I don't think Naitik is wrong..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I personally don't think that Naitik's decision of shifting out of India is wrong. Corruption and lack of security and basic ammenities are a real problem in India. Wanting security and basic amenities for your family is not wrong.
I personally have lived my entire life in India (Noida) and never really felt safe out of home. I had to commute 2 hours to reach home in the evening and it was usually night by the time I reached home. Getting eve-teased in the bus on on the street was a daily occurance. When I reached home, I heaved a sigh of relief everyday that I reached home safely. My family advised to just ignore the eve-teasers and don't fight to avoid getting in a bad situation but I felt very bad. I could not afford driving a car to office and my husband's office was far and he reached home even later than me so he could not give me a lift. I could not even take an auto because there was a long stretch of road which was not crowded enough and there had been a couple of incidents where the auto-driver himself had kidnapped the lone passenger. So, I felt that taking the over-crowded over-flowing bus was better than taking the auto. Its better to get slightly molested than be kidnapped and raped. You know what I mean!! 😡😡😡😡😡
And, then 2 years earlier I shifted to US with my husband. I have never felt safer in my life. I have not come across a single eve-teaser. 😃 All amenities are there and I have not come across a single govt. official who asked for any kind of bribe even when I applied for our SSN, our licenses, EADs, my newborn daughters passport, birth-certificate. We video-chat with my family and my husband's family on a very regular basis. My parents and in-laws have been here for 6 month trips. We get all Indian food to eat here. We live in a non-Indian locality but we have more friends here who are ready to help when needed than we ever had in India. Even my mom-in-law who was not very happy with our decision to move here was so happy to meet all our caring friends that we have here. I don't miss anything in India except the festivals.
We dont get to celebrate Diwali and Holi here as well as we did in India as our friends (all Americans) dont know anything about them. But would I trade my security to be able to celebrate the festivals. NEVER!!! Should someone shift to America just because Christmas and Halloween are not celebrated with that much enthusiasm in India? No, right? Same way, I can't want to get eve-teased everyday to celebrate a few festivals.
Naitik wants to move to London because he has been shaken up by the riots and power-failure and corruption. I am not saying that America/London is heaven but its better than India in terms of security and value of human life.

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Ooolalala thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Exactly Bang on. Totally agree with you.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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but if ak not interested what he will do hope he dont leave ak and duggu and leave for london cant see any thing like that yaar

even sbb 17th aug part 2 they told big twist coming naksh should be together dont want to see nk in london and ak here
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kala_09

but if ak not interested what he will do hope he dont leave ak and duggu and leave for london cant see any thing like that yaar

even sbb 17th aug part 2 they told big twist coming naksh should be together dont want to see nk in london and ak here


what does this mean?naitik in london and akshi in india hai kya?😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: navya123


what does this mean?naitik in london and akshi in india hai kya?😕

no no navya its my view in the in sbb 17th aug they told that big twist coming and naksh may go to for abroad for some days but after seeing the epi ak dont wnat to go and all its my feeling what i felt naksh should be together hope nk dont go alone to london
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kala_09

no no navya its my view in the in sbb 17th aug they told that big twist coming and naksh may go to for abroad for some days but after seeing the epi ak dont wnat to go and all its my feeling what i felt naksh should be together hope nk dont go alone to london


i think RS Never spent lot of money for foreign trips,may be if karan in holiday then they show he went to london alone otherwise same drama will continue
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kala_09

no no navya its my view in the in sbb 17th aug they told that big twist coming and naksh may go to for abroad for some days but after seeing the epi ak dont wnat to go and all its my feeling what i felt naksh should be together hope nk dont go alone to london

he will not go alone, he plan to shift for his family safety
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Exactly...agree with ya 👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Naitik is not wrong he is right but Akshi also..
Hoping for Naitik decision may work😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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See we r not telling Naitik is wrong going to abroad but his reason because things r not proper in India thats wrong okay fine for instance we take he is right in doing so leaving something even without adjusting but why be selfish ? just thinking abt yourself and not abt ur parents and others who made him capable of what he is today ? Isnt his duty to make them understand ? In this whole act both Naitik and AKshara are being way kiddish both are like wow yest neither akshi bothered to talk nor did naitik .

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