Did Akshara cross the line? - Page 2

I am totally confused whather akshi did right or wrong. some tiem gay3 nature is so irritaitng sari.Really how one can show this much showing all her anger to her bahu who si always behind her not even bother about her husband. Everytime u cannot take akshi for granted,.Thsi is becoz of akshi who always sorry maa mujhe maaf kardijiye. so boring. really me too waiting for mon episoe. don't knwo what vl naitik say to askhi ro hwo gay3 react to it.Atlease now onwards akshi shoudl stand for herself and naitik cannot alwys their to supprot her.She should be strong and want to see soem maturity in akshi's character.

Inthe new promo again gay3 shown her hyper cant digest. Rama ben talling gay3 vish is ur samdan so u talk to them so patheitc. How come gay3 vl help her in this.This mahaan gay3 again told akshi taht tum apni maayke walon se baat ki and out amate haan maa babuji saying already it isbooked but cannot cancel it.Really i laughed sari, when gay3 telling rama ben humse haan ke umeed se bahite hain .Whatshe want to say to askhi?vl akshi force her fatehr to cncel theri booking and give it to ramaben. hoep akshi dont do this.its Deora's talk to men in the house . not gay3 and akshi.

what do u feel sari what gay3 doing is correct or wrong?they aslo do business, they knwo its nto possible. hwo come gay3 expects that vish should cancel bookings , one thing i dotn understand how come deora's calling and expects ss vl get teh booking in the hotel.dont know sari more hyper gay3 v r going tosee hope akshi be stabel adn hamdle this.

well i dont think akshi is wrong as gaya3 had crossed her limit she shudnt hv got the MC stuff in this yaar c'mon one is trying to forget bad times and u taunt the person with same is unbearable yaar i think akshi did right by telling bak to gaya3

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Loved your response, so well written with real world analogy👏 It's very direct & your sincerity touches me; it comes straight from the heart👏 I can tell just from reading your posts that you say it like it is & I'm sure you have gotten in trouble for that same reason😆 I know I have, not once but several times but like Akshara I never learn...🤣

The pre-cap actually made me pause & think. Is it really still a big deal when the younger generation question the older generations judgement or hurtful comments?😕 Yes, growing up we were never encouraged to reply back even to people who grossly misrepresented our thoughts & I still get the same advice from my mother when I am upset over nosy relatives😆

Yes, I have never experienced the mamaji types nor do I have to deal w/in-laws on a daily basis. So the interactions are fewer so I mostly ignore, which angers them even more while I enjoy the fruits over the chagrin written all over their faces😆 Evil, ha? But I'm mostly the passive aggressive type & the message is conveyed loud & clear without even saying a word😆 I pick my battles & when push comes to shove I do speak up & it's definitely not pretty but it's a very rare occurrence coz ignoring has worked wonders😉😆

Akshara is naive if she believes that pyaar se G3 ka dil jeet sakthi hai. If she has not won over G3 in the last 2 years, it's never going to happen. It's time for Akshara to accept this & find a new strategy to protect herself from getting hurt time & again. Woh hur baath ke liye sorry bolna has gotten herself in this mess🤢 Agar galthi nahi hai tho sorry kyun bolna hai?😕Why panic if you are not guilty? She throws in the towel even before the battle has begun & G3 puts her on the defensive due to this very nature Ab Mon ko bhi yahi hoga, she will go and cry on her lap again. Maa, pata nahi kya hua mujhe, mein samaj hi nahi pathi, kya bolo. Aap sahi kehthi hai,mera dhyan patha nahi kaha rehta hai...🥱 This will only empower G3. Akshara, pls prove all of us wrong👏 We will be cheering you on the sidelines👏

Originally posted by: _charu_

we all will cheer for Akshara if she doesn't follow her sorry routine this time..i'm expecting a good naksh scene on monday..naitik will pacify akshara (i hope he doesn't defend his mom..woh pareshan hai rashmi ki shadi ko lekar 🤢 ) and even if gayitri shows attitude n doesn't talk to akshara, she must continue doing her routine work and ignore gayitri...gayitri should also realize her mitake..

hopefully it happens and akshara doesnt appolize yaar warna der was no use of her raising the voice .

