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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: feeb
comeone guys if u dont like someone, u dont, u want to get married only once & u hope u pick the right person, if something turns u off in the begining itself, it is better not to go down that path

exactly..

watever it is.. first impression is always the last impression.. at one point of tym.. watever 1st impression u had on a person will cum out.. n wen rashmi was so very pissed off with that person.. itz better not to marry him.. see naitik n akshara in this case.. wenever naitik is angry.. he always tells akshara "aapko sirf argument karna hi aata hai na".. that first impression doesn't really get out of a person's mind..

her reasons for rejection may be very immature.. but.. in the end.. itz her decision.. n itz the question of her lyftym.. no matter wat may be the reason.. the biggest fact here is that rashmi doesn't lyk suraj..

also.. she's young rite now.. rishton ki kami to nhi hogi uske lie.. so.. she can take dis risk of rejecting a person for all the childish reasons..

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: moonlight08
exactly..
watever it is.. first impression is always the last impression.. at one point of tym.. watever 1st impression u had on a person will cum out.. n wen rashmi was so very pissed off with that person.. itz better not to marry him.. see naitik n akshara in this case.. wenever naitik is angry.. he always tells akshara "aapko sirf argument karna hi aata hai na".. that first impression doesn't really get out of a person's mind..

her reasons for rejection may be very immature.. but.. in the end.. itz her decision.. n itz the question of her lyftym.. no matter wat may be the reason.. the biggest fact here is that rashmi doesn't lyk suraj..

also.. she's young rite now.. rishton ki kami to nhi hogi uske lie.. so.. she can take dis risk of rejecting a person for all the childish reasons..

Ditto...👏 👏 But i feel in rashmi's case where her own family members feels that the reason for rejecting the guy is very childish..they should have take the initiative to make her understand the severity behind the situation or rather they could have arranged another meeting with the guy....so that they could understand each other better bcoz ultimately in first meeting no one can judge a person...

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: moonlight08
exactly..
watever it is.. first impression is always the last impression.. at one point of tym.. watever 1st impression u had on a person will cum out.. n wen rashmi was so very pissed off with that person.. itz better not to marry him.. see naitik n akshara in this case.. wenever naitik is angry.. he always tells akshara "aapko sirf argument karna hi aata hai na".. that first impression doesn't really get out of a person's mind..

her reasons for rejection may be very immature.. but.. in the end.. itz her decision.. n itz the question of her lyftym.. no matter wat may be the reason.. the biggest fact here is that rashmi doesn't lyk suraj..

also.. she's young rite now.. rishton ki kami to nhi hogi uske lie.. so.. she can take dis risk of rejecting a person for all the childish reasons..

first impression and your impression abt the guy can be wrong also...we can be wrong , our parents can also be wrong..but here i feel, both times, with nandini & with rashmi, they chose the right guy according to their status& thinking ...she doesn't like the guy, fine..but at least find a valid reason...bec. who knows she will get worse than this in future...see, no guy or girl is perfect..somewhere everyone have to compromise...if naitik tells akshara all this then he's not wrong...the first impression that naitik got was that the girl is argumentative, shy, etc. etc. but was it 100% correct? it depends on the situation isn't it? the first impression that akshara got of naitik was that he's very short tempered and he has a big ego problem..is this the complete truth? he is but not everytime...again it depends on the circumstances how he reacts or rather, overreacts...doesn't he love her at the same time? and then, these qualities work in akshara's favor at times.... if we're talking of first impression then akshara should have rejected naitik after the 2nd meeting....who is willing to spend her life with a guy who behaved that way?? what abt that time when naitik doubted her abt the pen guy? and created such a big fuss over rituraj?

the only solution is to get to the root of the problem..rashmi should have manofied her mom earlier that she wants to talk to the boy who's coming to see her ..she should have convinced her parents that she needs time to think and they must not say yes/no for the rishta before she checks the boy out....with this stupid action, not only singhania's were ashamed but vishambhar's relation with jindals was also spoilt..it's better to put your conditions first if ur so choosy !

