Naitik stupid but not at fault.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I feel Naitik was stupid when he used his friend's idea to make Akshara jealous of him/Sneha. Very bad thinking on his part. But, I don't think it's his fault that Sneha mis-understood his feelings for her. It was a pure professional relationship. He never gave Sneha the slightest idea that he was interested in her. She kept misundertanding him & her friend Mitali caused even more MU by teasing Sneha all the time about Naitik. The 2 only met to discuss designs/work. In a professional relationship, you don't always have to discuss your personal relationship. That is, Naitik was not obligated to tell Sneha that he is married, unless she asked him. So Sneha can't blame him for telling him about his wife. She was the one being immature when she started day dreaming about her & Naitik. Naitik didn't buy her the saree as a gift, she was in trouble with the shopowner so Naitik helped her out. She was the one who didn't tell her family about working so they couldn't always meet at the office n had to go to the coffee shop.

Akshi is also not at fault here. Because Naitik was being stupid while Sneha was living in fantasy world.
All this trouble has been created by Sneha & Mitali. Naitik is now stuck in the middle because he was stupid for listening to his friend. Sneha's mom should question her own daughter first, before she puts all the blame on Naitik!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: asiaheart

I feel Naitik was stupid when he used his friend's idea to make Akshara jealous of him/Sneha. Very bad thinking on his part. But, I don't think it's his fault that Sneha mis-understood his feelings for her. It was a pure professional relationship. He never gave Sneha the slightest idea that he was interested in her. She kept misundertanding him & her friend Mitali caused even more MU by teasing Sneha all the time about Naitik. The 2 only met to discuss designs/work. In a professional relationship, you don't always have to discuss your personal relationship. That is, Naitik was not obligated to tell Sneha that he is married, unless she asked him. So Sneha can't blame him for telling him about his wife. She was the one being immature when she started day dreaming about her & Naitik. Naitik didn't buy her the saree as a gift, she was in trouble with the shopowner so Naitik helped her out. She was the one who didn't tell her family about working so they couldn't always meet at the office n had to go to the coffee shop.

Akshi is also not at fault here. Because Naitik was being stupid while Sneha was living in fantasy world.
All this trouble has been created by Sneha & Mitali. Naitik is now stuck in the middle because he was stupid for listening to his friend. Sneha's mom should question her own daughter first, before she puts all the blame on Naitik!


Well said in simple words!
I agree Naitik isn't at fault when it comes to Sneha, but I still feel he isn't completely innocent when it comes to Akshara, simply coz he cud hv told her about the entire truth of his frnd's suggestions and thn his plan,nd later hw thngs followed...He was being stupid here, thinking tht if he'll tell her the truth she'll get upset and thn it'll again affect their happy life!
Sneha isn't completely to be blamed for her feelings...Mitali encouraged her to think tht Naitik likes/loves her! But Sneha IS very very wrong when she puts false allegations on Naitik!! She Definately has abs NO right to question him why didnt he tell her tht he was married..Abs unjustifiable!! Why should Naitik go and tell Sneha abt his personal life when he is in a PURE professional relationship with her??!!!!
Akshara is not right when we see the overall situation, btu she is definately right in her own place!She is bound to react this way when evrythng gets revealed infront of her in such a dramatic way,thanks to ST!🤢
Sneha's mom...uff...what does tht lady intend?? I mean she didnt evn allow ST to talk with Sneha!! Otherwise toh she was saying tht the guy cheated on Sneha, what and how does she know this all happened?!! Does any mother from a conservative family SO blindly trust her daughter when her daughter secretly likes some guy?? Hardly believable....Any sensible mother will first talk with her daughter, ask her to share the entire phase in which she fell for him, and then come to conclusions whether she shud blast at the guy or her own daughter...Her mom doesn't evn know how/when/where did Sneha meet and fall in love with Naitik!!👎🏼 I doubt if she evn knows tht Sneha loves her own boss!!😆
Ohh, and not to forget Naitik's idiot frnd who gave his nonsense suggestion to bechaara Naitik...🤢 Where has he disappeared??He no longer calls up Naitik to ask him if he and Akshi hv come closer?!
Edited by manasi_31 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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It's a very stereotypic thinking that if something is wrong between boy and girl, boy only must have done something wrong. 'Girls are always holier than boys...'
Akshara accusing Naitik that he must have done something wrong is perfectly echo with the thinking of Sneha's mother that Naitik only must have done something wrong.