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Brief summary before I get to the bottom line😉

1. Deora's have Delhi se chef 🤢 - S's have MJ👏
2. Deora's have managers + wedding planners 🤢 - S's have Naitik + Akshara⭐️👏
3. Deoras have booked a 5 star hotel 🤢 - S's have M's group of hotels⭐️⭐️

Ab Munna yeh batao, hum barabar kaise nahi hai? Why is Munna behaving like the 2 maa's, chinta stricken? 😲 Between the hall & the Mandir, Naitik had a shave😆 Shayad Sam ki baate CV's ne pad liya aur Akshara ne Munna ko madad kiya but afsos humhe nahi dikhaya😡 Sorry Sam, but I had to rub it in...🤣

Maa-beti conversation mein, Akshara should have simply stayed out🤢 G3 can control her daughter any way she chooses. Rashmi is not a child, and she had a good defense too. Akshara's intention was honorable, she thought the situation was going out of control but she came in the line of fire

To an extent G3 was right to tell Akshara to stop interfering & this isn't the first time. Akshara kyun nahi samjthi?😕 However G3 should not have uttered the last line. Baar baar shutting Akshara up with that below the belt remark is distasteful coming from an elderly person🤢 Gusse mein ho jatha hai & I expect a maa-beti hug Won't last long, "sorry maa - tum meri beti ho/gusse mein bol diya" moment will come sooner than expected. Kitchen scene scared BM too...🤣 Now it's all making sense, RB's stick to khana funda is for a reason😆 Iss eccentric aurat se panga lene se accha hai, pet puja karo aur khush raho...🤣

Now on to my questions(Sorry Kaumudi, you still have the job😆)

• How much is too much? As a culture we are expected to respect our elders. Does that mean we cannot speak up when we feel wronged. When have you as a younger person exceeded your limits? Was Rashmi or Akshara wrong in replying back?
• Do you think G3 needs anger management?🤣
• If you are defending G3, was she right in saying what she did? Should she take out her anger on her bahu every time?Should G3 let Rashmi chose her clothes at her wedding?
• Was she right in putting Naitik in a tight spot knowing that she may have hurt bahu, maybe unintentionally?

That ends my bak-bak; put on your thinking caps.😃

YES!! We are brought up in a world, where our culture expects us to never talk back to people who are older than us. And YES! Our mums' wink or show an angry face when we do something wrong in front of the others, specially when we talk back! This is how we are brought up. But, I think most of them would agree with me if I say that, these days we youngsters cross the line when it is necessary, specially when we think that we need to speak up and stand up! This might not please out parents or anyone older, who do not represent nor understand our generation. I do this whenever I am certain that the other person is wrong and of course the result is later-on when I meet my mum in private.
When it comes to Akshara, she has in laws who think that a girl knowing to drive is the biggest crime of all. I personally feel that Akshara did the right thing in defending her self. I do not think that she would have spoken like that, if Gayathri hadnt brought up the miscarriage matter. The miscarriage is something very close to Akshara. We all know that she went through an emotional roller coaster with the issue, to the extent that created misunderstandings with the love of her life, Naitik. Gayathri was wrong in bringing that up and tormenting her with it every time, she argues with her. That will obviously hurt Akshara. Naitik always says that Gayathri doesnt know what she says when she is angry or sad! Then this can be applied to Akshara as well. Specially when it is something very close to her heart. Akshara is trying her best to forget everything, but it is her Mother-in-law reminding her the loss. I am so glad that Naitik was there and hopefully he was listening to the part where Gayathri was linking Akshara's miscarriage and the crazy incident that happened. Akshara told him a few days ago that Gayathri was talking to DJ about the same thing. So, Naitik should understand how his wife is emotionally tortured by his mum! Naitik needs to stand up for Akshara. Coz she is not wrong in talking back like that!!

