DOTW - akshara v/s varsha.. (CLOSED)

oh.k.. to start with.. we all know the difference between the maheshwaris and the singhanias.. masheshawari's are a lot more liberal than singhanias and this is the prime reason which in a large way has affected akshara's and varsha's lifestyle as well.. so.. my questions for you all are..

@divya di.. vinita di.. madhavi di.. and tafseer di..

Originally posted by: moonlight08

@divya di.. vinita di.. madhavi di.. and tafseer di..

sorry for disappointing you.. lekin naksh smp. ke liye muje DOTW mein samajh hi nhi aaya ki likhu kya.. isliye iss baar iss topic ko bear karo..

n next time ke liye give me some ideas ki main smp. par kya likhu..😛

Likne ke liye kuch baaki hai? Taffy/Sabi can write books on it by just compiling their past posts🤣

hmm..Varsha Ka naam aate hi mere andar chidh si ho jaati hai... sorry guys but can't hide my feelings for her...😆
arrey Varsha as a bahu is lucky in every sphere of her life.,...use kya nahi mila aajtak.?? n as compared to her , Akshara didn't get anything...( freedom) but it makes no difference as is doesn't affects Akshara...she is always happy with all her bandish as she believes that 'woh ghar ke badon ki bachche hai so badon ko har cheez karne ka haq hai.''...

and plzz don;t compare Shaurya with NAITIK...he stand alone there....Akshara is most privileged to get a husband like Naitik,,,uske saare pichle janams ke punya mil gaye use....😃 😃 mere Naitik jaisa oooopppsssss sorry, 😛 Akshara ke Naitik jaisa koi husband ho hi nahi sakta..😃 he has been supportive in every part of her life....his main motto is Akshara's happiness n to keep her always smiling...Naitik ke sahara ke wajah se toh woh Singhania junglis ke saath reh paa rahi hai....toh Naitik ke saath woh yeh janam kya saare janam beeta sakti hai...😃
and the question of the Dinos dominating Akshara doesn't arise as Akshara ko kabhi feel hi nahi hota...she is comfortable adjusting to it n rather degrading herself...
but Varsha ko aisa karne ka kabi mauka hi nahi milta....she knows how to make things work for herself....thats good about her.....but when she opens her big mouth to guide Akshara with her 43rd class ideas, i feel like thrashing her...

Originally posted by: FLGators

Likne ke liye kuch baaki hai? Taffy/Sabi can write books on it by just compiling their past posts🤣

🤣 sach yaar..i feel so proud of myself...that i have contributed so much to get this Besharam title.. 😳 😳 .😆 😆 SMP ka naam sunte hi mere andar hulchul mach jaati hai...jitna smp discuss kiya hai utna toh shayad board exams mein answers bhi nahi likhenge honge....kaash smp par ek exam hota....😍 😆😆

Kaumadi ' ab mein kya batao yaar, you have put me in a very awkward situation. It's a very tough question paper this time, at least for me. Sab questions ke liye there is only one answer

1)Naitik 😍

2)Naitik😍😳

3)Naitik 😍😳😍

4)Naitik😍😳😍😳

Back from my Naitik hike😉 More seriously, I have to say that Varsha really lucked out with the M's. Isse accha sasural kisiko nahi milega. Varsha ne soch samajke Shaurya ko pakda, smart girl😉 They are very accommodating unlike the Singhania's. Simply put Singhania's tho khadus log hai. There is nothing much you could do change that. The only thing Akshara could have done differently is maa jhaap bandh karo, let Nandini live her life, Gulabogiri chodo, thoda chalaak bano, aur stick to Naitik. Let him handle his folks.

