Is Rajshri right??? - Page 2

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Who is right? Maine iska answer already de diya kal...😉 To me, both are mothers so does it really matter who announces it first? What is the big deal? If I were a guest in both places, would I care if RJ or G3 told me? Like always, G3 is just being G3! Hur kissi se problem...😡


First of all, I don't think it's a formal announcement at the M's. Yeh tho Fri wala precap to keep the viewers guessing😉 RJ ko kisine pucha hoga, aap nani kab ban rahi ho ya aisa hi kuch. So she may have just said, yes in 5 months! This scenario is totally plausible. M's have been cautious when it comes to the S's & most times even their slightest advances have been called interference. Before anybody jumps on me - let me be clear, I don't consider routine phone calls to a daughter(giving her advise) as interference where as jasoosi is🤢 G3 thinks it is! Well, then she is interfering in Rashmi's life too! Why should she tell her what to wear?


Even if it's an announcement, so what? RJ doesn't know G3's plans so she is not really doing a "me first" here. After 3 months, its considered safe to say it & she may have thought it's ok to tell their relatives. G3 wants it her way, jab chahe bulao & jab chahe distance karo😡 It doesn't work that way🤢 When you make them your own, call them family, RJ has the right to at least say she is after all becoming a nani, doesn't she? The real problem in G3's mind is all the RJ praise! Everyone going RJ, RJ...😆 Including her nalayak bhukad RB😆


Varsha's mom never interfered is what everyone would like to believe. CV's attempt to explore that mother-daughter relationship was half-hearted at best! So we never really know what Varsha's mom thought or if she wanted to have a dawat at her place. RJ announced that she was having it at her place & Varsha's mom just went along. Yes, RJ had to be nudged to do the right thing from time to time by dadi & she mostly obliged. However, G3 even if nudged won't budge...🤣Varsha does get treated as a daughter in that house, no questions on that one! I would forgive any minor galti's from RJ. These things happen in any relationship, Varsha really lucked out big time!


Why is Akshara making RJ feel guilty? Why can't she talk to G3 & say - yes, ma told our relatives👏 Dekthe hai zyada se zyada kya hoga? Bahu pur chilayegi, that she would do anyways😆 So at least she can tell what's on her mind, get it off her chest & fir daant kao...🤣 Can she do that for a change? At least try karke dekho, G3 may back off & may leave her alone. The former possible but latter, in your dreams Akshara😆


I know I am offending the TM 😉 & several other friends here but kabhi tho I want to see this girl stick up for her beliefs. I want to know what Akshara's beliefs are?😕 Two yrs of loyal viewing and I still don't know what she thinks😲 Sach mein this will be a wonderful track to explore, Akshara's changing views with her changing role from a girl to a mother. The kala-gora incident should have been a starter, defending your unborn!

Originally posted by: _charu_

I understand Sari, she's the mother of Akshara, at least for the girl, her mother means a lot..for her mil, girl's mother will NEVEr mean anything 😆 they call M's their family, yet, this was a mistake...Rajshri knows very well that right now, nobody knows ! and Singhania's should be the first ones to announce, if it has to be an announcement ! Akshara is somebody's DIL and they have the right to tell this news first, as they r equally exited...i think rajshri knows the importance of "me first" coz she's not modern like us..otherwise she won't be getting worried "maine kyun bol diya, ab kya hoga " 🤢...it's a personal view as to how they should manage their relations after marriage...in real life, girls do give more preference to their mothers which is never acceptable to ANY MIL...few of them take out their anger on their dil's, few complain, few remain quite and tolerate ...yes, Gayitri's attitude was and is wrong ! w/o fail, she never shows any maturity ! rajshri will snub varsha's mother, gayitri will do the same with rajshri and rama behen will repeat it with gayitri ! but none of them will understand 🤢 they have good dil's unki thodi si kadar kar lo 😡😆 everything else should be secondary !

everybody is interfering (except bma😆) bec. their daughters r letting them to...rashmi is the smartest one who's replying well to her mom 😆 gayitri deserves that ! care is okay, tension bhi theek hai, pyar bhi hai, but why create trouble for your daughter when rajshri knows her in laws don't like it ??? rajshri will say something, gayitri kuch aur, who will akshara listen to? this is the nth time..