First of all nice post sari Di...🤗
Coming to the topic agree with you that from childhood we are being taught to respect the elders...we are expected to obey what our elders tell us...but that does not mean we should not put our POV.Speaking up for something which we think is right w/o being rude should not be termed as disrespecting... Me as a person is rebellious by nature...I ask lot of questions...😆 Some of them are answered and lot of them are ignored as aaj kal ke bacche bohat sawal puchte hai... 🤣 As far as exceeding limit is concerned we do that a lot with our parents... and then we feel guilty about doing so...😔 phir do din baad wohi galti karo...😆 I dont think Rashmi or akshara were wrong...They were within their limit to express what they feel about certain things and nowhere they were rude...like Rashmi said it is she who is going to wear those cloths then why not accept her opinion.G3 said what she felt...so did Rashmi and akshara then why G3 felt bad...😕 Just because other person is not agreeing...you can't blast that person for having diff opinion. For every action there is equal and opposite reaction...G3 acted and Rashmi/akshara reacted...😆
G3 Definitely need anger management ASAP...🤣 I wl never defend G3...when it comes to akshara...😆 Somebody should really show her the mirror...how ugly she looks when she behave this way...🤣 Ofcousrse G3 should allow Rashmi to choose her clothes as they are worn for comfort...If Rashmi is not comfortable in what she is wearing it wl definitely show on her face... Dragging Naitik in this whole issue is quite unneccessary...😡 Why put him in a tight spot where he has to choose betwn 2 equally imp ladies in his life...😕 G3 will never apologies... it is not in her nature...there are lot of incidents when she later on came to know that she was wrong but she never uttered the word SORRY...it is difficult for her to accept her mistake...

Originally posted by: --Sari--

Great insight, typical smrth style👏The pre-cap is a very common occurrence in our culture. Most husbands are ridiculed for speaking up for their wives😕 They are branded either as hen pecked or joru- ka- gulam😆 To prove that he indeed is the one wearing the pants so to speak in the relationship Naitik probably will want to stay neutral in the future even though he clearly feels his wife is probably right That is when Akshara will have to stand up for herself or just be reduced to a nobody like she is being treated now.

Originally posted by: JAYA_09

I am totally confused whather akshi did right or wrong. some tiem gay3 nature is so irritaitng sari.Really how one can show this much showing all her anger to her bahu who si always behind her not even bother about her husband. Everytime u cannot take akshi for granted,.Thsi is becoz of akshi who always sorry maa mujhe maaf kardijiye. so boring. really me too waiting for mon episoe. don't knwo what vl naitik say to askhi ro hwo gay3 react to it.Atlease now onwards akshi shoudl stand for herself and naitik cannot alwys their to supprot her.She should be strong and want to see soem maturity in akshi's character.

Inthe new promo again gay3 shown her hyper cant digest. Rama ben talling gay3 vish is ur samdan so u talk to them so patheitc. How come gay3 vl help her in this.This mahaan gay3 again told akshi taht tum apni maayke walon se baat ki and out amate haan maa babuji saying already it isbooked but cannot cancel it.Really i laughed sari, when gay3 telling rama ben humse haan ke umeed se bahite hain .Whatshe want to say to askhi?vl akshi force her fatehr to cncel theri booking and give it to ramaben. hoep akshi dont do this.its Deora's talk to men in the house . not gay3 and akshi.

what do u feel sari what gay3 doing is correct or wrong?they aslo do business, they knwo its nto possible. hwo come gay3 expects that vish should cancel bookings , one thing i dotn understand how come deora's calling and expects ss vl get teh booking in the hotel.dont know sari more hyper gay3 v r going tosee hope akshi be stabel adn hamdle this.