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Posted: 14 years ago

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yaa ryt i was also thinking hw she cn decide in 1 meetin oly dat she want to marry hm or nt!! no doubt to meet d person wid whom u hav to liv ur life its rytt.. rather dan its imp to decide ourself.. bt in 1 meetng oly!! n wts d reason?? he doesnt match her!! it shud nt b a reason!! agr koi accha reason ho k he is nt gudd or anythng else den cn undstnd bt!! bass ye naksh ko phasane k lie story writer kuch b likh rae he.. koi accha to reason dikha hi sakte the naa!!

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: gutky

Ditto...👏 👏 But i feel in rashmi's case where her own family members feels that the reason for rejecting the guy is very childish..they should have take the initiative to make her understand the severity behind the situation or rather they could have arranged another meeting with the guy....so that they could understand each other better bcoz ultimately in first meeting no one can judge a person...

2nd meeting is a sin in the eyes of singhania's ! better option wud be that next time rashmi tells her parents what kind of boy does she want...toh they must ask him openly ke u like movies or no otherwise ur rejected !

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2nd meeting is a sin in the eyes of singhania's ! better option wud be that next time rashmi tells her parents what kind of boy does she want...toh they must ask him openly ke u like movies or no otherwise ur rejected !

yaah right di that would be the best option....😆 😆

u known what di when this epi was aired i was watching it with both of my parents... n when in the end rashmi told the reason for rejecting the guy my dad was like..😲 😆 at first they both busted laughing but then later both of them started lecturing... kya soch hai aaj kal ke bacchon ki?? yeh bhi koi reason hai mana karne ka??? 😆 even though my parents are quiet reserved but still they feel its mandatory to meet the guy b4 marriage atleast in todays generation.. bcoz ultimately it helps the couple to understand each other better in future...😉 i agree rashmi's reason for saying NO is very childish... but that is wat we ask a person wen meeting for the first time right.. i mean wats ur hobbies,, ur likes, dislike, ur qualification.. etc... but sadly watever she asked him she got all negative vibes in return n may be coz of that she thought both weren't that compatible...😕

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: gutky
2nd meeting is a sin in the eyes of singhania's ! better option wud be that next time rashmi tells her parents what kind of boy does she want...toh they must ask him openly ke u like movies or no otherwise ur rejected !

yaah right di that would be the best option....😆 😆

u known what di when this epi was aired i was watching it with both of my parents... n when in the end rashmi told the reason for rejecting the guy my dad was like..😲 😆 at first they both busted laughing but then later both of them started lecturing... kya soch hai aaj kal ke bacchon ki?? yeh bhi koi reason hai mana karne ka??? 😆 even though my parents are quiet reserved but still they feel its mandatory to meet the guy b4 marriage atleast in todays generation.. bcoz ultimately it helps the couple to understand each other better in future...😉 i agree rashmi's reason for saying NO is very childish... but that is wat we ask a person wen meeting for the first time right.. i mean wats ur hobbies,, ur likes, dislike, ur qualification.. etc... but sadly watever she asked him she got all negative vibes in return n may be coz of that she thought both weren't that compatible...😕

ab this is wrong na...it' gr8 to choose ur partner but i guess rashmi knows her family very well..what she told akshara AFTER meeting sooraj, she should have said that before meeting him..i mean before his parents came....akshara or naitik wud have thought of some plan to make it possible..didn't naitik ask his mom tht he wants to talk to the girl?? all this should happen beforehand.....it was too bold for her to say no for the marriage after the rishta was fixed.bec. this is not considered good even in normal circumstances...yes, it's not possible to understand marriage till the time u get into it....sach, aajkal ke bache just know i want this this that...mujhe acha nahi laga toh nahi laga...first impression theory works with strangers not with ur life partner...when u start living with that person, the qualities which u like before marriage u may start disliking them and vice versa....like i said before, try to judge a person by his thinking, not by his habits/ hobbies..

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