Is Rajshri right???

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Posted: 13 years ago

The First thing that I don't understand is why they are announcing the pregnancy??? Is getting pregnant or becoming Grand Parent some kind of achievement ???😕 I know that this is a happy moment in their life and they want to share this good news but announcing it in the party...😲 I have never heard or seen this except in case of celebrities...😆

Coming to the point of... Who has more rights over Grand Child...Maternal Grand Parents or Paternal Grand Parents??? Well, I believe both sets of Grand Parents have equal right over the Grand Child. My parents have taught me to treat both of them equally isiliye main dono ki bhi nahi sunti...😆 Just kidding. On a more serious note, I have seen there is always a hidden competition between Grand Parents when it comes to their Grand Child. They will never show it openly but it is always there specially when your parents are only child.They are not evil to each other but there is always one-upmanship...😆 No matter how much we talk about equality but the truth is that child uses his/her father's surname so it indirectly gives more rights to paternal grand parents...its sad but its true...

Lets come to Rajshri beating Gayatri in announcing Akshara's pregnancy competition and hence becoming Me First...🤣

I agree Rajshri has a right to tell people about her daughter being pregnant but then Varsha's mom also had the same right during Varsha's pregnancy. why at that time everything was done according to Rajshri's whims and fancies????🤔 She never allowed Varsha's mom to interfere and to Varsha's mom credit she never tried to...👍🏼 Rajshri is like chitt bhi meri aur patt bhi meri...When it comes to Varsha...I have every right to take the decision as she is my D-I-L and when its comes to Akshara...Don't I have any right as mother of Akshara???😭😆

This is Gayatri's first Grand child so she is bound to be excited about this just the way Rajshri was during Ananya...Rajshri should have understood this better...😔

Rajshri very well knows Gayatri's nature...How dominating, aggressive and possessive she is about Naksh and anything related to them...🤢 then Why create a situation of aa bail mujhe maarr...

Gayatri Always said it clearly to Rajshri that when it comes to Akshara's pregnancy she is the one who is going to take the decision ( Singhania's are one selfish family they use and throw maheshwari's as per their will...😭)

The current situation they are in where Singhania's are upset with them regarding Balika Vidyalay so she should have been little careful considering the egoistic and selfcentric nature of singhania clan. It would have been better if she had consulted with Akshara before opening her mouth.

I think Rajshri is not completely wrong as she is also excited about this good news and we can give her benefit of doubt that in excitement she must have spoken but she is not completely right either considering the past incidences with regards to singhania's and her behavior towards varsha's mom during varsha's pregnancy.

This might not be an issue for people like us but in YRKKH it is going to become a BIG ISSUE which might create rift between two families and relations might turn sour...

No offence intended towards anyone...these are just my views...😃 You can agree or agree to disagree...😆

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Divya

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Posted: 13 years ago

Yayyy.. Me first..

Madhavi di.. Sari di.. Avika.. Vini.. Ashi u.. n now Sachi.. 😛 🤣

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Will edit after reading.. 😉 😃

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Charu

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Posted: 13 years ago

well, i think it;s really foolish on Rajshri's part to do such a thing...firstly, nobody announces the pregnancy, doing pooja havan is fine...but i never heard anyone doing anything like this for one simple reason..the miscarriage can happen in any month or even after delivery any mishap can happen...is tarah sabki nazar mein aa jaate hai and it's not considered good ! only after the child grows 40 days old , therez a special ceremony or formal announcement like distributing sweets etc. after the child is born !

as far as who should do it, if therez a formal announcement party in their clan (may be as a tradition), then it should be Gayitri who should be doing it...i dun wanna discuss distinction b/w ladki and ladke wale..boy's mom and girl's mom, it's too boring...our views r diff. from what happens in YR..none of them cud open their mouth n tell rajshri or anyone that evening pooja mein akshara ki pregnancy announce honi hai 🤢 at least if gayitri is inviting, also tell them the reason why pooja is kept...itni bakwas toh by god kisi serial mein nahi dekha ! 🤢 aisa lagta hai i'm watching a family video..people waking up, going here n there, eating, gossiping and faltu ghatiya baaton par tension...they can afford to do it bec. they dun have to worry for their bread and butter or whats happening in this world..bas ye chinta hai ke rajshri behen ki taareef ho gayi, and woh log kya sochenge 🤢 sick n tired..3 days se nahi dekha Y R , hurray ! bas update padha tha 😆

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Adhervika

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree with you ashi...

