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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: divi4u



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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: madhaviben


<font color="#cc0000"><font size="3">Thanks Ashi for doing this. i love you👏🤗👍🏼. <font size="2">
i wanted to say this last 3 days but you know naa i dont want to take the first stap , Vini nahi hai to tune mujeh sahara diya thanks a lot.
i was agree with each and every point with you and Divi . G3 and Naitik is doing to much. i want to say a lot but have to run to work will be back and post my view but remamber i am your and AKSHARS side today⭐️😃
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So sweet of you Madhavi Di... 🤗 wl be waiting for your views.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

Oye Vini I am stepping into your shoes. I will try to defend Akshara in your absense...its difficult but worth a try...😆 I'm swimming against the tide..wish me luck my frnds that I don't fall down this waterfall.

Chalo lets start...For past few days I am reading lot of post blaming Akshara for interfering...its nothing new but this time I dont think she is wrong... Few weeks back when wedding preparations were started all the responsibilty for Rashmi's marriage was given to Akshara...from clothes to jewellery...from halwai to decorations almost everything.She was even blamed for negligence towards preparation.Then Rashmi did chupke se engagement and there comes the twist in the tale. Singhanias visited Deoras to prepone the date and there they came to know all these nataks...about planners n that Deoras are very rich, modern n different from them...😕 Here entered the male version of Rajshri...Mr. Naitik singhania (I really love Naitik but he is definitely behaving like rajshri these days)... G3 has already superseded Rajshri in taking tension and hyper reaction...🤢 G3 and Naitik wants to show the outside ppl that they are no less to Deora's in status and so they want to spend a lot on the wedding...Will both of them go to any lenght to show off??? So whats the diff between them and rituraj...😕 Chalo Lets comeback to Akshara...

I already mentioned in one of my post About rights and responsibility...I think they are two sides of a coin. With every right comes a responsibility and vice-versa. Akshara is using this right of hers...cause she was given the responsibilty for ring and clothes. She is putting forward her POV and I dont find anything wrong in that.If Akshara can't share her views then its better to tell her not to be a part of that discussions...coz as a member she should be having an equal right in everything...😃 In a group discussions where several members are taking part, there will be several views...we cant say that they are interfering...
  • Ring Incident - Gayatri and Naitik wanted designer ring for Nikhil only when they got to know about Deora's spending a lot on marriage before that they were Ok with whatever they were giving to Nikhil. Akshara agreed with DJ about the ring..it was her opinion. If naitik-G3 felt so strong about buying the designer ring they should have gone ahead and bought it...instead of cribbing later on.
  • Sarees/Clothes - First the lehenga for ring ceremony was changed...Akshara has taken effort to get that lehenga ready on time for the ceremony and G3 didn't have enough courtesy to tell Akshara that she has bought designer lehenga for Rashmi. Akshara has every right to ask G3 for sudden change. I wont call this interference on part of Akshara.Second the yesterday's incident...what was that??? Gayatri want to change the whole wardrobe of Rashmi just cause her saas is gifting her with expensive stuff...😕 The whole lot of sarees which they got it done from kunwarsa...holds no importance now infront of designer ones. Lot of hue and cry was made by G3 for the boluses of these same sarees. Akshara was just explaining to G3 that instead of price they should look at the quality and look of the saree...but now Gayatri will buy any chindi saree if its price tag is Rs.25000 or more...🤢
Agreed Gayatri and Naitik want everything best for Rashmi's wedding...but they are behaving as if they are into some kind of competition with Deora's and Akshara is just reminding them that it is wedding afterall and not some kind of race.
This is my opinion. People can agree or disagree. But plzzz no bashing...😊


