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Posted: 13 years ago
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Guys I am making the topic after long time plzz bear with me
All of us saw the way Varsha is teaching Ananya to learn some thing or the other some times her name and all and if u remeber once she said Shourya about Ananya's classmate who tells about her parents names and she wants Ananya also to say like that and yesterdays epi also she behaved like that
Is it that much necessary to bring a 2 or 3 yrs kid into such a pressure to learn something every time? Is varsha correct in doing so?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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nice topic...😊

varsha is wrong...ananya is a 2 or 3 year old...har bache ka capability different hai...some kids learn fastly...some not...so forcing the kid is not the rite way...aaj kal tho we can see many mothers like varsha...according to my view varsha is completely wrong
Edited by ammu4u - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If handled Cv's can give good message to viewrs this is a common every where that education is become so important but varsha is wrong there many parents who keep child doing stuffs they want and not as per child ability
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Any mother wants their child to do well n progres in their lives and achieve success.😊 But the way that varsha is putting pressure on anayana is not right. A child has to develop slowly. 😊
Edited by -Ritu567- - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hello rachu...watevr dey r showing is d reality...nowadaz referring to d competition parenys tend to pressurise deir children to get 1st prize wich may lead to stress n even depression in children n for children of anu's age it may hamper deir mental n physical growth also...i feel children shud nt b pressurised evry child has his ability to learn n grasp things...n varsha here is doing very rong wid anu n today i feel shaurya was rite varsha wants to hear her praise also as varsha alwaz came 1stin cls so she wants her doter to cum 1st also...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Rachu 🤗
😃Great Post😃
I was wondering why no one mentioned anything about this. Varsha and her dumb tactics ANNOYS me!
She is over-doing it on a small little toddler.Can't even call her a child,she is too small to understand peer-pressure!Especially from her own mother. But then again Rachu,it happens,I am happy YR is showing realistic approaches to life.😉
Edited by _naksh_raz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nowdays there is so much comp that we want our child to learn fast, varsha is doing the same after knowing about ananyas class mates, she wants her child to come first and win prize hear her praise which parent dosnt want that but her approach is wrong cause every kids growth is diff some grasp it fast some learn slowly varsha shoudnt pressuirize ananya but teach her slowly and steadly shes a small kid and will eventually get there, if varsha carry's on the same approach ananya can have lack of self asteem and confidence when she grows up
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hello Rachu..🤗

i agree..
Varsha has gone insane..🤢
too bad, it's not her fault really.. people are like this.. knowingly/unknowingly Varsha has fallen into the trap of competition between the parents when it comes to their kids..
meri beti first aayi, my daughter, my son..

little do the parents realise that it's not possible for a child to do everything at one point of time and even more, to excel in everything they do..

she's wrong, but she's real.. she's still toned down when i compare to mothers near my place..
hope she sends across a good message.. for once, i want Maheshwari's to make Varsha realise that she's been doing wrong.. i don't want this track to end in a haphazard manner..😕

looking at Varsha, i tend to remember this Albert Einstein quote - don't know if it's relevant here, but still -

every child is a genius.. but if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will throughout it's life believe it's foolish..

so true it is..😃😃
applies to Ananya too i guess..😕😊
Edited by moonlight08 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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nice topic but i thing not to bear prssure on small kid
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Posted: 13 years ago
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it is the case of , if others are doing it so why not my child? people are trying hard to keeping up with the jones's kids.terrible for kids as an individual.

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