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Posted: 14 years ago

#51

Naitik was having headache, he was coughing profusely. Uski health toh theek haina... 😕

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Nishi

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Posted: 14 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh
Naitik was having headache, he was coughing profusely. Uski health toh theek haina... 😕

hope they wont bring about a stupid track

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Posted: 14 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh
Naitik was having headache, he was coughing profusely. Uski health toh theek haina... 😕

if he gets slight fever it is good... akshi takes care of him... she will be always with him naa...

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--Sari--

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Posted: 14 years ago

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The M's were refreshing today in weird way. As absurd as the whole Sulo track is, a cheerful Varsha Dear, RJ & kaki jumping rope sari aur palla ke saath was amusing to watch😆 Maybe they should have Akshara jumping rope instead..🤣Aise wierd ideas kaise aathe hai? Dekha ghatiya episodes ka natija? An otherwise wierd scene bhi accha lagne laga hai😆

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Shyamal

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Posted: 14 years ago

#55

We cant blame akshi for all this . She is also a human yaar
she is a human . Kabhi kabhi gusse mein insaan kuch ulta sidha bol deta hai . We should let go it . Waise to naitik ne bhi ek baar akshara ko ghar se jane ke liye kaha tha , but he didnt mean that . He spoke all in anger and frustration and same happened with aksh today . Hope this mu gets solved fast .

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Samirah Hossenbux

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Posted: 14 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: _charu_

i agree with you ! the frustration built up and she blurted out something which she shouldn't have...and i think she just meant that , nothing else ! i'm sorry dear i understand what u must have gone through but accusing ur husband this way in reality will have some serious repurcussions ! in reality i have experienced it..it's easy t let out your frustration but never expect that the other person will understand..aisa kabhi nahi hota ! he's also a human, when he'll get THIS in return of his love, he'll be devastated for sure !

after my 2nd baby, i had so many mood swings and i genrally dun have any channel to let it out...it's only my husband or children n i'm paying a heavy price for it...i was initially disappointed that i didn't have a boy the 2nd time...i had a good chat with my husband over it and he explained me his stand..he asked me to think about some better things but again n again the same thought comes to my mind and i get frustrated..more so when ppl. talk that way with me ke u should plan a 3rd child...i can't discuss this with anyone...not even my mom dad...i'm totally satisfied that it's not possible and i'm really very happy n blessed..but somewhere something pinches me all the time ..whenever i take up this topic, he's all the more frustrated !!! how many times yaar? ek hi baat...aur theek hai na?? over the years a few issues , about which i stayed quite or ignored, they came out one day so badly ..my hubby was totally furious and banged his hand on the glass door n it cracked...the wound missed his wrist by inches...i was so so so angry on myself for arguing with him n i can't tell u how much i'm repenting !

IF, GOd forbid, naitik takes an extreme step, what will Akshara do? so i'm glad that with this track, every husband and wife should take a lesson "plz plz plz don't say hurtful things while u r angry"..and something indefinite like "you NEVER cared for me", "you NEVER had time for me"...we tend to do it so often n we don't realize how bad the other person feels ! c'mon it's just this one instance ! HOW guilty is Akshara feeling? i can't describe ke kaise a creepy feeling comes inside me when i hear those dialogues ! ma ko nisharsh kar diya🤢 GAWD it was ur baby, MA ki padi hai maate ko 🤢

But my point is that it's a part of grief to get angry and take it out on our loved ones. It's not controllable. so, when she is doing it, she's trying to deal with her own grief. It's not right, but it's what happens.

As indians we supress so much and just don't understand depression or grief reaction.

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cherrypansy

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Posted: 14 years ago

#57

Agree , what akshi did is not right but happens...even I did the same after loosing a child after eights months of pregnancy...that you did not care for me, gave preference to your professional life etc, etc...today when I think back I do think how could I stoop so down...but I think quite normal...apna gussa , apni frustrtion bhi hum unhi per nikalte hain jo humme sabse pyare hain...

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Charu

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Posted: 14 years ago

#58

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Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

What I didn't like is she cared abt everyone's feeling maa ko nirash kar diya...gharwalon ko nirash kardiya...sabki umeedien tod di...blah blah...damn it what abt ur hubby??? He was the father of that child.

forget hubby, what about Akshara? did she want to be a mother for MA or gharwale? bec. of their expectations? 😲 Saswari, Sari, u both were saying na usne itni badi baat "aise" hi nahi keh di, something might have happened...now what? i'm still clueless as to what happened which made her think that naitik didn't want the child and he's okay with the MC? 😕 she's acting like nandini 100% ! she's a victim of self pity combined with low self esteem, low self confidence and negative thinking..fine, she's not in a sound state of mind...but why only for naitik? why not for ma, dhobi , kitchen and bindiya? look at ppl. like bindiya who don't get any attention frm their husbands 🤢 n there r those who get it in plenty n they don't value it...they think it's for a selfish reason 🤢 ye sab toh woh apne liye karte hai 😡 human nature we always doubt the positive...whenever someone says "ur looking so nice", we think "really?", but when someone says "ur not looking good", we think "oh yes, he must be right" ...when these things come b/w husband and wife , it's not healthy for their relation!

u all r right, we take out our frustration on our loved ones & it's uncontrollable...so did Varsha ! why were u all mad on her?😕 she had a valid reason to get angry isn't it ! Akshara's remarks were more hurtful bec. they were baseless ! she needs some counselling from the doc. and very soon might be needing a marriage counsellor as well 🤢 who will explain her ke husband is more imp. than dhobi, ma, kitchen and khana 🤢

@piyulika, not in Akshara's case...we take out our anger on someone we love but in her case, gussa kyun hai? coz she got all the chances to chat with naitik , he himself asked her ! then she says he spends time with her only when he wants , not when she needs him 😲

Edited by _charu_ - 14 years ago

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JAYA_09

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Posted: 14 years ago

#59

i knwo naitik was badly hurt and u all feel this new promo on 3rd june akshi kaise manayegi apne naiitk ko do u all feel they vl drag what they did in sneha track i knwo this is argumetn and fighting too but sneha's is mu between anskh but it vl be solve soon or it vl take time

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Charu

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Posted: 14 years ago

#60

Originally posted by: JAYA_09
i knwo naitik was badly hurt and u all feel this new promo on 3rd june akshi kaise manayegi apne naiitk ko do u all feel they vl drag what they did in sneha track i knwo this is argumetn and fighting too but sneha's is mu between anskh but it vl be solve soon or it vl take time

ghanta manayegi 🤢 i dun care !

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