accusations w/o valid reasons... :((( - Page 7

Originally posted by: _charu_

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forget hubby, what about Akshara? did she want to be a mother for MA or gharwale? bec. of their expectations? 😲 Saswari, Sari, u both were saying na usne itni badi baat "aise" hi nahi keh di, something might have happened...now what? i'm still clueless as to what happened which made her think that naitik didn't want the child and he's okay with the MC? 😕 she's acting like nandini 100% ! she's a victim of self pity combined with low self esteem, low self confidence and negative thinking..fine, she's not in a sound state of mind...but why only for naitik? why not for ma, dhobi , kitchen and bindiya? look at ppl. like bindiya who don't get any attention frm their husbands 🤢 n there r those who get it in plenty n they don't value it...they think it's for a selfish reason 🤢 ye sab toh woh apne liye karte hai 😡 human nature we always doubt the positive...whenever someone says "ur looking so nice", we think "really?", but when someone says "ur not looking good", we think "oh yes, he must be right" ...when these things come b/w husband and wife , it's not healthy for their relation!

u all r right, we take out our frustration on our loved ones & it's uncontrollable...so did Varsha ! why were u all mad on her?😕 she had a valid reason to get angry isn't it ! Akshara's remarks were more hurtful bec. they were baseless ! she needs some counselling from the doc. and very soon might be needing a marriage counsellor as well 🤢 who will explain her ke husband is more imp. than dhobi, ma, kitchen and khana 🤢

@piyulika, not in Akshara's case...we take out our anger on someone we love but in her case, gussa kyun hai? coz she got all the chances to chat with naitik , he himself asked her ! then she says he spends time with her only when he wants , not when she needs him 😲

Aur Babli aur goni bag ki jitni tareef karo woh kam hai 😡😡😡

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

Completely Agree with you...😃 Akshara has left us with no defence...😆

I mentioned in one of my post y'day that whatever she was accusing naitik of everything implies to her...🤢 There is no justification for her outburst... But I still feel sorry for her...

Originally posted by: _charu_

i can understand that she cannot complain abt her saas to naitik..it's not easy either ! but why not bindiya? or she thinks whatever bindiya said is right 🤢 "ma ka darr", "ma ki expectation", "gharwalon ki aankhen", "mera guilt main khushi nahi de paayi" 🤢 can't CV's do a better job than this? 😡 what about HER wish that she wants to be a mother ?? it's meaningless? those dialogues i just hated ... i dun feel sorry for her..i pity her 🤢 i had tears in my eyes when naitik said "aap aisa kaise keh sakti hai" 😭

Actly di... naitik ka dukh dekh k bahut dukha hua kal... Aksh ye nahi sochti k gharwalo ne agar kuch khoya hai toh ... naitik me b apna baby khoya ahi... Woh ye sab express nahi akrta toh kya hai... tumko nahi dikhta k ur hubby is also in pain

Originally posted by: _charu_

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forget hubby, what about Akshara? did she want to be a mother for MA or gharwale? bec. of their expectations? 😲 Saswari, Sari, u both were saying na usne itni badi baat "aise" hi nahi keh di, something might have happened...now what? i'm still clueless as to what happened which made her think that naitik didn't want the child and he's okay with the MC? 😕

Originally posted by: FLGators

Sorry Charu, didn't see this post. Kal I had a headache, just like my munnalicious Naitik😳 Dono ko ek hi din headache, yeh kaise ho saktha hai...😆YR dekhe YR ki bhimaari bhi aane lagi hai ab tho...😆

I am no Akshara but let me get into her character to defend her😆 Meri tho sirf Naitik ke saamne chalthi hai, Charu. Kya karu, aur koyi muhje samjtha hi nahi...🤣 Mein khoshish kar rahi hu na, aap chaahthe hai ki 2 min mein teekh ho jao? Maa ko kaise kuch bolu, unhe itna dukh hua hai🥱 Aap tho mujhe samajthe haina? 😆

Good try? Isse zyaada nahi hoga, firse sar dard hoga... 🤣 Now a more serious try, the whole thing I think was triggered by the G3-Bindiya conversation. Her self esteem was low with Bindiya's arrival & the conversation fueled an extreme reaction She wanted to talk to her husband that very moment but felt neglected. The arrival of the friends made her think, he was thinking about himself

Naitik by now should realize his friends are not hers😕 She may entertain them in a perfect setting but not now She said to Varsha too, all she needs is sirf Naithik ka saath😳 & she needed it right then😆 Well, he did give her that opportunity but it was a little too late according to her. Already on the dark side, she conveniently concluded he did this for himself too. Her thought process simply ceased at this point.

Naitik se hi kyun? Well, I love that quality of hers. Such a weak portrayal, she can't say a word even to Bindiya but Naitik se haq se ladthi hai, go girl! I find that very endearing. Shows how much his approval, his love, his attention means to her😍 She will get this off her chest but immediately will realize how wrong she was. Words once said cannot be erased but this happens in every loving relationship. Jab itna pyaar hai; forgive & forget follows soon after😍 Although, I detest her weak portrayal I really think she is crazy about him as much as or maybe more. Only difference is, he expresses it more often & she doesn't.

Originally posted by: _charu_

it's okay Sari, even i'm very busy these days..meri bhabhi ki godh bharai hai 🤣 ab akshara ye sunkar JALOUS toh nahi ho jayegi na 😆 i was busy making the preps for baby shower...

I understand what ur trying to say...that time wala issue, ghoomna phirna n all r petty issues, every husband wife argue over them..what i didn't like was guilt wala dialogue and aap bacha nahi chahte the 🤢 n i think we all agree on this ke this was too hard hitting n unnecessary...in a way it implies that naitik is only interested in ghoomna phirna and smp's woh bhi when he likes 🤢 how rude 😭 if he was like that sach mein then i wud have applauded akshara for saying this...

can't say akshara is crazy for whom..naitik or naitik's ma 🤢 i remember everytime she expresses her love for MA n forgets naitik 😕

Akshara cannot lead a normal life bec. woh toh apne liye ho jayega na? jis ladki ne bacha bhi gharwalon ke liye paida karna hai, woh apne liye kya karegi as if she'll be doing them a favor..koi daadi ban jaye koi dadda square 🤢 i have serious doubts whether she can be a good mom..😕 here, she cannot juggle b/w her hubby and kitchen, after baby comes in the picture, i think naitik must take a back seat himself (SAMAJH KAR) and say goodbye to his love forever ! he'll be called again when Akshara wud want a 2nd baby for MA !

Bindiya MA convo must not have been ignored...weak portrayl ke saath Sari, it's a realistic portrayl...if she's doubtful abt becoming a mom again then she should consult a doctor herself..was it THAT difficult to tell the same to naitik?? ke they must visit the doc? if he doesn't have time, surf the internet and find out..there r thousands of ways to do it..my experience says that one HAS to learn to fight their battles on their own ! specially ghar wale...u cannot expect ur hubby to be on ur side 24X7 n fight for u..it's not possible..if something is really really troubling you and u tell the same to ur husband, woh baat hi change ho jayegi ! u can never explain ur perspective so well ! it can be misunderstood also ! it's better than ghar ke issues don't reach the husband...Akshara will have to learn to deal with Gayitri's and Bindiya's of her life..not just them, anytime a random person can come and comment on her mc !