I agree with u.but i don't find RJ totally wrong.she is also becoming nani,3 months is completed,she can share this happy news with her relatives,so wat's g3's problem here.even i didn't understand one thing are relatives of S's and M's same?.i don't hink so,then wat's the problem here?.why they r making small issue a big one?.
of course, knowing singhanias's hypocracy nature,esp's jaleli's nature,RJ shud have given a thought and asked before akshi before sharing the news.
both these mothers r too much for me to bardaash.both want to have control over daughter as well as their DILs.i think it's naksh who has to put border for elders to interfere in their life.naitik does,but akshi won't,as a result always so much of problems in their life.😔

Originally posted by: _charu_

I understand Sari, she's the mother of Akshara, at least for the girl, her mother means a lot..for her mil, girl's mother will NEVEr mean anything 😆 they call M's their family, yet, this was a mistake...Rajshri knows very well that right now, nobody knows ! and Singhania's should be the first ones to announce, if it has to be an announcement ! Akshara is somebody's DIL and they have the right to tell this news first, as they r equally exited...i think rajshri knows the importance of "me first" coz she's not modern like us..otherwise she won't be getting worried "maine kyun bol diya, ab kya hoga " 🤢...it's a personal view as to how they should manage their relations after marriage...in real life, girls do give more preference to their mothers which is never acceptable to ANY MIL...few of them take out their anger on their dil's, few complain, few remain quite and tolerate ...yes, Gayitri's attitude was and is wrong ! w/o fail, she never shows any maturity ! rajshri will snub varsha's mother, gayitri will do the same with rajshri and rama behen will repeat it with gayitri ! but none of them will understand 🤢 they have good dil's unki thodi si kadar kar lo 😡😆 everything else should be secondary !

everybody is interfering (except bma😆) bec. their daughters r letting them to...rashmi is the smartest one who's replying well to her mom 😆 gayitri deserves that ! care is okay, tension bhi theek hai, pyar bhi hai, but why create trouble for your daughter when rajshri knows her in laws don't like it ??? rajshri will say something, gayitri kuch aur, who will akshara listen to? this is the nth time..

G3 jo karna hai kare but as a matter of principle she should then keep a respectable distance from the M's. G3 wants to have the cake & eat it too! She famously announces, dono ma ka pyaar mila...🤢 Yeh dikhava kyun? Full on be negative, that is the G3 I like & respect coz she goes by her beliefs kitna hi galat kyun na ho but taking advantage when it suits you is what I detest😡


I don't think RJ's was an announcement. G3 volunteered info to Rama ben, kyun?
She previously screamed at Rashmi for saying it to Nikhilji🤢 Kyun? If Rashmi says it's wrong but she says it's ok😕 Agreed tab unki shadi nahi huyi thi but rishta tho hua tha na? Akshara can't say it to her best friend either?😕 Tho pregnancy ki announcement ki copyright sirf G3 ki hai? Shouldn't it be DJ's privilege then not G3's? Shouldn't they wait for his return for the announcement?😕 Agar parampara hi follow karna hai tho strictly follow karo, I have no problems viewing that. But this 2 faced G3...😡


I don't think RJ realized it was wrong until Akshara pointed it out. She wasn't aware of G3's announcement wali baath coz nobody cared to tell them😕 If she had known that fact, she wouldn't dare for sure...🤣 Woh bhi Chandalika se utna hi darthi hai jitna Akshara...😆 The S's are busy pointing fingers over the BV issue; tho puja kis liye rakhi hai woh bhi batana bhul gaye Ab BV issue mein bhi koyi tradition nikalenge to blame the M's🤢


At least Munna get's the M's & stopped the never ending sorry streak Aur kitne sorry's will bring a smile on the faces of the rest of the S's?😕

' they have good dil's unki thodi si kadar kar lo 😡😆 everything else should be secondary ! '

Charu you said it so correct. kadar karo😃 ye janam me to hone se raha. but i loved everyones . but today Sari i think what charu said is what i felt. may be because we both live in joint familys. but as today i like the part everyone is right and everyone's view is diffrent but i think no one is at fault but i think akshi in the end will be the one will be hearing all the tanans form g3😡. and as of know i realy want DJ to come back while g3 ab khule sandh ke jaise ho gayi hai lagam ke liye dj ki jarurat hai and ab to RB bhi g3 ke saath 🤢. i loved the way naitik talk to the M's . SSke pagal khandan main ye kaise paida ho gaya?😆. but at the realy i think its high time SS kadar kare akshi and her family ki.

for me its impossible 2 tolerate such nonsense from elders whether its my family or my in laws it hardly matters. n i wud never stand mil like g3 especially wen i hv hubby like naitik if nt say sth will never stop him.

