I dont think Akshara is interfering

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Oye Vini I am stepping into your shoes. I will try to defend Akshara in your absense...its difficult but worth a try...😆 I'm swimming against the tide..wish me luck my frnds that I don't fall down this waterfall.

Chalo lets start...For past few days I am reading lot of post blaming Akshara for interfering...its nothing new but this time I dont think she is wrong... Few weeks back when wedding preparations were started all the responsibilty for Rashmi's marriage was given to Akshara...from clothes to jewellery...from halwai to decorations almost everything.She was even blamed for negligence towards preparation.Then Rashmi did chupke se engagement and there comes the twist in the tale. Singhanias visited Deoras to prepone the date and there they came to know all these nataks...about planners n that Deoras are very rich, modern n different from them...😕 Here entered the male version of Rajshri...Mr. Naitik singhania (I really love Naitik but he is definitely behaving like rajshri these days)... G3 has already superseded Rajshri in taking tension and hyper reaction...🤢 G3 and Naitik wants to show the outside ppl that they are no less to Deora's in status and so they want to spend a lot on the wedding...Will both of them go to any lenght to show off??? So whats the diff between them and rituraj...😕 Chalo Lets comeback to Akshara...

I already mentioned in one of my post About rights and responsibility...I think they are two sides of a coin. With every right comes a responsibility and vice-versa. Akshara is using this right of hers...cause she was given the responsibilty for ring and clothes. She is putting forward her POV and I dont find anything wrong in that.If Akshara can't share her views then its better to tell her not to be a part of that discussions...coz as a member she should be having an equal right in everything...😃 In a group discussions where several members are taking part, there will be several views...we cant say that they are interfering...
  • Ring Incident - Gayatri and Naitik wanted designer ring for Nikhil only when they got to know about Deora's spending a lot on marriage before that they were Ok with whatever they were giving to Nikhil. Akshara agreed with DJ about the ring..it was her opinion. If naitik-G3 felt so strong about buying the designer ring they should have gone ahead and bought it...instead of cribbing later on.
  • Sarees/Clothes - First the lehenga for ring ceremony was changed...Akshara has taken effort to get that lehenga ready on time for the ceremony and G3 didn't have enough courtesy to tell Akshara that she has bought designer lehenga for Rashmi. Akshara has every right to ask G3 for sudden change. I wont call this interference on part of Akshara.Second the yesterday's incident...what was that??? Gayatri want to change the whole wardrobe of Rashmi just cause her saas is gifting her with expensive stuff...😕 The whole lot of sarees which they got it done from kunwarsa...holds no importance now infront of designer ones. Lot of hue and cry was made by G3 for the boluses of these same sarees. Akshara was just explaining to G3 that instead of price they should look at the quality and look of the saree...but now Gayatri will buy any chindi saree if its price tag is Rs.25000 or more...🤢
Agreed Gayatri and Naitik want everything best for Rashmi's wedding...but they are behaving as if they are into some kind of competition with Deora's and Akshara is just reminding them that it is wedding afterall and not some kind of race.
This is my opinion. People can agree or disagree. But plzzz no bashing...😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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completely agree with u .one thing i am not able to understand wat is wrong with naitik,he had all of sudden character change n g3 ufff she has turned nuts
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R eally i am completely agree with u aswari. really gay3 and naitik behaving like shcool kids. O ne mor thign awari if tehy go for sangeet if deora's made a rich arragnement fors angeet again after sangeet theyv l cahgne the caterers and weddign planner sreally so pathetic yar akshi tellign the same saree whtich akshi shwon y'day ws cost of 12 thousand but gay3 wnt tos how ramaben that they brought in teh shwo room y this shwoy yaar. akshi telling her opinion and naitik too y he is behaving like that def he is proving raj 's jamisa. so mcuht ension they vl cahgne time to tiem when the full arrgangemetn going to to be com pleted. so borign again new promo also y again and again they should chagne the weddign planner yaar. askhi tellign na y 'day also they can and they vl do best for ereshmi but no one boy aksed for paasta and antii goen halwa wala askign y he didnt make paasta really i felt so stupid for natiik how can halwa man make paasta akshi todl na she vl handle the food catogrory again natiik changing dont knwo

