Originally posted by: samirah23
Guys - I know you will not agree with me about this, but this track where Akshara blames Naitik is the most realistic track and although she is in the wrong, it's realistic - here's why:
When someone is going through grief, they first cry and question, but then all of this turns to anger. these are the stages of grief. Often those anger are aimed towards the one you love the most. And, that's Naitik.
I don't know how many of you have lost a child. I lost two children - one was a miscarriage and one was stillborn, and I went through the same stages - first crying, then questioning and then anger. I did take it out on my husband at times because he is the one I love the most. But, because he understood these stages and was patient with me. He's also a very nice husband.
so, that's why I say that this track is realistic. I think that although we hate Bindiya, her one job here has been to get Akshara from keeping her grief inside her and letting it out. Although this doesn't happen in Indian families (often it's not acceptable that we have outbursts), this is a normal part of human life.
Please don't take offense to what I said - I am just saying this from experience. It doesn't mean that Akshara is bad, but just facing grief.
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