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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Vertz


Yipee! M so glad that we ended this debate on a happy note!๐Ÿค—
It was fun debating with Kaumudi and u Di!๐Ÿ˜ƒ


same here vertikka ๐Ÿค— infact u sound some what like sari di ๐Ÿ˜› (i hope u knw here?? this is the best compliment i can give u ) ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 13 years ago
Chalo baba,
move to love and relationships..

vo bhi aise hi hone wala hai thodi der mein im sure..๐Ÿคฃ
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: _vinita_


same here vertikka ๐Ÿค— infact u sound some what like sari di ๐Ÿ˜› (i hope u kne here?? this is the best compliment i can give u ) ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜†


Of course I know...and m a huge fan of Sari Di! Miss her comments so much!๐Ÿ˜ƒ

OMG...nw that's a HUGE compliment! Though I know I hv got to go a long way to even think and express myslf d way Sari Di does!
Thnak You so much!๐Ÿค—
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Vertz

Kaumudi-

If u keep creating such thoughtful topics, I assure u I will!๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜†




Kaumu is rajdhani express ๐Ÿ˜† shez already up with new topic do comment there ..๐Ÿ˜ƒ i'll join later ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Posted: 13 years ago
meri itni tareef?๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž

๐Ÿคฃ
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: moonlight08

Chalo baba,

move to love and relationships..

vo bhi aise hi hone wala hai thodi der mein im sure..๐Ÿคฃ


ofcourse u know us sooo well naa ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿคฃ
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Vertz


Of course I know...and m a huge fan of Sari Di! Miss her comments so much!๐Ÿ˜ƒ

OMG...nw that's a HUGE compliment! Though I know I hv got to go a long way to even think and express myslf d way Sari Di does!
Thnak You so much!๐Ÿค—


u're most welcome ๐Ÿ˜ƒ yup me too miss her gyaan very badly ๐Ÿ˜ญ but we'r on through PMs ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜†
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Posted: 13 years ago
@ kaumu : see finally its 30 pages of meaningful discussion as u wanted ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ now plz no need for thanks ๐Ÿ˜Ž ๐Ÿคฃ
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: moonlight08

I know everybody's missing Harsh..๐Ÿ˜ญ im missing him too..๐Ÿ˜ญ he was such a cutie pie..๐Ÿ˜


Moving beyond Harsh and this new duggu, im thinking about the reason's which led to duggu change..๐Ÿ˜•

1. G3.. ๐Ÿ˜ก
when there are saas like her, you don't need to protect your child from any other EVIL stuff, this one's enough..๐Ÿ˜• i understand that G3 loves Duggu more than she loves Naitik - after all soot se zada pota pyaara hota hai, but this is going overboard now.. and worst part is, this happens in so many families in India.. grandparents in their love for the child, cross certain boundaries which they shouldn't..

here G3 is doing the same.. ghee shakkar ki choori khilana, itna heavy khana subah subah.. and to top it all, saying Naksh mota nahi hai..๐Ÿ˜ฒ sehat hai uski, is too much.. not even listening to let alone Akshara, even Naitik.. ๐Ÿ˜ฒ 'tum kuch samajhte nahi ho' - the dialogue she says - oh really? Duggu ke apne parents nahi samajhte toh kaun samajhta hai? you? my foot..๐Ÿคข

2. Akshara -
i don't blame G3 entirely for all this over chubbiness of Duggu.. Akshara is to be blamed equally.. she doesn't answer back G3, i can in a way accept that.. but not what she does beyond that.. talking to Duggu and saying Dadi loves you and she's right?๐Ÿ˜ฒ what nonsense? Can't she have a stand for her own baby atleast?๐Ÿ˜•

why doesn't Akshara realise that no matter how much G3 loves her grandson, it is her who has to raise her child afterall? G3 aaj hai kal nahi, but Akshara, she has to go a long way dammit.. why is she so overtly dependant on G3 even for issues concerning her own child?๐Ÿ˜•

i vividly remember Charu Di's words here, with grandparents around, you cannot say anything your child - baccha hai, jaane do.. hota rehta hai.. but it's upto you to decide where to draw the line..
Akshara, it's high time you have a backbone..
varna Duggu toh mumma's boy se dadi's boy toh ban hi chuka hai.. aur kya baaki hai?

P.S. credit for this thread goes to Pari Di a.k.a pari1508.. she was about to post this topic but she couldn't coz unhone ye do baar likha aur post dono baar delete ho gaya..๐Ÿ˜† the basic thought behind this post and the last line - of Duggu being a dadi's boy rather than Mumma's boy is her's..๐Ÿ˜ƒ


i know it's too late n i have very less time..

excuses -

naitik will not support her/blast at her for answering back MA
Gayitri will taunt her even more n blame her parents for her parvarish

see, this might happen but not everytime...worse case scenarios, whatz gonna happen? akshara will get kicked out? this will not happen in any situation !! so why fear ? if she exposed her weaknesses, she must learn to exploit others weaknesses too...what exactly is impossible here? akshara getting a backbone n handling a MIL like Gayitri is possible in many ways provided Akshara wants...my personal experience says that every person has weak points..they might handle few ppl n situations easily but not a specific few who they adore the most n dun want to lose them/hurt them...like ma-beta ka ma-beti ka or husband wife relation in general... Akshara-Gayitri , saas bahu ka rishta bhi aisa ho sakta hai , it's a classic n diff. example ๐Ÿ˜†


one possible way out is to discuss it with ur hubby...i'm always against gossiping n wife discussing petty issues with hubby coz 90% cases, it worsens the situation..but then he MUST know a few things which r troubling u a lot..so that if any problematic situation arises, then he knows why ur so upset n he may try to change it ! it does work out in cases where hubby is like naitik...๐Ÿ˜Š

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