆

Originally posted by: saman.17

ashi u had to open new acc just to comment abt the ongoing situations tujhse bhi nhi raha gaya na... 😆

Sam, it's all coz of u... 🤢 😆 I left this forum, de-activated my id but u sucked me back in it...huhhh...lol

Happy to c old membes cmg n supporting naksh

Originally posted by: Ashi_22

Sam, it's all coz of u... 🤢 😆 I left this forum, de-activated my id but u sucked me back in it...huhhh...lol

U started asking me y all tis is happening so only I asked u to open a new acc & ask tem directly WTH is happening in the forum 😆

Sam, 2'0 clock in the night I read all these stuff. I was annoyed yaar...but you were the driving force to bring me here...lol

If I say anything wrong then Sam is the culprit... 😆