An afterthought.. - Page 14

Originally posted by: -.Shriya.-

naksh ko change kyun kia?? dats my big que!

cz pehle ka nd abhi ka age me same hi lagte hai! 😕

nyc post kaumu 😊

Awesome post Kaumudi and Pari.. 🤗 I totally relate to everything u guyz said.. 👏

But the point is "jo jitna dabta hai duniya usse utna hi dabati hai" 😕 akshi's character was always like that of a selfless girl who seeks her happiness with her family n serve their crap without uttering a word. So I don't blame g3 its akshi herself who invited all this mess in her life.. coz acc to me she shouldn't have given g3 any room for interference in hubby wife relation at first place 😡 so forget mother child relation .. its beyond my tolerance..

Now that its almost 1 year of my marriage I can suggest some healthier way to manage this stress called G3.. 😎 Since every individual is different there is no "one size fit all" solution to manage it 😆 so experiment with different techniques n strategies which helps us to reduce, prevent n cope with unwanted interference from others n leads to a BALANCED LIFE i.e., "jiya aur jine do" 😉

1) As pari said AVIOD: Best thing akshi can do is avoid G3 n also the amount of time spend with her' as it is her MAA jaap is leading her no way ..🤢 Instead she should change her priorities n concentrate on her munna 😳 n our beloved duggu.. ❤️

2) Learn to say NO.. acc to me every1 must know their limits n stick to them .. akshi must refuse to accept added responsibility when she cant handle them ' ( for god's sake there's no need to do MAATE GIRI every time n show her super women skills '🤪 )

3) Express ur feelings: If she cant avoid atleast she can express her feelings in open and respectful way..😛 i always felt that "COMMUNICATION " is lacking big time in YR be it in any relation' I mean if u don't raise ur voice n concern , resentment will keep building n situation will likely remain the same.🤔

4) Change ur Attitude: I think every relation needs some sort of compromise..👍🏼 if u ask some1 to change their behavior be willing to do the same.. a little bend from both the side will lead to happy middle ground.. 😃 ( in short akshi shld stop her MAHANTA right away )

5) Learn to forgive. Accept the fact that we live in an imperfect world and that people make mistakes. Let go of anger and resentments. Free yourself from negative energy by forgiving and moving on.👏 ( Only in this our MAATE excel n has achieved PHD 😆 to forgive n forget which is indeed very good in a way ) 😊

6) Don't Expect : Last but not the least stop piling up ur expectations - the root cause of all the problem..😕 do ur job n also at the same time take time for urself , fun n relaxation.. 😛

Originally posted by: Vertz

^^U hit d nail on d head Di!😛

Originally posted by: _vinita_

Awesome post Kaumudi and Pari.. 🤗 I totally relate to everything u guyz said.. 👏

But the point is "jo jitna dabta hai duniya usse utna hi dabati hai" 😕 akshi's character was always like that of a selfless girl who seeks her happiness with her family n serve their crap without uttering a word. So I don't blame g3 its akshi herself who invited all this mess in her life.. coz acc to me she shouldn't have given g3 any room for interference in hubby wife relation at first place 😡 so forget mother child relation .. its beyond my tolerance..

Now that its almost 1 year of my marriage I can suggest some healthier way to manage this stress called G3.. 😎 Since every individual is different there is no "one size fit all" solution to manage it 😆 so experiment with different techniques n strategies which helps us to reduce, prevent n cope with unwanted interference from others n leads to a BALANCED LIFE i.e., "jiya aur jine do" 😉

1) As pari said AVIOD: Best thing akshi can do is avoid G3 n also the amount of time spend with her' as it is her MAA jaap is leading her no way ..🤢 Instead she should change her priorities n concentrate on her munna 😳 n our beloved duggu.. ❤️

2) Learn to say NO.. acc to me every1 must know their limits n stick to them .. akshi must refuse to accept added responsibility when she cant handle them ' ( for god's sake there's no need to do MAATE GIRI every time n show her super women skills '🤪 )

3) Express ur feelings: If she cant avoid atleast she can express her feelings in open and respectful way..😛 i always felt that "COMMUNICATION " is lacking big time in YR be it in any relation' I mean if u don't raise ur voice n concern , resentment will keep building n situation will likely remain the same.🤔

4) Change ur Attitude: I think every relation needs some sort of compromise..👍🏼 if u ask some1 to change their behavior be willing to do the same.. a little bend from both the side will lead to happy middle ground.. 😃 ( in short akshi shld stop her MAHANTA right away )

5) Learn to forgiv vinie. Accept the fact that we live in an imperfect world and that people make mistakes. Let go of anger and resentments. Free yourself from negative energy by forgiving and moving on.👏 ( Only in this our MAATE excel n has achieved PHD 😆 to forgive n forget which is indeed very good in a way ) 😊

6) Don't Expect : Last but not the least stop ur expectations - the root cause of all the problem..😕 do ur job n also at the same time take time for urself , fun n relaxation.. 😛