Shaurya & Naitik - Isme puchne wali kya baat hai. Shaurya is my daadu, can't think beyond that. Kya batao sabka daadu lagtha hai, bada bore hai😆 Sorry Kaumadi, my mind just won't accept him as anyone's husband🤣 Woh perfect hai but not pati material, not my type😆 Aur uska angrezi🤣Naitik ke baare mein kuch likna baakhi hai? Perfect husband hai yaar, Uske 100 gunah maaf. All his immaturity, his temper sab kuch acceptable😆 The angry young man has matured to fine young man & oh so januable😍 Naitik should have changed Akshara's perspective in a big way but sadly he hasn't. She is more influenced by the dominant khadus dino's🥱

Varsha has been very manipulative, this is because she always has dadi on her side. Dadi ki ladli hai. I hold dadi responsible for the Jimmy track, my real dislike for Varsha heightened with that track so I just cannot say anything objective about her🤢 Maybe it will take several therapies before I can calm down & say good things about her. Singhania elders can never be a good influence on the younger generation. Pehle apne aap ko sudharo baad mein be a role model😆 I thought DJ had really accepted Akshara as a daughter when he asked her to take off the pallu. But all the dialogues were limited to that one episode & never carried over. There has not been a single influential person that Akshara could look upto. Sab ke sab kahdus hai, pata nahi how Naitik became a Singhania😕

Conclusion - Akshara has the upper hand & it's all worth it. Did I say why? Naitik, Naitik & Naitk............... 😍

I feel varsha is very lucky to get such a understanding n supporting family... they dont blame her for anything... even when they left the house, varsha is not blamed.... but it is not same case with akshara, she will always be blamed one whatever happens in that singhaniass... Akshara is very lucky that she had naitik.... he changed a lot after his marriage with akshara.. he became very understanding... but akshara is no where giving priority to him....

One thing I want say though akshara and varsha both r good bahus, akshara does her job well n knows her responsibilities more than varsha... In that jimmi case varsha not at all agreed to let the jimmi go though her parivaar didn't like having a dog... she showed her anger and disconcern on others and finally got what she wants... If this happened with akshara, though she want to keep the dog, she would have easily let it go for the parivaar... she gives more importance to parivaar than herself...

Finally I can say varsha is very lucky to have maheswari parivar..... n akshara is very very luckyy for having naitik....

true....

Originally posted by: prernacda

true....

but honestly sometimes aksharas behaviour is more alien than an actual alient....she is leaving the opportunity to go with naitik, to keep her friends and family happy.

Varsha was always more mature than akshara and gives shaurya importance of all. does what she wants....and gets what she wants, by hook or crook...Treats all in laws with respect, without sacrificing her self respect...smart and never liked her more self centered role, but since the discussion is about comparing the 2....perhaps because she was brought up more strictly with no father and akshara was the pampered princess in the ivory tower from day 1 and replaced 1 ivory tower for another after marriage....at least 2 days with no crying...sorry forgot.....she had clicked the escape button, until her mom gave her the reality check...

akshara is the little girl who is still playing with dolls and "ghar ghar" but the live version.... keeping up and being the perfect bahu and the perfect house.....does not know where to draw the line....

love the way gayatri is showing a backbone and giving badi ma a taste of her own medicine....twice in last week...yes...always knew and said in forum, a grey character and victim of circumstances, but not bad at heart....but then in house full of narrow minding twits like dj and his ardhangani....and a husband who is "laxman" to the core...sacrifcing his wifes happiness for his brothers.....welll... I am glad she is finally speaking up!

and if nandini was reading even a few of the forums.....she still does not get the point....pls. leave....mohit , send her the formal seperation papers...she does not deserve you....she is too busy growing up in the ivory tower like her father.....let her be....pampered like akshara but atleast aksharra is nice of heart and does not wish anyone ill...nandini is self centered spoit selfish and devious manipulative....and she plays it so well.....that we love to hate her....

well nandini, enjoy your nariyal ke laddoo and badam ka milk....never was marriage material....rashmi can be and is untrained....varsha is good and has all the love and affection, lucky stars....and akshara is too much, pendulum has swung too much...needs toning down and some honing of skills. she is going to lose naitiks respect and support, because of her stupidity, or should i say naivete.....for "gharwale" who are robots of DJ and dont give a damn....Hope she wakes up and smells the coffee......really soon.!