i wnt tosee if reshmi got married also the deora's going to ask more and mroe then only gay3 and naitik vl coemt o knwo how much mistake they di. next week full they r going to shwo only naksh arguing fro reshmi marrige don't knwo when it is going to be competed akshi shoudlkept quiet lt them coem gay3 and naitik maa beta milke kitna masti i didn't expect from naitik. gay3 shown so mcuh hyper rj is better tahn gay3 yaar promo really annoying em shwon aaksh arging and natiik gay3 need doctors really

one more thign aswari b,ama i didnt expect from her she aslo joine dgay3 in front of her daughternandu only supportingakshi really waht akshi bought was really superb she boruihgt leenga for engagemetn was really superb but felt sad fro akshi there akshi should stop doing any work for reshmi sahadi let maa beta do na then they vl nto blame askhi for anything

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Chal bhai Ashi ? In this particular discussion m also with Akshara 😊 😆 ? I mean I also think k Akshara is not at all interfering in all these ? as u hv said k she was given all the responsibilities ? n naitik ka mind b jyada spend karne ko Deora's k preprations dekh k hi badla hai 😡 I personally don't believe in dikhawa ? but in marriages ppl do lots of dikhawa ? but I believe jo karo dill se do ? khud ko achcha lag raha hai toh samne wale ko b pasana aaye ga ?. N if u urself is not happy with wht u r giving toh hw would u expect it from others k they like tht thing 😕

N in all this the most surprising thing for me is naitik ko ekdum kya ho gaya I mean jab se Deora's k yahan se aaya hai he is only reciting one thig "mai apni behen ki shaadi mei koi kami nahi rakhunga" I mean deoras ko dekh k hi usse yaad aaya k uski behen is getting married n he has to do something? Ab tak aksh jo kar rahi thi tht was ok with him 😡 😕

Ring Incident - Gayatri and Naitik wanted designer ring for Nikhil only when they got to know about Deora's spending a lot on marriage before that they were Ok with whatever they were giving to Nikhil. Akshara agreed with DJ about the ring..it was her opinion. If naitik-G3 felt so strong about buying the designer ring they should have gone ahead and bought it...instead of cribbing later on.
Completely agree with u Ashi dear 😃 Agar ring ka issue itna matter karta hai to like gold chain ye b DJ se bina permission liye different banwa lo ? n after ring ceremony gt over ? pagal ho rahe hai dono maa bete 😆 kisi ko kuch b pasana nahi aaya bt koi kuch bola nahi 😕 I mean wht is this?. Matlab ek bachche ko pasta nahi mila toh sab kiya karaya mittti 😕

I totally agree with DJ on ring issue ? he said 'jaisi anguthi bade jamaisa ko di thi vaisi hi chote jamaisa ko b denge' n he was absolutely ryt ? infact I agreed with DJ on this particular point 😊 karna b aisa hi chahiye ? bhale hi nandu n rashmi r cousins bt they still live in a joint family ? so dono k liye ek jaisa hi hona chahiye ? or else aage ja k dono mei MU b ho sakti hai 😕 n I believe these are the only points jiske wajah se Mus usually hote hai 😕 So in this DJ is abs ryr?. Dono jamaiyo k liye ek sa hona chchiye 😃

Sarees/Clothes - First the lehenga for ring ceremony was changed...Akshara has taken effort to get that lehenga ready on time for the ceremony and G3 didn't have enough courtesy to tell Akshara that she has bought designer lehenga for Rashmi. Akshara has every right to ask G3 for sudden change. I wont call this interference on part of Akshara.

