MB, Ashi, anamika, pari, moonlight, mahwishsolanki – Lagtha hai tum logo ne mera disclaimer nahi pada😕 I am not here to defend Naitik or bash Akshara. I wouldn't do that after a hiatus, come back & bash the characters from YR. I didn't want my intentions to be misconstrued, isliye I was hesitating to even post here. I may have moved on but I still care about the friendships I have made here, tabi tho I come here often🤗 I am just using this as a premise to discuss a real life situation.
What drew me to yest's episode was how close it was to reality. Believe me, aisa hota hai when you have busy lives😊 This happens in every marriage when a new arrival is expected. Like Charu said, in most cases it happens after the birth but here it's being shown a little too soon.
What Naitik was doing up until this point (staying home & taking care of her) is a rarity. Most people working for others do not have the luxury to stay home & take care of their wives. I am sure they all would love to coz it's their baby too😉 Like G3 said, who is the loser here? It's most definitely Naitik. Yes, I agreed w/G3 on this...😲 He is the one who cannot spend time with her; he is the one missing out on the pregnancy experience Not because he doesn't want to but he is forced to.
Case in point, Shaurya. How disappointed Shaurya was to not have witnessed his daughter's first step?😔 I really enjoyed Shaurya-Varsha yesterday. Similarly Naitik, I bet he would love to do all that Akshara was mentioning, go for a walk, have tea…..😳 jo bhi usko khush rakhne ke liye coz it's his baby too😍 The first thing he said to her was, why did you wait for me for dinner? Coz he really didn't want her to. Not because he doesn't care but he does care. He knows bhuke pet rehna uske liye accha nahi hai & he had assumed she had already eaten. Yes, the Naitik we know would have lied & eaten a second time😕
But let's give him the benefit of doubt just like we gave Akshara the benefit of doubt when she accused him of not wanting the baby. It was one bad day, the guy really was way too busy, raath ko baath karne ka mood bhi nahi tha… I have done that, bug him with trivialities when he was really tired & returned home late. I usually end up feeling like crap later on coz I know he really didn't mean to ignore me. Why was she thinking about RR-Bindiya?😕 Ek baar ignore kiya tho Naitik is like RR now?🤢 Why was she alarmed about Amrita?😕 Isn't that taking it too far? This is why I mentioned pura din letne se yahi hoga; mind wanders were it shouldn't be.
It's a give & take; we have to make some sacrifices to let the men in our lives get where they want to be. A little bit of understanding on our side is warranted to make that happen. Wouldn't she be proud of him when he resolves this crisis?
Yesm he was receiving other calls but to me it looked like they were all work related. They are having a crisis at work, dah…. Yes, bye bolne ke liye waqt nahi lagta but sometimes you take your spouse for granted; you expect them to understand There is that expectation that bina kuch bole tum samjo types. Hur baath ke liye you cannot hold the other person responsible; no shaadi's will survive. There are times when mental exhaustion takes over & I have committed the blunder of falling asleep while my husband was still saying something of importance to him. Not that I didn't care, but my body just shut off. I apologize the next day & he understands too. He does not make a big deal coz he knows I have had a rough day….😉
Will Naitik make it up to her when he finds time? I bet he would & then some…..😍
Face pack ke liye, TY My skin is glowing, yeh anda, tamatar combination does wonders😆 Maybe I should post more often……🤪 Here is the positive shameless side in me - shukr hai jhute nahi pade…..🤣
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