G3 shouldn't put pressure on the M's or Akshara to get the hotel for the Deora's😡 The M's are not obligated to comply to every Singhania request especially business related. They cannot offend their clients for their samdhi's especially when their samdhi is not reasonable here. Where is the parampara now? Akshara cannot ask them for money but it's ok to pressure them to cancel somebody else's reservation & lose their clients & the goodwill among their customer base?

If DJ gets to hear this he would definitely correct G3 and will not accept any favors from Vish. I think Akshara should consult w/Naitik & DJ before she goes to Vish. She doesn't want to make the same mistake twice although I wouldn't mind another batwara😉😆

good post sari...👏
loved evrybody's views... i must say all r relationship specialists here... kitna kuch seekhne milta hai yaha...😃

my view is tat 1 shudn't force anybody in the matters of food & clothng... its all abt comfortability & taste... depends on individual... i personlly dont take anybody's advice on food & clothes... my mom too crib tat i alwaz wear ethinic clothes... bt wat to do i love tat.. same goes wid rashmi... if she likes wat she wears thn g3 shud keep quiet... itna bhadakne ki zarurat kya hai??? rahi baat akshara ki, toh mujhe nahi lagta she was wrong in defendng rashmi... she tried to cool off the situation bt g3 ulta uspar hi bhadak gayi...😡 yaha par g3 shud appologise for her stupidity... bt as asawri said woh kabhi maafi nahi maangegi, i second her... so no hopes frm 2mrw's epi 😔

awesome post sari... 👍🏼
oori baba, onek lomba discussions cholche...😆 😆 good points everyone...loved everyone's post...😃
as for me, Akshara didn't cross her line...as kal i could see a jhalak of Tafseer in Akshara..😃 i have that quality in myself...can never take wrong things...ulta i go a mission to shudhrofy duniya...😆 galti na hone par chup chaap sunna is not my quality that is why i never used to like that sab kuch sun lene wala quality of Akshara... and kal usne bola toh how could i consider her wrong... to put forward our POV is nothing wrong...in a group discussions where several members are taking part, there will be several views, we can't judge them as right or wrong...every view should be valued...which in this case we can't expect, as Gayatri is the female Hitler here... usne jo kiya woh sahi n esp bahu ki saari baatein galat...how..?? 😕 Akshara ki chuppi ne gayatri ko aur bhi zyada badhawa diya to continue her autocratic female rule n kabhi kabhi toh on top of DJ too...DJ is only nominal head of the family...real dor is in Gayatri's hand... koi ise chup nahi kara sakta...RB se toh no umeed kabhi.. even Dj seems to lose in front of her..n kal bhi i don't feel kuch hoga...Akshara ne jitna kaha uspar bhi she will repent shayad... but jo usne kaha woh kehna zaroori tha...its just to present ones' view...she never had any intention of disrespecting Gayatri...sapne mein bhi she can't dare too... that too on this clothes' matter...it was simply pagalpan from gayatri's side to force Rashmi to wear heavy sarees n blouses when she doesn't like it... Akshara gave her eg too of all the heavy sarees just hanging on the rack after all the function but still Gayatri was on the motto that she is always right n now too she is right... 😕 Rashmi too tired to put her preference but Gayatri ne toh kisi ki sunna hi nahi...ab bahu bole ya beti, use kuch fark nahi padhta...
n then gayatri bringing in the MC issue, which was not tolerated by me, then how could she expect Akshara not to say anything after hearing those stuffs..?? 😕 baat baat par bahu ko beech mein laana is very ajeeb...agar kal bhi akshara kuch nahi bolti toh woh galat hota...toh according to me, Akshara ne kuch galat nhi kiya...hopefully she does this frequently to keep Gayatri where she should be...apne hadh mein..😆 😆
agar Akshara ne jo kiya woh badtameezi hai toh what n where am I..?? 😲 😲 😲 badtameezi ki sardar..badtameezi ki pahad par ?? 🤣