See two generation of females are thinking in same direction.

Only Shankri Taai tried to ask Sneha to tell her side of the story.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: rightchoice

It's a very stereotypic thinking that if something is wrong between boy and girl, boy only must have done something wrong. 'Girls are always holier than boys...'

Akshara accusing Naitik that he must have done something wrong is perfectly echo with the thinking of Sneha's mother that Naitik only must have done something wrong.

See two generation of females are thinking in same direction.

Only Shankri Taai tried to ask Sneha to tell her side of the story.


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you've summed up all...brilliant post..this is what i wanted to say..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Naitik went a bit out of the way to make his wife jealoue and Sneha in turn misunderstood everyhting. I find her very irritating, so very childish, n also her friend who is aksing her to question Naitik n so also her mother. The topic can be easily buried with some tears instead of investigating further.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am shocked why sneha is not blaming mitali after all it was mitali who provoked sneha's feelings.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sheronia

I am shocked why sneha is not blaming mitali after all it was mitali who provoked sneha's feelings.


bec. she thinks she's being cheated by naitik...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sheronia

I am shocked why sneha is not blaming mitali after all it was mitali who provoked sneha's feelings.

coz sneha don't use her brain when mitali tells her anything then she understand's as in case of her love for naitik so it will happen this time also jab mitali bolegi ki "shayad meri galti thi sneha" tab snaha ke dimag ki batti jalegi aur wo mitali ko blame karegi..........................waise how can someone be so dumb😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: manasi_31


Well said in simple words!
I agree Naitik isn't at fault when it comes to Sneha, but I still feel he isn't completely innocent when it comes to Akshara, simply coz he cud hv told her about the entire truth of his frnd's suggestions and thn his plan,nd later hw thngs followed...He was being stupid here, thinking tht if he'll tell her the truth she'll get upset and thn it'll again affect their happy life!
Sneha isn't completely to be blamed for her feelings...Mitali encouraged her to think tht Naitik likes/loves her! But Sneha IS very very wrong when she puts false allegations on Naitik!! She Definately has abs NO right to question him why didnt he tell her tht he was married..Abs unjustifiable!! Why should Naitik go and tell Sneha abt his personal life when he is in a PURE professional relationship with her??!!!!
Akshara is not right when we see the overall situation, btu she is definately right in her own place!She is bound to react this way when evrythng gets revealed infront of her in such a dramatic way,thanks to ST!🤢
Sneha's mom...uff...what does tht lady intend?? I mean she didnt evn allow ST to talk with Sneha!! Otherwise toh she was saying tht the guy cheated on Sneha, what and how does she know this all happened?!! Does any mother from a conservative family SO blindly trust her daughter when her daughter secretly likes some guy?? Hardly believable....Any sensible mother will first talk with her daughter, ask her to share the entire phase in which she fell for him, and then come to conclusions whether she shud blast at the guy or her own daughter...Her mom doesn't evn know how/when/where did Sneha meet and fall in love with Naitik!!👎🏼 I doubt if she evn knows tht Sneha loves her own boss!!😆
Ohh, and not to forget Naitik's idiot frnd who gave his nonsense suggestion to bechaara Naitik...🤢 Where has he disappeared??He no longer calls up Naitik to ask him if he and Akshi hv come closer?!


well said i think if naitik wud told all this before it wudnt hv creted such big matter akshi wud hv been upset bt nt this much it obvious koi bhi yahi kahe ga ki no girl will fall for someione jus like tat toh akshi is nt wrong at her place coming to sneha love i think in this matter naitik is nt to be blamed bt he is to be blamed for nt telling the truth abt sneha feeling nd his friends advice . and sneha's mom god hw cn she be so calm firstly her daughter loves a guy secretly without getting angry she ws so calm ???? nd nw insteead of first questing her daughter she wants to question naitik wow kya ma hai

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