Sorry Asawari, can't agree with u 😆

interference complaint was with reference to Bindiya-RR, not ring, decorations or halwai. that's her POV and it's totally daddaji type thinking, that's what gayitri said..otherwise what's the problem in engaging a chef who can cook diff. cuisines? daddaji's parampara will not break if they serve chinese or italian ! when a 20 something girl says this, it looks odd coz she too loves chinese food, and on her wedding also, chinese was served. if she feels so strongly about this show off thing, then she should have lectured her father first and not spend so much money on her wedding...gayitri can throw or burn the money , it's her money, it's her daughter's wedding...yes, maate can complain that MY selection was rejected, which she will never do...yes, even i don't like show off but daddaji's parampara, and akshara's whatever will not be hurt if carnations are used instead of genda phool and chinese and pasta is served..nobody will force daddaji and akshara to have it, but if the guests like it then why not? it's natural to get worried, naitik wants the best for his sister's wedding, what's the problem in it? in my knowledge, naitik never blamed akshara for the preparations, nor did any of his family member...infact everyone praised her..it was daddaji's decision and akshara seconded it..that's it...

as for saarees, rashmi has to wear it, whether she buys it from mall or kunwarsa, it should be her choice...therez no need for ma ye ma woh...why is akshara so much concerned? bec. money is being wasted or time? her MA will do everything na

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_

Sorry Asawari, can't agree with u 😆

interference complaint was with reference to Bindiya-RR, not ring, decorations or halwai. that's her POV and it's totally daddaji type thinking, that's what gayitri said..otherwise what's the problem in engaging a chef who can cook diff. cuisines? daddaji's parampara will not break if they serve chinese or italian ! when a 20 something girl says this, it looks odd coz she too loves chinese food, and on her wedding also, chinese was served. if she feels so strongly about this show off thing, then she should have lectured her father first and not spend so much money on her wedding...gayitri can throw or burn the money , it's her money, it's her daughter's wedding...yes, maate can complain that MY selection was rejected, which she will never do...yes, even i don't like show off but daddaji's parampara, and akshara's whatever will not be hurt if carnations are used instead of genda phool and chinese and pasta is served..nobody will force daddaji and akshara to have it, but if the guests like it then why not? it's natural to get worried, naitik wants the best for his sister's wedding, what's the problem in it? in my knowledge, naitik never blamed akshara for the preparations, nor did any of his family member...infact everyone praised her..it was daddaji's decision and akshara seconded it..that's it...

as for saarees, rashmi has to wear it, whether she buys it from mall or kunwarsa, it should be her choice...therez no need for ma ye ma woh...why is akshara so much concerned? bec. money is being wasted or time? her MA will do everything na

No need to say sorry charu Di...😃 Before posting my views I knew it...you won't agree to my post...😆 Interference reference was not about your post but there are some ppl who think that akshara expressing her opinion is kind of interference.
Agreed that Naitik and G3 has more rights to decide whats good for wedding...but akshara being a part of the family has a right to say even if she sounds like DJ...

otherwise what's the problem in engaging a chef who can cook diff. cuisines? daddaji's parampara will not break if they serve chinese or italian ! when a 20 something girl says this, it looks odd coz she too loves chinese food, and on her wedding also, chinese was served. if she feels so strongly about this show off thing, then she should have lectured her father first and not spend so much money on her wedding...

Agree with you that there should not be any problem in engaging a chef who can cook diff. cuisines but does that guarantee a completely satisfied guest??? what if guest want to have some meat will they tell the chef to cook the same???
Yes...Akshara loves chinese and on her wedding it was served...but her father never arranged it to showoff singhania's...it was there because his daughter liked it. Over here they want chef to show deora's and their guest that they can also arrange variety of food...has anyone bother to ask what rashmi wants??? M's spent the money where it was neccessry.Someone pointed out in one of the post that Akshara never objected chartering plane...I went and saw that episode again and I will say that she did but her father replied that it was neccessary as DJ preponed the date and it is impossible to arrange tickets for all the guest at nth hour.

gayitri can throw or burn the money , it's her money, it's her daughter's wedding...

I don't think Akshara has problem with them spending money...but the reason behind spending it. They are not spending cause they want to...they are doing so cause Deoras are spending and Naitik- G3 don't want to be left behind. Its some kind of race for them where they want to finish at top.

yes, maate can complain that MY selection was rejected, which she will never do...

Completely agree with you on this point...Akshara will never complain.

it's natural to get worried, naitik wants the best for his sister's wedding, what's the problem in it?

