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Posted: 14 years ago

how can rashmi decide in 1 meeting? if that was the case then, naitik and akshara shouldnt have got married. their first meeting on the terrace was a disaster. how come naksh forgot that conveniently ?

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Charu

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Posted: 14 years ago

if they refuse this rishta will rashmi get a better match? all the families r maha conservative..how many of them allow their bahus to watch movies and hang out with friends in yrkkh? when the next rishta will come, nobody will ask rashmi her permission or allow her to talk to the boy ! will the situation improve by acting childish? it's better to convince ur parents with a VALID reason to say no ! first be sure of what you want...

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Posted: 14 years ago

i think we shld not compare naksh and rashi matter here bcoz both r different.............like naitik said yest to nandini her matter an rashmi r totally different............actually rashmi set her mind that she want like these husbands.......and when she met suraj.........she feel tht she would not happy with her..........and i dont think o in 2 meeting suraj would come as cool dude like rashmi want................

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San

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_
if they refuse this rishta will rashmi get a better match? all the families r maha conservative..how many of them allow their bahus to watch movies and hang out with friends in yrkkh? when the next rishta will come, nobody will ask rashmi her permission or allow her to talk to the boy ! will the situation improve by acting childish? it's better to convince ur parents with a VALID reason to say no ! first be sure of what you want...

I am surprised the way they showed that rashmi met the boy & then telling akshra she doesnt like the boy

why didnt akshra ask ----------WHY? if naksh had taken the initiative of arranging a meeting for them then --------itna toh haq tha ke akshara ask rashmi the reason for rejection

even she didnt tell her mom why she didnt like the boy

what would be the standards of the boy & the family when they look for another match?

& who is going to take the innitiative------------again ST?

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cherrypansy

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Posted: 14 years ago

Even i am surprised or rather shocked that noone has tried to ask Rashmi ....has Gaytri tried to talk to her as a mum and got into a positive arguement..no! our dear Akshara is acting as a messenger...even she didn't tried to explain Rashmi...why can' t they arrange for another meeting...i think even Naksh met more than once before their marriage got finalized...

Secondly ..rashmi's immaturity is only showing her lack of exposure....to me she just goes to college...real education would have surely taught her that there is something more than movies and spending time with friends in life....I am saying this from my own experience...I think husband-wife bonding can be in other ways also...

Edited by piyualka - 14 years ago

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San

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: piyualka
Even i am surprised or rather shocked that noone has tried to ask Rashmi ....has Gaytri tried to talk to her as a mum and got into a positive arguement..no! our dear Akshara is acting as a messenger...even she didn't tried to explain Rashmi...why can' t they arrange for another meeting...i think even Naksh met more than once before their marriage got finalized...

Secondly ..rashmi maturity is only showing her lack of exposure....to me she just goes to college...real education would have surely taught her that there is something more than movies and spending time with friends in life....I am saying this from my own experience...I think husband-wife bonding can be in other ways also...

quite agree to what U say

very true

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sanw

I am surprised the way they showed that rashmi met the boy & then telling akshra she doesnt like the boy

why didnt akshra ask ----------WHY? if naksh had taken the initiative of arranging a meeting for them then --------itna toh haq tha ke akshara ask rashmi the reason for rejection

even she didnt tell her mom why she didnt like the boy

what would be the standards of the boy & the family when they look for another match?

& who is going to take the innitiative------------again ST?

akshara in most of the cases is just a messenger n nothing else.. she has never really gone to the depth of the problem.. nothing can be expected of her..

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Charu

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Posted: 14 years ago

both rashmi and nandini poore singhania ke hi bache hai ! they have all the dino qualities in them..they r ready to use any person for selfish reasons and later sideline him/blame him when something goes wrong...see how nandini said "jaise tumne meri madad ki thi?" ..in a way she was directly blaming akshara for pushing her towards mohit...how much more insult can maate take? of course more than this ! bec. even now she didn't stop her didi jaap and now ready to help/destroy rashmi's life ! aur ye kaisi nanad hai? they love to use their bhabhi as a scapegoat (of course maate is ever-ready to offer help) very well knowing that it's a difficult situation for her..bhabhi cannot support her nanad nor can she go against her in laws..but both rashmi and nandini try their best to put akshara in the line of fire..and later on when people like bhainsa taunt her, they meekly say "akshara ki koi galti nahi thi" and there will come "chup raho tum!!"

here, i'd like to praise gayitri that she took all the blame on herself and didn't take naitik's name in front of daddaji...

as far as rashmi's mater is concerned, naitik n akshara should have interacted with sooraj along with rashmi..

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Charu

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: piyualka
Even i am surprised or rather shocked that noone has tried to ask Rashmi ....has Gaytri tried to talk to her as a mum and got into a positive arguement..no! our dear Akshara is acting as a messenger...even she didn't tried to explain Rashmi...why can' t they arrange for another meeting...i think even Naksh met more than once before their marriage got finalized...

Secondly ..rashmi's immaturity is only showing her lack of exposure....to me she just goes to college...real education would have surely taught her that there is something more than movies and spending time with friends in life....I am saying this from my own experience...I think husband-wife bonding can be in other ways also...

for sure therez lot more to life than discussing ur fav. actor with ur partner ! i think all married ppl. here know what i'm talking about...like i said therez a flip side to everything..if the girl is homely, she's not a socialite..if her husband wants her to socialize, her in laws don;t..if the girl is a socialite she's not homely phir se complain..if she wears westerns phir problem, if she wears only indian clothes , wahan bhi problem..music acha lagta hai toh abhi problem, nahi toh bhi problem ! saas ko kuch pasand hai , pati ko kuch aur aur ladki ko kuch aur ! if u marry a serious guy whoz disciplined then u want entertainment in ur life..if it's the other way round, u want ur husband to be serious abt life..if he's handsome then ur insecure that other girls will fall for him or he will flirt with them.....therez no end to your expectations actually...pehle check yourself how good r you for the other person..

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feeb

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Posted: 14 years ago

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comeone guys if u dont like someone, u dont, u want to get married only once & u hope u pick the right person, if something turns u off in the begining itself, it is better not to go down that path

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