Rajshri always want that things are done to be as per her wishes...when it was clear that akshara is pregnant then it was obvious ki naitik uske saath checkup ke liye jaayega so what's the use of rajshri and varsha to come along...

yes, it's true that more right credit is given to the paternal grand parents...but on the other hand that doesn't mean that matenal grand parents doesn't have any right on the child...

BUt yes rajshri has to be more consious regarding akshara's matter coz akshara is her daughter aur gay3 is going to be a grand mother for the first tym and she also wants to share this news with everybody...but kya reality mein aisa hota hai..😕 ( as jab meri bhabhi pregnant thi meri aunt ne kisi ko bhi nahi bataya tha aur ye kaha tha ki is baat ka dhindhora pitne ki kya jarurat hai as kuch din baad toh sabko pata chal hi jaayega...) same in the case of akshara ki kuch din baad jab akshara ka baby bump aayega tab sabko pata chal jaayega...😆😆

or on the other side rajshri ne varsha ki mom ko koi importance nai di thi infact when varsha went to her maayake during her pregnany rajhsri use wapis le aayi thi...but she want ki akshara uske saath kuch din rahe...why...then...jab usne varsha ko nahi rehne nahi diya toh wo akshara ke saath kyun rehna chahti hai just because she is the only daughter of her...😕

On the other hand gay3 is also have to understand ki agar rajshri ne ye baat announce kar di toh koi problem nahi hai as wo bhi nani banne wali hai and there is no need toh get mad on akshara ki sabko kaise pata chala...

in current situation main bhi itna hi keh sakti hoon ki gay3 wants everything according to her wish and Rajshri wants according to her and beech mein phas rahe hai Naksh...

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Rimjhim

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Posted: 13 years ago

Pata nahi yaar, right now joh hogaya, that has happened, and akshara's MIL should try and accept that and not overreact.

However rajshri should have been more careful, afterall they have given there daughter to someone else now and they should be the one's with the first right. :D

actually i know, maybe akshara and naitik had the first right, it is there child😃

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Mini

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Posted: 13 years ago

According to me there are pros and concerns in announcing pregnancy. Sharing the joyous news of the pregnancy is a very personal decision. Some choose to share the good news early and often. They. The other extreme is to tell no one.

This group may also wait to tell until they have reached a predetermined point in their pregnancy. Both sides of this coin have a point. But as you said RJ should have been more careful in announcing the akshi's pregnancy. COZ it's their daughter's life and they should know as you said gayathri being dominant egoistic and this incident definitely going to create a problem between the two problems.

Yes I agree both grandmothers have equal rights but once the girls got married only in-laws side the society will give more importance as in varsha's case as we all know it's does mean that Rj has no rights in announcing akshi's pregnancy .

Since naitik is the only son in the singhaniya's family they are too excited in announcing the news as they were too worried in akshi's previous MC. Some in laws think that announcing the pregnancy in the biggest achievement in life and they never care about the couple's feelings wheather they like it or not. Just to show off to they are doing this. (In some part of south till now they celebrate this function during their fourth month).But did anybody both Gayathri and RJ ask permission from naksh. (But gayathri informed about this to akshi but she never cared about naksh feelings.

These elders always decide on their own and always there is a tough competition between these gayathri and RJ coz of too much concerns. Personally I believe that, gayathri and RJ can't hold the excitement well, and they want to shout it out immediately! lol. 😆

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Anu

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Posted: 13 years ago

Yeah agree with u yaar...

Problem started..

No one is ri8 here...

