Is there more to it or is it just hormones? - Page 2

Originally posted by: madhaviben

Sari you are with post?😲 ok todays episode made you make post? i also thinking but other way😔. i saw so many married and preg. and everyone have time to atlest call ones and say bye. so i can bring my tamater and chaappal to you😆
i just did like that you rote was true. but we are here in usa and working woman. i think its diffrent when they are at home. i wasnt expecting natik to be spending time with akshi or going for walk. but at lest he should pick up her call or if he didnt have time then he should atlest call her back. and regarding work pressure we all have it man or woman at work but do we do that when we come home? i dont. or nither my hubby. we atlest give smile. and find time to call each other at lest after seeing miss call. i think i should stop now while i never experiance motherhood. but he was always with me in my low and my high. so i think i cant connect to my self with natik i felt for akshi. so do my hubby😆 he came home from work and complaining about naitik that how he can do that and how singhaninya again become poor and needed the loan😆
PS- sari dont mind but today i am at akshis side and if this happen in real life i am glad that i didnt have this problem.

as usual wonderful post sarita,👏.but i am fully agree with madavi in this matter😊.don't have much knowledge about pregancy hormonal changes as i am not entered that phase of life.The working women scenario is the same in india ,here also people are going to office till the last day of their pregancy.But here akshara is not expecting naithik to be with her for all the time,she wants only a call back or bye from her husband,like someone wrote he has the time to take every other call and have the time to go out for dinner,but doesn't have the time to call his preganant wife .i witnessed when my sister was pregant,whatever the mood swings she was going through one phone call from my brother in law make her happy and content, i think that assurance from husband may be needed.if it is not in pregancy also if we are low , some assurance like i am there with u kind gesture can lift our moods and make us happy.

What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around

This is what happens with akshara now😉 because she doesn't have anything to do so feeling low now BUT she should understand that Honeymoon period is over & real life is begin because as sari said in reality everyone have their responsibilities & priorities so husband is not always lovey dovey with u, I do understand that achanak se naitik doesn't have time to take call & smile that is weird but I guess CVs are certified weirdo so anything can happen in YR.

Akshi now needs naitik because she doesn't have any work in her hand & her maa is also busy in other work but since the Sneha story when has she ever planned anything special for him??? Or done anything out of the ordinary?

Pregnancy takes us on a roller coaster journey of emotions. I completely agree with you k we don't have anyone here to take care throughout the pregnancy & still we can manage personal & professional life, husband can't be us with all the time.

Somebody once told me relationships are made by chance but maintained by work.

Their relationship has a lot of unresolved issues left to deal with, as well as a lot of negative emotions. These can be resolved with love, time, truth and confrontation. Every marriage has it's ups and downs

Love comes when you show you care, are willing to give and take and know the other person's flaws but realize that its the flaws that makes that person unique, and is what attracts the other person. These two have a long road to travel to their sangam!

Originally posted by: Mahika84

What goes around, goes around, goes around
Comes all the way back around

This is what happens with akshara now😉 because she doesn't have anything to do so feeling low now BUT she should understand that Honeymoon period is over & real life is begin because as sari said in reality everyone have their responsibilities & priorities so husband is not always lovey dovey with u, I do understand that achanak se naitik doesn't have time to take call & smile that is weird but I guess CVs are certified weirdo so anything can happen in YR.

Akshi now needs naitik because she doesn't have any work in her hand & her maa is also busy in other work but since the Sneha story when has she ever planned anything special for him??? Or done anything out of the ordinary?

Pregnancy takes us on a roller coaster journey of emotions. I completely agree with you k we don't have anyone here to take care throughout the pregnancy & still we can manage personal & professional life, husband can't be us with all the time.

Somebody once told me relationships are made by chance but maintained by work.

Their relationship has a lot of unresolved issues left to deal with, as well as a lot of negative emotions. These can be resolved with love, time, truth and confrontation. Every marriage has it's ups and downs

Love comes when you show you care, are willing to give and take and know the other person's flaws but realize that its the flaws that makes that person unique, and is what attracts the other person. These two have a long road to travel to their sangam!

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Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

Haila!!!!😲 You are here for discussing YR..😲 YR toh dhanya hogaya aapne episode jo dekha...😆😆

Chalo straightaway coming to the topic of discussion...I agree with Madhavi Di more than you. So anda and tamatar thrown at you from me too...no chappals as you are my di...🤣Jokes apart lets become serious about the issue...

I think I was the only one who said after watching the promo that this track is going to make Naksh understand each others situation in a better way if executed properly by the CV's. Today Naitik is standing where Akshara was 2yrs back and Akshara is standing where Naitik was 2 yrs back. The situation is same just that positions has changed...

The problem is not that he is busy, we all in fact Akshara also understands it that he can't be home 24*7 with her and she is not even expecting him too .The bone of contention is his attitude towards her... his changed behavior...😔

• Is he the same Naitik who even after eating from outside ate with her??? 😕 He could have at least sat with her till she finished her dinner. He had enough time to eat Chinese with lukkha mohit but didn't have time to sit with her...😔

• Naitik is picking calls of all and sundry but he don't have time to pick Akshara's calls. I can't believe that he didn't find 2 mins from his busy schedule to call his wife back and inquire why she called??

• Come on dude your wife is pregnant, at home, there are two old ladies it might be some kind of emergency. At least pick the call and say that you are busy but no he chose to ignored it...

• In the night scene, When Akshara was speaking to Naitik abt the changes pregnancy has brought in her body and limited her movements the least he could have done is open his eyes and listen to her...😡 After all she was speaking abt her and their baby...but he was least interested in it and replied in one words w/o showing concern...😡 aur kitni aasani se boldiya that uske dimaag se nikal gaya that he had to accompany her for evening walks..

• The most hurtful thing was when Akshi kept her hand on his and what Naitik does?? He just removes her hand and turned other side to sleep. I mean what harm it could have caused him if he let her touch him... Naitik was the one who always initiated physical intimacy now what happened???😕 Few months back wasn't he the one who hold Akshara's hand even while she was sleeping...I thought his gesture was rude though unintentional but rude...

• Some says its communication issue . Akshara should speak to Naitik about her insecurities.When is Akshara suppose to speak with him?? 😕 Does he have time for her??? Din bhar office main hota hai...phone karo toh he doesn't pickup...ghar aaya toh he don't have min to spare. What is Akshara suppose to do??? Is Naitik that busy ke 2 min baith ke he can't talk to her?? She still tried talking to him in bed but then he was feeling too sleepy and tired...

Akshara is not asking Naitik to spend all his time with her. She just need that Assured hug. A smile and bye when he is leaving for office. She is contended with small small things in life nothing more. Is that too much to ask for from your busy husband??

Like Pari said in yesterday's discussion thread that We all blame aksh for not giving naitik time but does aksh ignored naitik(except that sweater scn) to the extent naitik is ignoring her now? My Answer is BIG "NO'

Just My views no offence to anyone...😊

sari di..👍🏼