A mother has full right

I am so angry right now guys. at yesterday epi everyone was suggesting names for the baby and when Akshara was trying to speak they did"nt let her. seriously what do they think of theirselves. i know they also love baby alot. but I think Akshara has a full right to spend time with her baby and to take care of her baby and to take all the decisions about her baby. she is the one who kept him in her womb for 9 months, who waited for her baby so much, who suffer each day with pain, who endure all pain during deleviry, who dreamed each day about her baby and they are doing this only with her.

i absolutely agree with you. that's like a common problem between joint families. whenever there's a baby in the house the mother is always sidelined as if she is only a so called mother. every religion, law, and society gives mother the first right on her baby. she is the one who gives birth, bear all the pain, and takes care of him/her. she should be the one who should choose a name or take any decision. others can give suggestions but the final call should be her only. unless she herself, with her own will, wants to give that right to someone then that is another thing. but until she wants to do anything for her baby nobody should have any kind of problems. parents, first then grandparents!!!!! also this is the time for the baby and the mother to bond with each other. they should spent most of the time 2gather. when i had my baby my mother-in-law chose the name for the baby but we all, including me, had decided that only daadi will choose the name for the first child. but if akshara has a problem then she should speak up now or it will get worse later on!

Originally posted by: sana4ever

i absolutely agree with you. that's like a common problem between joint families. whenever there's a baby in the house the mother is always sidelined as if she is only a so called mother. every religion, law, and society gives mother the first right on her baby. she is the one who gives birth, bear all the pain, and takes care of him/her. she should be the one who should choose a name or take any decision. others can give suggestions but the final call should be her only. unless she herself, with her own will, wants to give that right to someone then that is another thing. but until she wants to do anything for her baby nobody should have any kind of problems. parents, first then grandparents!!!!! also this is the time for the baby and the mother to bond with each other. they should spent most of the time 2gather. when i had my baby my mother-in-law chose the name for the baby but we all, including me, had decided that only daadi will choose the name for the first child. but if akshara has a problem then she should speak up now or it will get worse later on!

yes i agree with u r points Saraella, defenitly mother has full rights of baby, wat ever things mother only have all rights, afther than father and then grand mam and others

Originally posted by: kumarandils

yes i agree with u r points Saraella, defenitly mother has full rights of baby, wat ever things mother only have all rights, afther than father and then grand mam and others

in joint families they all hav right over the baby but they also hav to considers parents wish .but i think wohi hoga jo aksh chahe gi 😃

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I anticipated all these things like Bejan daruwallah does.😉

Akshara always adjusts and keeps peace in the family.

Now she has to live with it.

As for education and completing the degree. It is her parents fault to marry her off without completing the education. They did not care for her feelings then and they did not trust her then.