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preksha

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Posted: 13 years ago

Well firstly pregnancy koi aisi baat nahi ki u need to announce for instance bindya her MIL never informed gaya3 itself abt bindaya being pregnant so i dont think one needs to announce it this way
coming to Rj well she does have happiness but it would hv been better if she had asked akshi before announcing

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--Sari--

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Posted: 13 years ago

Who is right? Maine iska answer already de diya kal...😉 To me, both are mothers so does it really matter who announces it first? What is the big deal? If I were a guest in both places, would I care if RJ or G3 told me? Like always, G3 is just being G3! Hur kissi se problem...😡

First of all, I don't think it's a formal announcement at the M's. Yeh tho Fri wala precap to keep the viewers guessing😉 RJ ko kisine pucha hoga, aap nani kab ban rahi ho ya aisa hi kuch. So she may have just said, yes in 5 months! This scenario is totally plausible. M's have been cautious when it comes to the S's & most times even their slightest advances have been called interference. Before anybody jumps on me - let me be clear, I don't consider routine phone calls to a daughter(giving her advise) as interference where as jasoosi is🤢 G3 thinks it is! Well, then she is interfering in Rashmi's life too! Why should she tell her what to wear?

Even if it's an announcement, so what? RJ doesn't know G3's plans so she is not really doing a "me first" here. After 3 months, its considered safe to say it & she may have thought it's ok to tell their relatives. Unke interference se itna hi problem hai tho G3 should not expect any help from them ever😡 G3 wants it her way, jab chahe bulao & jab chahe distance karo😡 It doesn't work that way🤢 When you make them your own, call them family, RJ has the right to at least say she is after all becoming a nani, doesn't she? The real problem in G3's mind is all the RJ praise! Everyone going RJ, RJ...😆 Including her nalayak bhukad RB😆

Varsha's mom never interfered is what everyone would like to believe. CV's attempt to explore that mother-daughter relationship was half-hearted at best! So we never really know what Varsha's mom thought or if she wanted to have a dawat at her place. RJ announced that she was having it at her place & Varsha's mom just went along. Yes, RJ had to be nudged to do the right thing from time to time by dadi & she mostly obliged. However, G3 even if nudged won't budge...🤣Varsha does get treated as a daughter in that house, no questions on that one! I would forgive any minor galti's from RJ. These things happen in any relationship, Varsha really lucked out big time!

Why is Akshara making RJ feel guilty? Why can't she talk to G3 & say - yes, ma told our relatives👏 Dekthe hai zyada se zyada kya hoga? Bahu pur chilayegi, that she would do anyways😆 So at least she can tell what's on her mind, get it off her chest & fir daant kao...🤣 Can she do that for a change? At least try karke dekho, G3 may back off & may leave her alone. The former possible but latter😲 In your dreams, Akshara😆

I know I may be offending the TM 😉 & several other friends here but kabhi tho I want to see this girl stick up for her beliefs. I want to know what Akshara's beliefs are?😕 Two yrs of loyal viewing and I still don't know what she thinks😲 Sach mein this will be a wonderful track to explore, Akshara's changing views with her changing role from a girl to a mother. The kala-gora incident should have been a starter, defending your unborn!

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sabi

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Posted: 13 years ago

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badhiya post hai ashi... i really wanted answer for ths, lets c how we all feel abt it... i already said ystrday tat i dont feel cong is wrong... kya galti hai uski??? varsha k time uski maa ko intrst hi nahi tha batane mein... woh toh bade maze se aayi thi puja mein ashirwaad dene... not evn for once she said i'll keep a puja for her... so i guess cong ko galat bolne ka sawal nahi paida hota... haan many a times she has shown selfishness uske liye gaaliyan kha chuki hai...😆
bt ths time specially she spoke to g3 abt the puja... both r excited & didnt let each other knw their plans... tat was their mistake... bt cong as akshara's mother has equal rights to announce ths good news to her guests... ek baat jo mere samajh nahi aati woh yeh hai k dono parivar k mehmaan aur rishtedar ek kaise ho gaye????? 😕

i agree to charu tat koi bhi aise announce nahi karta, only after baby is born people keep a function... bt yeh log ki parampara sabse hatke hai...😳

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