After visiting Deora's Naitik remembered that he wants best for his sister before that he was happy with the preparations. There is nothing wrong in spending money but it clicked to him when he saw rashmi's in-laws spending it. He just don't want to be left behind in this race of showing off. I remember in one episode when Akshara suggested FD for Rashmi...Naitik said that logon ko woh dekhta nahin hai. Is he spending money for Rashmi's happiness or logon ko dekhane ke liye????

in my knowledge, naitik never blamed akshara for the preparations, nor did any of his family member...infact everyone praised her..it was daddaji's decision and akshara seconded it..that's it...

Naitik and G3 didn't blame Akshara but neither they appreciated her for the effort she has put in. In yesterdays episode...the night scene when Akshara said everything went fine...Naitik disagreed. He said no one appreciated decorations...no one said anything and when akshara told no one said anything does not mean no one liked it. He countered that with these aren't enough as they have to do much better as ladkewale are doing more...where was the appreciation??? Same goes with G3...she even said that humne saadi si ring dedi.

as for saarees, rashmi has to wear it, whether she buys it from mall or kunwarsa, it should be her choice...therez no need for ma ye ma woh...why is akshara so much concerned? bec. money is being wasted or time? her MA will do everything na

When it was going to be Rashmi's decision then why G3 asked Akshara to make all those sarees??? cause at that time Ramabehen's showroom shopping was nowhere in the picture. Gayatri's has zero knowledge about designer wears...so Akshara and Nandini were reasoning with her...but right now the only thing in her mind is pricetag. I think both time and money is wasted...when you can buy something for Rs.10000 then why to incure Rs.25000 and when you wanted to buy the stuff for Rs.25000 then why waste so much of time designing sarees from kunwarsa.

Are they going to serve hard drinks in marriage? Kyunki Deora sahab ke yahan hota hai... 😡Pasta nahin tha...toh preparations were not upto mark. When are they going to understand its not possible to please each and every person in the wedding.Even after spending crores on the function...there wl b ppl who wl find nooks in it. Who better than s's to know this as they have their very own mamaji.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hmmm discussions going on...😊 weekend mein mast time spend karne ka achcha tareeka hai...😆 last episode had left me in a such a situation that i am not able to do anything... down with fever...ab koi kaadha do baba..needs to recover soon to bear the enormous torture that is awaiting us.. Monday is down the line... 😆

i am seriously not taking anybody's side...i know my love for Akshara should have made me stand by her side but these pakao epis n preparations drama had made so disgusted that i don't wanna side anyone... what crap is shown..?? be it Akshara-Dj or Gayatri-Naitik... sab ek dusre ke agains kyun hai..? why..?? can't they just decide upon something n do it mutually...?? itna differences..? both the parties are acting stubborn...kisi ko apne manmaani se jhukna nahi hai... Akshara-Dj ko traditionally karna hai toh Gayatri-Naitik ko Deoras ke comparison mein sabkuch alag...
i too believe ki show off karne se kuch nahi hota...jo hai, jaise hai do it accordingly...Akshara is right on this...but if Naitik wanna do it in a lavish way then why not agree with him..?? they can afford it right..?? and lavish way mein karne ka yeh matlab nahi ki sabkuch unke tradition ke against hoga... if caterers are booked from a 5 star hotel then why is Akshara worried.? in this their Marwari khana ka tradition doesn't comes at stake..😕 cuisine mein chinese, Italian agar aata hai toh kya hua..?? if DJ likes Marwari khana that doesn't mean everybody will like... Naitik is not saying ki marwari khana hoga hi nahi... keeping Deoras in ind they have to arrange things for them...after all they will be baraatis n unke pasand ka khayal rakhna pdhta hai...theek hai sagaai was a learning experience for them...somebody wanted diff, toh shaadi mein karne do na..,.. kuch jayega toh nahi na... ispar itna jhamela kyun..??
n there gayatri is acting crazy...poora sarees change karwa do...she is acting as if they wear bhikari sarees...n they have ordered the same for Rashmi..😕 Rashmi ko saree pehanna hai ya money tags..?? whats the difference between their n Rama's sarees...?? this is simply pagalpan... i can't get this...😕 Rama behen agar showroom se kapde kharid sakti hai toh hum kyun nahi..?? arrey toh jo Rama behen karegi woh use karna hai..?? toh jao apne bete ko videsh mein rehne ki anumati dedo...😆 jao Naitik, go n settle in Canada with ur beloved wife.. 😃.Gayatri abhi Rama behen ke competition mein utri hai...😆 this is severe case of Rajshri... at least there was Dadi to sambhalofy her but yahan the Bma version of Dadi is good for nothing lady...jo choti dulhan kahegi main woh karungi...🤢