Originally posted by: beautiful16

badhiya post hai ashi... i really wanted answer for ths, lets c how we all feel abt it... i already said ystrday tat i dont feel cong is wrong... kya galti hai uski??? varsha k time uski maa ko intrst hi nahi tha batane mein... woh toh bade maze se aayi thi puja mein ashirwaad dene... not evn for once she said i'll keep a puja for her... so i guess cong ko galat bolne ka sawal nahi paida hota... haan many a times she has shown selfishness uske liye gaaliyan kha chuki hai...😆
bt ths time specially she spoke to g3 abt the puja... both r excited & didnt let each other knw their plans... tat was their mistake... bt cong as akshara's mother has equal rights to announce ths good news to her guests... ek baat jo mere samajh nahi aati woh yeh hai k dono parivar k mehmaan aur rishtedar ek kaise ho gaye????? 😕

i agree to charu tat koi bhi aise announce nahi karta, only after baby is born people keep a function... bt yeh log ki parampara sabse hatke hai...😳

This what i was thinking as soon as i saw the precap...its quite confusing😕 golmal hai bhai sab golmaal hai😆😆😆

regarding rajshri and gayatri, i think on this situation both should be able to tell people,gayatri is gona be dadi for the first time and rajshri is going to to be a nani for the first time,and akshara is rajshri's only daughter as is naitik gayatri's only son..i think they both should have been clear on the phone,gayatri was more worried that both pujas were on the same day.
I feel akashara needs to speak up against gayatri,see she's ok with gayatri being rude to her mum and she never says anything to her where as naitik was angry that akshi wasnt spending time with him due to her mum and that time she spoke up and told naitik that she was unhappy with the way he thinks of her mum...she should do the same to gayatri i would not tolertate anyone taking to my mum the way gayatri speaks to rajshri sometimes.

The answer is simple if G3 wanted to do it in a grand way then she should have called akshra's family and explained it to them so they didnt tell anybody. Rajeshri didnt know anything so she told people. Although, it makes no sense to announce pregnancy like when she starts showing everybody will know so why do it like this. Plus if it was my first baby i would wanna tell people with my husband and not let my mother in law do it in a grand way. Like if she wants to tell people causally that is fine but who sets a party just to announce pregnancy. And how is rajeshri supposed to know of her plans she probably just told people causally

Originally posted by: --Sari--

G3 jo karna hai kare but as a matter of principle she should then keep a respectable distance from the M's. G3 wants to have the cake & eat it too! She famously announces, dono ma ka pyaar mila...🤢 Yeh dikhava kyun? Full on be negative, that is the G3 I like & respect coz she goes by her beliefs kitna hi galat kyun na ho but taking advantage when it suits you is what I detest😡


I don't think RJ's was an announcement. G3 volunteered info to Rama ben, kyun?
She previously screamed at Rashmi for saying it to Nikhilji🤢 Kyun? If Rashmi says it's wrong but she says it's ok😕 Agreed tab unki shadi nahi huyi thi but rishta tho hua tha na? Akshara can't say it to her best friend either?😕 Tho pregnancy ki announcement ki copyright sirf G3 ki hai? Shouldn't it be DJ's privilege then not G3's? Shouldn't they wait for his return for the announcement?😕 Agar parampara hi follow karna hai tho strictly follow karo, I have no problems viewing that. But this 2 faced G3...😡


I don't think RJ realized it was wrong until Akshara pointed it out. She wasn't aware of G3's announcement wali baath coz nobody cared to tell them😕 If she had known that fact, she wouldn't dare for sure...🤣 Woh bhi Chandalika se utna hi darthi hai jitna Akshara...😆 The S's are busy pointing fingers over the BV issue; tho puja kis liye rakhi hai woh bhi batana bhul gaye Ab BV issue mein bhi koyi tradition nikalenge to blame the M's🤢


At least Munna get's the M's & stopped the never ending sorry streak Aur kitne sorry's will bring a smile on the faces of the rest of the S's?😕

main main logon ko nahi bata sakti bas isabko kya zarurat hai batane ki gayatri ko...😡rj ki to baat hi alag hai mana use khushi hai but hamesha sabse pehle kaam karne ki kya machti hai use ek baar puch to lena chaiye tha naksh se...🤢

this is jsut another drama of the creatives, they have no other storyline to show , both raja & gaya keep 4getting they have daughters when they take decisions regarding their dils' its like the dils have no mind of their own but def varsha is in a better state coz there dadi is there so put sense into raja head & stop her b4 seh goes overboard.
despite having 2 daughters at home gaya acts like this, so she totally deserves the way rashmi has started ignoring her wishes & listens only to her mother in law. gaya expects aksh to listen only to her so why the shock when rashmi wears clothes her mil prefers.