OK if g3 changed Rashmi;s at end moment? but jo kar rahi hai Aksh ko bata k kare? as lehnga ka issue was aksh ka deptt?As I have always seen in weddings k agar ek ki responsibility ka kaam koi dusra karta hai toh usse bta k karta hai ? bt yaahn toh G3 ne lehnga hi change kar dia wo b bina Aksh ko bole 😡 😡
Second the yesterday's incident...what was that??? Gayatri want to change the whole wardrobe of Rashmi just cause her saas is gifting her with expensive stuff... The whole lot of sarees which they got it done from kunwarsa...holds no importance now infront of designer ones. Lot of hue and cry was made by G3 for the boluses of these same sarees. Akshara was just explaining to G3 that instead of price they should look at the quality and look of the saree...but now Gayatri will buy any chindi saree if its price tag is Rs.25000 or more...

😡 😡 Ab tak sabse cheap toh yahi lag raha hai who sirf ye k jo karo who expensive karo bhale hi kitna b ghatiya ho 😕 In yest epi tht saree usme mujhe koi burai nahi dikhi ? itni buri b nahi thi infact ti liked tht 😊 n in marriages ppl spent a lot of money on clothes but not to show off only ? sab dekh k hi karte hai ? Infact in my opinion they want achche se achcha in lowest possible prices (Infact in my family in marriages we purchase sarees/lehngas from chandni chowk n smtyms from Kolkata too) but g3 sab SHOWROOM se legi kyun ? kyunki Rama behen ne wahan se jo liya ahi 😆? wo b 1,000 wala 2,000 mei 😕 😡 kal k epi mei showroom word itni baar use hua k mere mind mei sirf wahi ghooma 😆 n abhi seriously kisi SHOWROOM mei jaane se darr lag raha hai 🤣 kahin Dracula ki saas mill gayi toh 🤣

This is my opinion. n humari Self proclaimed AksharaROFL i.e. Vini di aaj toh m also with u 😃

Edited by divi4u - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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natiik and gay3 talk about rr and bindya showy but waht munna and gay3 doign y this much felt bad for akshi waht akshi bouht lehemga for reshmi for whcihnishmi leave akshi goen soemwhere gay3 kya sunaya akshi ko?even seh told her bahu dyaan nahi rehata really she taunted askhi toomuch now waht they do yaar dotn what they vl change if they coem after attendign sangeet yar one of the worst wedding preparations shwon in tv yaar so much dissapiointed reshmi marraiage naskh arguing ech other yaar fed up don't knwo what is stored for us next week and even for maha epi too dotn knwo again ntehy show weddign preparations cant take it
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Oh thanku so much asawari 4 this post.jo jo mein kehna chahthi thi wo sab u told.mere man mein ye sari baathein bahut dino se chal rahi hai.im totally agree with u.yahan sab log akshi ko dhosh de rahi thi.lekin is baar muje akshi mein koi fault nazar hi nahi aayi.she has right 2 interfere these matters na,then why all r blaming her.im not liking naitik's this behaviour.g3 tho pehle hi chamaleon hai,baar baar rang badalthi rehti hai.but naitik,i didnt expected this 4rm him.sudden change.wo bhi rr hothe huye.naitik ko kyun rr bana rahe hai.hope this tortorous marriage will end soon.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@Divi: Vini ki pro Akshara gang badhti ja rahi...she wl b really happy to know this... 😆
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Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

@Divi: Vini ki pro Akshara gang badhti ja rahi...she wl b really happy to know this... 😆

really awari loved everyoen supporting skhi in thsi soem peopel views differ liek naksh arguments but reallly they shoudl shwo so much tension between teh family dj is keeping quiet he decided not to interfere between gay3 and naitik doign now want tosee akshi aslo does the samething she can concentrate on herself😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

@Divi: Vini ki pro Akshara gang badhti ja rahi...she wl b really happy to know this... 😆

Tum bolti ho toh bata doon abhi 😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
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akshi is off reshmi agae may eb oen eyar older but she really managed so mcuh ss but gay3 and natiik nto believing her really they sideline akshi yaar feelign bad i want tosee akshi ignoring tehm too let them do what they want to do gay3 hai na zaroor kuch na kuch galati karenge hi b,ma too so annoying yaar she too support gay3 infront of her daughter

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