ufff...i am so pissed with all these...if gayatri ko spend karna hai toh Akshara should let her do so that peace is maintained at that pagal sadan...coz Gayatri ke saamne kisi ki chalni hi nahi hai..toh kyun apna sar phode..? abhi toh Naitik bhi Rajshri banne par tula hai...toh why not just be quiet n do according to them..?? 😕 ismein kuch galat nahi hai...
oh god itna lamba post..?? 😕 😆 😆
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hmmm discussions going on...😊 weekend mein mast time spend karne ka achcha tareeka hai...😆 last episode had left me in a such a situation that i am not able to do anything... down with fever...ab koi kaadha do baba..needs to recover soon to bear the enormous torture that is awaiting us.. Monday is down the line... 😆

i am seriously not taking anybody's side...i know my love for Akshara should have made me stand by her side but these pakao epis n preparations drama had made so disgusted that i don't wanna side anyone... what crap is shown..?? be it Akshara-Dj or Gayatri-Naitik... sab ek dusre ke agains kyun hai..? why..?? can't they just decide upon something n do it mutually...?? itna differences..? both the parties are acting stubborn...kisi ko apne manmaani se jhukna nahi hai... Akshara-Dj ko traditionally karna hai toh Gayatri-Naitik ko Deoras ke comparison mein sabkuch alag...
i too believe ki show off karne se kuch nahi hota...jo hai, jaise hai do it accordingly...Akshara is right on this...but if Naitik wanna do it in a lavish way then why not agree with him..?? they can afford it right..?? and lavish way mein karne ka yeh matlab nahi ki sabkuch unke tradition ke against hoga... if caterers are booked from a 5 star hotel then why is Akshara worried.? in this their Marwari khana ka tradition doesn't comes at stake..😕 cuisine mein chinese, Italian agar aata hai toh kya hua..?? if DJ likes Marwari khana that doesn't mean everybody will like... Naitik is not saying ki marwari khana hoga hi nahi... keeping Deoras in ind they have to arrange things for them...after all they will be baraatis n unke pasand ka khayal rakhna pdhta hai...theek hai sagaai was a learning experience for them...somebody wanted diff, toh shaadi mein karne do na..,.. kuch jayega toh nahi na... ispar itna jhamela kyun..??
n there gayatri is acting crazy...poora sarees change karwa do...she is acting as if they wear bhikari sarees...n they have ordered the same for Rashmi..😕 Rashmi ko saree pehanna hai ya money tags..?? whats the difference between their n Rama's sarees...?? this is simply pagalpan... i can't get this...😕 Rama behen agar showroom se kapde kharid sakti hai toh hum kyun nahi..?? arrey toh jo Rama behen karegi woh use karna hai..?? toh jao apne bete ko videsh mein rehne ki anumati dedo...😆 jao Naitik, go n settle in Canada with ur beloved wife.. 😃.Gayatri abhi Rama behen ke competition mein utri hai...😆 this is severe case of Rajshri... at least there was Dadi to sambhalofy her but yahan the Bma version of Dadi is good for nothing lady...jo choti dulhan kahegi main woh karungi...🤢

ufff...i am so pissed with all these...if gayatri ko spend karna hai toh Akshara should let her do so that peace is maintained at that pagal sadan...coz Gayatri ke saamne kisi ki chalni hi nahi hai..toh kyun apna sar phode..? abhi toh Naitik bhi Rajshri banne par tula hai...toh why not just be quiet n do according to them..?? 😕 ismein kuch galat nahi hai...
oh god itna lamba post..?? 😕 😆 😆


