Originally posted by: beautiful16
i dont understnd 1 thng.... watevr happened in past... akshara alwaz thought of happines for singhania's...which was clear in each & evry incident.... which thy realised sooner or later.... & evn appreciated.... tats y dj evn said tat aksh is no more a bahu to me... she is a daughter.... fir kyu itna hullagulla???? naksh never wanted to go away frm dino's.... wat mansha was he talkng abt???
does makng nandu & mohit meet for good was wrong???
does makng rashmi decide wats good for her future was wrong???
or removng the corrupt accountant was a crime????
or not agreeing to bhainsa on the pregnancy issue was wrong???
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Sabi , kuch sahi galat nahi hota, it's only our thinking...akshara's intention was clear in nandini's case but kya hua? when we make a decision, we r responsible for it but when someone else does it for us, obviously we can blame him in future incase something goes wrong...ppl. find that scapegoat around them and akshara toh is ever-ready to become one ! thodi uski apni akal bhi kam hai...she should have stayed out of rashmi's matter and advised her to talk to gayitri directly...at least gayitri ye na kehti ke naitik aur akshara ki wajah se rishta toot gaya...in nandini's matter also , ek seedha sa solution tha "didi aap decide kar leejiye kya karna hai..mohit chahiye ye bauji ki marzi..mohit chahiye toh bauji ko mana lo, ya phir doctor se shadi karlo"....nanad ke matter mein don't give ur opinion also...try to be as diplomatic as possible...bec. MIL's can forgive any mistake but not tolerate anything bad happening to their daughters...
making nandu and mohit meet was not wrong but not telling nandu and mohit abt it was wrong..usse bhi badi mistake was not talking to mohit abt the problem..
not agreeing to bhainsa on pregnancy issue was 100% right (my opinion) bec. it's their personal matter...na nanad ka na office ka..naitik ne theek jawab diya tha us time π
kami nikalne walon ki kami nahi hai duniya mein..ppl. try to find kami in perfection also....yahan akshara gave these ppl. golden opportunity...
Edited by _charu_ - 14 years ago