word to word agreed...😃 kuch likhne ki taakat nahi hai...😆 had been discussng all ths crap frm past few daz bt nothng seems to improve, infact its gettng worse day by day... abhi sab aaram se baitho coz next week same drama & torture hoga...🤢 4-5 aur thread khul jaayenge isi vishay par...😆
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word to word agreed...😃 kuch likhne ki taakat nahi hai...😆 had been discussng all ths crap frm past few daz bt nothng seems to improve, infact its gettng worse day by day... abhi sab aaram se baitho coz next week same drama & torture hoga...🤢 4-5 aur thread khul jaayenge isi vishay par...😆



sochkar hi darr lag raha hai ki kya aane wala hai for the rest of the few episodes...or rather rest of the episodes.. ( no time limit for that ) 🤢 upar se such exciting promos are shown these days...pehle rama with htel ki booking bheek..then Dracula's ring n now wedding planner... 😃 hum sab dhannay ho gaye...sach!!! this shaadi has already broken every record of Naksh's July 2009 shaadi... abhi pata nahi how many varieties of torture is awaiting us...bhale hi cusines mein variety mile ya na mile...tensions n problem har kisam ka milega yeh Mahaan shaadi of the Millennium mein jahan cards are printed without deciding the venue... poora wardrobe change ho jaata hai without prior notice n suggestions..., sagaai mein guests aane ke kuch der pehle tak halwaai nahi aata, ring banne ke baad uspar changes aata hai... i still don't know how did Akshara manage to inscribe the letter 'R' on that ring.?? 😕 ghar par sonaar ka kaam bhi on hai kya..?? kisi ne bataya nahi humko.. 😆😆
baap re...yeh shaadi n uske problems khatam hoga ya nahi i don;t know...but hamare khatam hone ke chances kaafi hai... 😃
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sochkar hi darr lag raha hai ki kya aane wala hai for the rest of the few episodes...or rather rest of the episodes.. ( no time limit for that ) 🤢 upar se such exciting promos are shown these days...pehle rama with htel ki booking bheek..then Dracula's ring n now wedding planner... 😃 hum sab dhannay ho gaye...sach!!! this shaadi has already broken every record of Naksh's July 2009 shaadi... abhi pata nahi how many varieties of torture is awaiting us...bhale hi cusines mein variety mile ya na mile...tensions n problem har kisam ka milega yeh Mahaan shaadi of the Millennium mein jahan cards are printed without deciding the venue... poora wardrobe change ho jaata hai without prior notice n suggestions..., sagaai mein guests aane ke kuch der pehle tak halwaai nahi aata, ring banne ke baad uspar changes aata hai... i still don't know how did Akshara manage to inscribe the letter 'R' on that ring.?? 😕 ghar par sonaar ka kaam bhi on hai kya..?? kisi ne bataya nahi humko.. 😆😆
baap re...yeh shaadi n uske problems khatam hoga ya nahi i don;t know...but hamare khatam hone ke chances kaafi hai... 😃

taffy if naitika dngay3 arrange wedding planners don't knwo if akshi kept quiet also dj and rb vl say soemthign and natiik vl eb angry and gay3 rona dona meri ek beti hai usse acha se shaadi karna hai paisa hai na kyun karch karneka nahi really poora wardrobe change hoga and may be ay3 vl cahgne wearing nighties too really pakao taffy episodes baari main mujhe tho maha epi i think v cannot tokerate it yaar bakwaas and worst wedding plans in the history of yrkkh really naksh bhi humain nahi chode yaar they only argue more and more patheitc serial hogayi hai
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How was naksh scene yesterday?i couldnt catch epi and its repeat.i read wu through net in my phone as my pc is not working so cant watch the video.i am eager to watch naksh scene but it seems its not that good because of very less comments on it.i have to wait till monday and i love to watch naksh scenes so i wanted to know how was it,if it is worth watching? I know its not related to topic but right now this topic seemed active.pls reply(writing throu phone)

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